10/01/2025
No, seriously. You don’t need anything.
I see it all the time:
“What should I buy for my home birth?”
“What do I pack for the hospital?”
“What services should I hire during pregnancy to have my dream birth?”
The comments roll in with suggestions: fairy lights, affirmation cards, weekly chiropractor visits, a TENS machine, a private midwife, a doula…
And while all of these things can be wonderful additions, here’s the truth: you don’t actually NEED any of them.
You don’t need the “perfect” setup, the fanciest birth pool, or an endless list of services to make your birth powerful. Birth doesn’t happen because of the stuff you have or the money you spend. It happens because of you.
✨ You already have everything you need within you to birth your baby. ✨
Am I saying you shouldn’t buy all the things you want or invest in support if it’s available to you? Absolutely not! These extras can help you feel more confident and supported, which is valuable. But I want you to know this:
👉 If you can’t afford the extras, or if you don’t want to buy all the things, that doesn’t mean your birth will be any less magical, empowering, or transformative.
The most important “ingredient” in having the birth of your dreams is your belief in your body’s ability to do what it was designed to do. It’s understanding your rights, trusting yourself, and surrounding yourself with people who respect your choices.
Everything else is just a bonus.
So if you’re feeling overwhelmed by all the must-haves and to-do lists being thrown your way, take a deep breath and let it go. You’re already enough.
What’s one thing that really helped you feel confident about your birth—or one thing you thought you needed but didn’t use at all? Let’s chat in the comments! 💬👇