Melany Oliver

Intuitive Coaching & Emotional Healing Healing doesn't take time, it takes courage! I help you break free from negative patterns without years of therapy. Mel x

I have worked with hundreds of CEOs, Directors, Managers, Doctors, Mums, Pilots, Air Stewardess, Artists, Lawyers & professionals who are successful & have it all together on the outside but on the inside struggled with:

+ Stress & emotional overwhelm
+ Still suffering from a broken heart 5 years later
+ Continuing to grieve the loss of their loved one 10 years on
+ Constantly attracting toxic relationships
+ Trapped in disempowering family dynamics
+ Unable to control their emotions
+ Depression & not understanding why (when they have everything to be happy!)
+ Recurring health issues due to emotional reasons

You weren't meant to live an unfulfilled life. Imagine...

*Feeling more in control of your life
*Being confident & free to set boundaries
*Healthier & more loving relationships
*Forgiving & opening your heart to love
*Courage to go after your dreams

I used to suffer from depression, drug addiction, toxic relationships, self-hatred & frustration with my life - I was on the road to self-destruction. That could have been the end of my story BUT I got myself out of that mess. My philosophy is unprocessed emotions are the root cause of what keeps people stuck. I also believe mindset, intention & taking action to create the changes you desire are important. My approach includes all these elements so you can be sure to transform your life from the inside out. I provide tools to support you emotionally, shift your mindset, give you actionable steps to take & hold you accountable throughout your transformational journey. You will experience lots of insights, a complete shift in awareness, deep emotional releases, more clarity & a sense of freedom when you start to take back control of your life! I LOVE working with clients who value self-development & spiritual growth, are committed, open-minded & willing to do what it takes to heal. If you're tired of feeling stuck, get in touch. Let me guide you. Now, let's change your life, shall we?

20/01/2025

There are only 2 games you can play in life:

1. The outside-in game
2. The inside-out game

Most people play the outside-in game and after achieving everything they could ever want are left feeling unfulfilled and empty inside.

They may feel something is missing or "this isn't how life is supposed to feel" or "I should be happy".

I've heard many clients say things like:

"I've achieved so much, and yet there's an underlying sense of inadequacy. I wish I could be more confident in my abilities."

"I live an exciting life, and yet there's a constant fear of missing out on something more meaningful, as if time is slipping away."

"In the midst of all this career success, I sometimes feel isolated, struggling to connect deeply with others, and it affects my overall happiness."

"I crave a more profound connection with myself; it's like I've lost touch with who I am beneath the achievements and responsibilities."

If you attach to things outside of yourself for your source of happiness, security or feelings of worth, it can be taken away from you at any moment and you'll crumble.

Nothing outside of you will ever truly fulfil you on a soul level unless you're playing the inside-out game.

Because the soul's journey is within.

Your happiness, self-worth, self-trust and feelings of fulfilment are not circumstantial, based on status or on what you have achieved.

These are all emotional states and can only come from doing the inner work.

If you're ready to play the inside-out game...
If you have a yearning to follow your heart...
If you desire to develop a better relationship with yourself...
If you long for a deeper connection to the Divine...

And to trust yourself so much that nothing and no one can shake you...

I'm right here for you 😘

15/01/2025

I spoke about this a little while ago, and registration is officially OPEN for Narcissistic Mother Recovery!

This online event was created to help you heal from the far-ranging effects of having an emotionally abusive mother.

We’ve got 15+ incredible speakers with topics ranging from breaking unhealthy patterns that allow toxic partners into your life to overcoming attachment wounds, reversing the physical symptoms that result from narcissistic abuse., and many more.

The retreat begins January 28, and it’s going to be 3 days of transformative teaching that you won’t want to miss.

Click the link below to learn more and get your free ticket:
https://courses.laurakconnell.com/a/2147921055/jqPJzmJs

And leave a comment to let me know you’re in.

13/01/2025

How you face and deal with the little things is how you'll face the bigger ones.

Because how you do one thing is how you do everything in life.

If you keep avoiding the little things, it's highly likely you're going to avoid the big things (until you can't anymore).

If you're scared of doing that big scary thing you know you need to do, making major changes, or facing the deeper truths, master the little things first.

Part of doing the inner work is how you face life.

Get really good with the little things. This will build your confidence and self-trust to be able to handle the big things.

It's not just healing core wounds that matters but it's who you are being every day with everything including the little things.

06/01/2025

If you want to experience healing and exponential soul growth in this year here’s what I’d do…⁣
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👉🏼 Make healing & inner work your lifestyle because let's face it, you can't compartmentalize your life.
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👉🏼 Focus on being true to yourself no matter what. Whether it's looking after your own needs and setting boundaries or listening to your Soul's calling because this is how you love and honour you.
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👉🏼 ⁣Keep your word & commitments to yourself and others. This is how you build self-trust and self-respect.
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👉🏼⁣ Stop judging yourself based on where you are on your journey or the patterns you've been stuck in for years. Judgment keeps you stuck, instead, get curious about the patterns, and have more compassion for yourself. Pick yourself up from where you are and start from here.
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👉🏼 Do the thing that scares you that you know you need to do. Because this is where the healing & soul growth magic happens.
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Doing the deep work and committing to your healing and soul growth is the secret. ⁣
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04/10/2024

Exciting news! I’m thrilled to share my interview with Mystic Mag, where I dive into how my coaching journey began and reveal the unique coaching style that has shaped my work. Take a look and let me know what resonates with you in the comments!

Read the full interview here:
https://www.mysticmag.com/psychic-reading/interview-melanyoliver/

30/09/2024

Discover your Soul Co-ordinates 🕵️‍♂️

With October just days away, the Soul Co-ordinates Workbook is perfect for those of you looking for some clarity + direction to end the year on a high note.

Your Soul Co-ordinates is where you are now on your soul journey. This includes your mental, emotional, energetic and spiritual condition at this moment in time as well as your desires, passion, intentions, dreams and vision for your future.

It is important to know where you are so that you can see where you are headed, what may be blocking you, what needs to change, when to let go and where you are just needing to cultivate a little courage.

This little workbook is jam-packed (64-pages) with questions and exercises for you to truly connect with where you are on your Soul Journey. Once you have established your Soul Coordinates, you can then create a plan of action based on your answers and what came up for you going through this process.
Whether you are just starting your journey or have been on this path for a little while and looking to re-connect and tune in you will love this process of inner reflection.

Section 1: Core Values
Section 2: Goals & Vision
Section 3: Inner Reflection
Section 4: Extra Worksheets

Also includes:
➡️ Journaling prompts
➡️ Checklists
➡️ Schedule Worksheet
➡️ Reflection Exercises

Get your copy here:
https://melany-oliver.com/product/soul-coordinates-workbook/

I LOVED creating this for you, and I hope you love going through it too!

26/09/2024

Sometimes, the deepest wounds are the ones we can't see.

Clients always tell me, "I had a happy childhood".

But behind the smiles and material comfort of our childhood lies the invisible battlefield of unmet emotional needs.

Growing up with material security doesn't guarantee a nourishing emotional environment. Sometimes, the most profound scars are formed when our basic needs for love, validation, and emotional support go unmet.

Children are incredibly resilient, often adapting to their circumstances by burying their emotional struggles deep within themselves. As they grow, these unhealed wounds can manifest in many ways, from relationship difficulties to self-esteem issues, anxiety, and depression.

Acknowledging the importance of emotional needs in childhood is vital for healing.

The absence of emotional nourishment during childhood can lead to a lifelong quest for validation and love, which often takes unhealthy and self-destructive forms. It's not about pointing fingers at parents and staying in blame. It's about understanding that the impact of emotional neglect is just as real as physical neglect.

By recognizing these invisible emotional scars, we can embark on a journey of healing and self-discovery.

We can only break free from negative patterns and build healthier, more fulfilling lives by addressing these hidden emotional wounds.

24/09/2024

Stop relying on external validation to do anything...

Examples of how you act ignoring external validation:

1. Prioritize self-worth based on personal growth and self-love, not status.
2. Make decisions based on your values, not on seeking approval from others.
3. Focus on building meaningful relationships instead of trying to please everyone.
4. Embrace self-compassion and self-acceptance, even when criticized.

External validation only means what you make it mean. It also exposes where you still have a wound you may need to heal.

And I promise you, when you let go of that need for external validation, you'll find true self-confidence and inner peace.

So stop attaching meaning to it.

Practice self-validation, acknowledge your worth, and let yourself envision (and be) your best self without holding back because of external validation ✨

The world needs YOU, not someone who only takes action once she's gained external approval.

Be bold!
The rest will come 🙏

04/09/2024

Last week, I let you know about the Healing the Parent Wound Summit, which begins next week 10th September.

You’ll hear from me on Thursday, September 12th, about Healing the Inner Child And Why Most Techniques Don't Work.

You’ll also hear from some other amazing speakers, including:

> 9 Signs of Family Scapegoating with Laura K. Connell
> Healing the Wounds Left by Toxic Parents with Dr. Sherrie Campbell
> The Link Between Childhood Trauma and Autoimmune Disease with Dr. Keesha Ewers

And a whole lot more!

These interviews are totally free to you for the first 24 hours as long as you’re registered.

If you haven't already, click the link below to register:
https://courses.laurakconnell.com/a/2147921055/jqPJzmJs

31/08/2024

Why some people heal and transform their lives faster than others:

➡️ They are willing to get uncomfortable
➡️ They don't buy into their excuses
➡️ They're not looking for quick fixes
➡️ They listen to their intuition and soul calling
➡️ They take radical responsibility for their emotional wellbeing
➡️ They commit to one process, including one coach or mentor long-term
➡️ They are doing it for themselves and not to "get results" (right mindset)
➡️ They don't give up after a couple of failed attempts
➡️ They have a sincere desire to know truth and themselves
➡️ They're passionate about self-development and soul growth
➡️ They invest in themselves and lean into coaching or mentors for support
➡️ They will do whatever it takes

I genuinely believe that many people already have enough knowledge and inner resources and are so close to having the breakthrough they desire.

Make a decision.
Commit to the process.

Do it for you 😘

26/08/2024

Something magical happens when you start healing, following your heart, living in truth and continuously taking action on the things you KNOW you need to do...

🙏 Your emotional well-being experiences an immediate up-levelling
💃 You regain a sense of vitality and aliveness
🌈 Your dreams begin to gravitate towards you effortlessly
😎 Your innate self-trust emanates from within and is palpable to others
🧲 You become magnetic, drawing positive experiences and relationships into your life
🤗 A delightful sensation of anticipation and joy starts to resonate deep within your being

Overthinking, excessive contemplation, and waiting are defence mechanisms that keep you trapped in emotional stagnation and stop your progress.

Staying comfortable is easy. It's the known. It's also a cage you build for yourself. You will never feel fulfilled as long as you're in your comfort zone knowing you desire more...

More depth
Loving relationships
Real connections
Unshakable trust in yourself
Innate joy in living and being

Courage is what takes you to the next level. It's the catalyst for transformation.

Intellectually, you already understand this truth.

However, real transformation only happens when you wholeheartedly commit to taking that leap of faith 🚀

23/08/2024

By resisting the urge to heal or bring about the change you truly desire, you are merely clinging to a false sense of security.

In truth, this indicates that fear has taken hold of your life.

It may be fear of failure, fear of realising your own potential, or fear of the consequences that change may bring. However, this is no way to truly live.

This fear will drain your vitality, leaving you perpetually exhausted, unsatisfied and unfulfilled even when you have everything to be happy.

The feeling of being ready to heal or embark on that transformative soul journey does not magically appear once you achieve a certain goal, obtain a promotion, or when summer arrives.

Being "ready" is a decision.

If it has been weighing on your mind for some time, then you are ready to take action.

You likely just could do with some support and guidance along your healing + soul journey 😘

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