23/12/2025
Most parents are focused on their children’s performance in the World, rather than their Wellbeing which automatically leads to their Welfare.
This may sound like a bold statement. It is. Focusing on your child’s biological, psychological and spiritual needs through the various age-stages and allowing space for them to make age appropriate choices while also experiencing the consequences of their choices (lovingly and encouragingly) is an Authentic Leadership skill. It nurtures their Autonomy & Agency, Emotional Maturity, Wisdom and Evolution.
And it detoxifies you (their parent) from cultural conditioning of Controlling the outcomes of their lives, having an unhealthy attachment (guilt & shame) to their choices & consequences that ultimately points them in the direction of their True North (Destiny).
While also giving you the opportunity to work through your personal upsets, unresolved thoughts & emotions, and self-concepts based on your children’s expression in the World leading to your personal growth, development, emotional intelligence, freedom, empowerment and evolution And a Beautiful Relationship with them.