01/07/2025
Your father never really saw you.
Not your softness.
Not your sadness.
Not the parts of you that didn’t perform.
So now, without realizing it…
you keep trying to be seen by men who can’t hold you.
Men who mirror his absence.
Men who confuse attention with intimacy.
Men who make you feel like you’re too much, when really, they just aren’t enough.
This isn’t about love.
It’s about recognition.
It’s your nervous system trying to finish the story.
But what you needed wasn’t someone to finally choose you.
What you needed was someone who never made you beg in the first place.