Lullabies Baby Sleep Consultant & IBCLC

Lullabies Baby Sleep Consultant & IBCLC IBCLC, children's nurse & baby sleep specialist with qualifications in child mental health & maternal trauma & PTSD. Responsive, tailored support.

I support exhausted families across the UK, UAE, USA and Europe — entirely online, whatever your timezone. I'm Lisa — IBCLC, paediatric and neonatal nurse with nearly two decades of experience in clinical nursing, education and service commissioning across the UK, USA, Saudi Arabia, Qatar and Dubai, and a specialist in child mental health and maternal trauma & PTSD. I support families worldwide at

every stage — from antenatal education and birth preparation, through breastfeeding, exclusive pumping, weaning and starting solids, baby massage, infant sleep, and beyond. I have specialist qualifications in reflux and CMPA, which only adds to the clinical experience I have with newborn babies & families. I also offer nanny training for parents who want their wider support network on the same page. My approach is holistic because babies don't exist in isolation — feeding, sleep, development and maternal wellbeing are all connected. I bring clinical depth, real life experience and nearly twenty years of living & teaching in diverse cultures and healthcare settings to every family I work with. The family is at the centre of everything I do, so that means no off the shelf plans in any of the services I offer and no cry it out. Just support, in whatever way you need it.

UK screen time guidelines 2026 — what they mean for toddler sleep and behaviourFrom 27 March 2026, England’s official gu...
22/04/2026

UK screen time guidelines 2026 — what they mean for toddler sleep and behaviour

From 27 March 2026, England’s official guidance said:
— Zero solo screens for under-2s (video calls with grandma: fine)
— Max one hour a day for 2–5s
— No screens at mealtimes or in the hour before bed
— Co-view everything. Slow content only. AI toys and fast social clips: out (think cocomelon).

Whether you’re in the UK or Dubai with 40-degree summers and a very tempting iPad — this applies to all of us.
Here’s what most people aren’t talking about though: this isn’t just a behaviour issue. It’s a sleep issue.
Toddler brains process information up to 10x slower than adult brains. Fast-paced screens — reels, YouTube shorts, anything with rapid cuts and high stimulation — push little nervous systems into fight-or-flight. Heart rate up. Cortisol up. Body physically activated…

And then we wonder why they can’t settle at bedtime.
The hour before sleep is when the brain needs to be downregulating — winding down, producing melatonin, transitioning toward rest. Screen stimulation does the exact opposite. It’s not about the light (though yes, that too) — it’s about what the content is doing to their nervous system.

The University of East London found this mismatch between physical stillness and neurological activation is also linked to more tantrums and emotional dysregulation over time. Using screens to manage meltdowns tends to make that harder, not easier — because it bypasses the skill-building entirely.

None of this is to pile on or judge. We’ve all handed over the tablet to get through a supermarket trip. But if bedtimes are a battle, or your toddler is wired at 7pm, the afternoon screen time is worth a look.

Where are you at with it — strict, flexible, or surviving on anything goes?

21/04/2026

Thanks for sharing.

Always best to spend only what we need on groceries so we have more for fun!

My mother-in-law went to Scotland and brought me back empire biscuits (woohoo .k.austin )She meant it as a kind gesture…...
21/04/2026

My mother-in-law went to Scotland and brought me back empire biscuits (woohoo .k.austin )
She meant it as a kind gesture…She did not however account for the fact that I have been a nicu nurse for 20 years and a lactation consultant and my brain is completely, irreparably broken.

I cannot see two round things with a pink dot in the middle and think anything other than clinical thoughts. I assessed the ar**la (icing 😂). I noted some ni**le ‘misplacement’ wondered about positioning. It’s like nurse life. I used to look at every new person I met veins in case I needed to canulate them 😂 that’s normal for nurses tho right?!

This is my life now.

People think being an IBCLC is a job. It’s not. It’s a full personality transplant that nobody warned you about. It doesn’t clock off when I switch to sleep coaching, or baby massage, or antenatal education, or first aid. It doesn’t even clock off when I’m eating shortbread on a Tuesday.
My mother-in-law is lovely. The biscuits were delicious. I’ve been wanting some empire biscuits for ages (tricky to get in England!). But now they’re ruined forever 😬

If you’ve had a baby and you’re googling “why does breastfeeding feel like this” at 3am… I’m your person. Professionally. Obviously. Empire biscuits remind me of b***s, b***s don’t remind me of empire biscuits (thankfully!)
🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🍪

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Baby Sleep training. Babies don’t need night feeds after 6 months. Calling that one out 🤣 if that’s the case, why am I o...
20/04/2026

Baby Sleep training. Babies don’t need night feeds after 6 months.

Calling that one out 🤣 if that’s the case, why am I on my 4th round of purchasing toddler weaning books? 🤔

Wait! It’s because, thankfully, you don’t listen to idiots who have no idea about natural biological needs.

I loan these books out (and sadly often don’t get them back, hence the 4th round of purchases) to parents who want to stop overnight feeding. Read.that.again.

Parents who WANT to stop. Not those who think they should because I tell them to. Not going to lie, it definitely takes longer to sleep coach a feeding toddler, but it’s totally doable.

If you’re looking for baby/infant/toddler/child sleep coaching (or sleep training, call it what you like 🤷🏻‍♀️), choose your coach wisely. If it feels off, it is off.

May the odds be ever in your favour parents 😉

20/04/2026

Dubai Mums after school & nursery drop off today 🏃‍♀️

Tongue in cheek here……

In all seriousness I know some mums are exhilarated, some are nervous, some are still keeping their kids at home.

Whichever mum you are, sending love

16/04/2026

Fed is best is the floor Emily Oster. Not the ceiling. The bare minimum we should expect as a society. So can we stop acting like acknowledging that is some kind of radical, progressive stance.

The Emily Oster thing. I’ve sat on this because honestly I didn’t want to add to the noise but here we are. She’s an economist. She sits on the board of a formula company. That is a conflict of interest. Full stop.

Cherry picking data outside your professional lane isn’t brave, it’s dangerous — and when the topic is infant feeding, the stakes are too high for that to go unchallenged.

The sibling study she keeps referencing? One sibling wasn’t breastfed due to illness, supply problems or other complications. The groups aren’t comparable. UNICEF and WHO have both criticised it. It’s flawed data being used to minimise the very real, very documented benefits of breastmilk. That’s not analysis. That’s an agenda.

Here’s what I know after 20 years in NICU and paediatrics. Breastmilk is not just food. It contains antibodies, stem cells, enzymes, hormones — oxytocin, melatonin — and it literally changes composition within hours based on your baby’s health and developmental needs. A factory cannot do that.

Formula has saved lives. It’s a privilege it exists. That’s also true.

Both things can be true AND we can still acknowledge that breastfeeding support in the UK — in most countries — is catastrophically underfunded. That formula lobbying has shaped maternity leave policy deliberately. That the “fed is best” narrative, however well-intentioned, has been weaponised to create in-fighting between parents while the real issue goes unaddressed.

Breastfeeding grief is real. And the people profiting from your pain minimising it should make you angry. It sure as heck (I could use a stronger word but I won’t) makes me angry.

Ministry of education announces schools reopening.How are we feeling people?
15/04/2026

Ministry of education announces schools reopening.

How are we feeling people?

A “lactation expert” posted a paid partnership reel this week recommending a breast pump.She is still pregnant.I need yo...
14/04/2026

A “lactation expert” posted a paid partnership reel this week recommending a breast pump.

She is still pregnant.

I need you to let that sink in for a moment.
She has never used this pump. Probably never sat with a mother whose supply is dropping and tried to figure out why. But she has a following and a brand willing to pay her, so here we are 🤷🏻‍♀️

I guess being ethical doesn’t pay the bills right?

“Lactation expert.” “Breastfeeding specialist.” I need you to understand what these titles mean legally, clinically, professionally.
Nothing. Absolutely nothing. Anyone can use them. They are completely unregulated. No governing body. No ethical code. No accountability when the advice causes harm.
And it causes harm. I see it often.

IBCLC is different. Degree level study. Up to 1,000+ supervised clinical hours. One of the hardest exams in Allied Health. An ethical code. We cannot recommend pump brands. Cannot recommend bottle brands. We buy our own equipment — every single piece — so no brand has any claim on our clinical opinion. This costs us money. We do it anyway. Because our obligation is to you, not to whoever is paying us.
Hands-free pumps are broadly not suitable for exclusively pumping mothers. There are documented clinical reasons for this. But complicated doesn’t get brand deals, so it doesn’t get said. And a mother will buy that pump and wonder why her supply is disappearing.

If you are calling yourself a lactation expert or breastfeeding specialist and giving clinical advice — you need to stop. Not because I’m territorial. Because you don’t know what you don’t know.

And in this field, that has consequences.

To mothers — ask if your support is an IBCLC. It’s the only internationally recognised lactation qualification in the world. You deserve actual expertise. Not a discount code or a nonsense title out of a lucky dip bag.

To every IBCLC doing this quietly, ethically, without the sponsorships — keep fighting. To the rest?
Get a real job.
The end.

Are Dubai schools going to open as hybrid? Or are they just ensuring schools readiness to open?We already see how much t...
14/04/2026

Are Dubai schools going to open as hybrid? Or are they just ensuring schools readiness to open?

We already see how much they’re valuing early years education in Dubai Nurseries by the plan put out earlier about early years provision in homes. I am wondering if this is the start of a home daycare or childminder Dubai type system…

Still, so many questions! Thoughts?

I never expected not to be in Dubai for school term 3. But here we are. So much judgement flying around on all sides. Of...
13/04/2026

I never expected not to be in Dubai for school term 3.

But here we are. So much judgement flying around on all sides.

Off he went this morning, quite happy and excited to be back at school. Albeit a UK school. And that’s all that matters to us.

“Your ni**les are the wrong shape.”Said with full confidence. By a midwife. And apparently she’s also a ‘lactation exper...
11/04/2026

“Your ni**les are the wrong shape.”

Said with full confidence. By a midwife. And apparently she’s also a ‘lactation expert.’ 🙄

I wish I was making this up.

Twenty years of working with breastfeeding mothers and I have heard things that would make your eyes water. Not from mothers — mothers are just trying their best with the information they’ve been given. From the people who should know better. The ones with the lanyards and the made up titles and apparently, absolutely no filter.

What’s been the most unhinged advice you were given about breastfeeding? By a professional. By a family member. By a stranger in a supermarket who felt the moment just needed their input.

We’re doing this every Saturday now. Because ‘fake it til you make it’ is not acceptable in women’s health or maternal health. And someone has to say it. Could you imagine someone saying that to a man?! 🤣

Get a real job. Or get properly qualified for the one you’re pretending to do (badly).

Swipe, share, tag someone who needs to see this (or just anyone who needs a chuckle). And for the love of all things lactation — check your support person’s actual credentials before you take their advice. IBCLC is the one that matters.

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