
16/07/2025
That heavy feeling of guilt that creeps in when you set a boundary, it’s not because you’ve done something wrong. It’s often a reflection of how deeply you were taught, either through words or experience, to put others first, even at the cost of your own wellbeing. When you’ve spent a lifetime abandoning your own needs to keep the peace or feel accepted, choosing yourself can feel like betrayal. But it’s not. That guilt is not the truth, it’s just an old echo of survival. Setting boundaries is an act of self-respect. It’s the beginning of coming home to yourself, even if it feels unfamiliar at first. You’re allowed to honour your limits without apology.