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06/09/2025

🦌✨ Staghorn Turns 5!

Today marks five years of Staghorn! Five years of conversations that matter, of breaking down stigma, of helping people feel more at home in their bodies and relationships.

In that time, Staghorn has grown from an idea in a home office into a multi-site practice that’s:
🌿 Supported individuals and couples through challenges big and small
🌿 Shared evidence-based, shame-free s*x education online
🌿 Created safe spaces for talking about intimacy, pleasure, identity, and health

S*xology is a field that keeps evolving, and so has Staghorn. What started as a seed has grown into something much stronger, rooted in our Blue Mountains and Greater Western Sydney community and curiosity.

💬 Whether you’ve been here since the early days or just found us, thank you for being part of this journey.

Here’s to the next 5 years of learning, laughing, healing, and growing together.

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05/09/2025

It’s S*x on and tonight we're waking up and standing to attention, raising the flagpole, and noticing our slumber lumber as we explore the ups and ups of

Ever wondered why p***ses often wake up before you do? That’s nocturnal pe**le tumescence (NPT): the scientific term for “morning wood.”

🔬 What’s really happening?
During the night, your body cycles through different stages of sleep. In REM sleep (the stage where most dreaming occurs), the brain reduces levels of noradrenaline, a neurotransmitter that usually keeps er****ons on standby. With the brakes lifted, the parasympathetic nervous system (your “rest & digest” system) increases blood flow to the corpora cavernosa (the spongy erectile tissue in the p***s). Result? Multiple spontaneous er****ons, usually 3–5 per night.

☀️ So why in the morning?
It’s not because of s*xy dreams. Morning er****ons simply line up with when you’re most likely to wake during or right after REM sleep. You’re catching your body mid-process.

💡 S*xology insights:
-Morning er****ons are a sign of healthy blood flow and nerve function. Their presence means the vascular and neurological systems involved in er****on are working well.
-Their absence isn’t always cause for alarm. Stress, poor sleep, alcohol, or age can all dampen nocturnal er****ons occasionally. But if morning wood disappears consistently, it can be a clinical clue worth discussing with a doctor, as it sometimes indicates vascular, hormonal, or neurological issues.

🌱 Why does your body bother?
Think of it as pe**le maintenance. Regular oxygen-rich blood flow keeps erectile tissue elastic and healthy, reducing the risk of fibrosis or dysfunction over time. Your body is literally “working the night shift” to keep things in good shape.

😏 The takeaway:
Morning wood isn’t about arousal, dreams, or your partner’s magic touch while you sleep. It’s biology, not scandal: a natural, healthy function of your s*xual anatomy.

So next time you wake up pitching a tent, know your body’s just making sure everything’s in perfect working order.

Up next Friday: The O Face

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03/09/2025

🫂 The Science of Cuddling

Cuddling isn’t just cute, it’s chemistry in action. When you hold, hug, or curl up with someone, your body begins a remarkable cascade of biological responses that reinforce closeness and wellbeing.

🔬 Here’s what’s happening inside your body:
-Oxytocin (the cuddle hormone): Enhances bonding, trust, and intimacy. It’s the same chemical that helps parents connect with newborns.
-Dopamine: Activates your brain’s reward system, making closeness feel pleasurable and reinforcing the desire to connect again.
-Serotonin: Helps stabilise mood, reduce anxiety, and boost feelings of security.
-Cortisol decreases: Lower stress levels mean lower blood pressure, a slower heart rate, and a calmer nervous system.

💓 Health Benefits of Cuddling:
-Strengthens emotional bonds in relationships
-Improves sleep quality (thanks to reduced stress hormones)
-Boosts immune function by keeping stress responses in check
-Offers natural pain relief through endorphin release

✨ And it’s not limited to romance. Cuddling with friends, children, or even pets can provide the same neurochemical boost. Touch is one of humanity’s oldest forms of comfort. Long before words, there was connection through skin-to-skin contact.

💡 In s*xology, we see cuddling as more than “foreplay” or “aftercare.” It’s an intimacy practice in its own right. Whether it’s part of s*xual connection or a moment of simple closeness, cuddling tells your brain and body: “you are safe, you are valued, you are cared for, you belong.”

So the next time you curl up with someone, remember: your body is quietly giving you a natural prescription for connection, comfort, and calm. Enjoy!

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01/09/2025

A new month means a new theme at *xology and this month we’re geeking out as we put s*xology under the microscope.

All September we’ll be diving into the fascinating world of neuroscience, hormones, anatomy, and psychology, that make human s*xuality so complex (and fun!), because understanding the science of s*x isn’t about taking the mystery away, it’s about giving you tools to enjoy your body and relationships more fully.

We'll be diving into topics like:
🧠 How your brain shapes desire and or**sm
🧪 The hormones that boost (or block) libido
💉 What science says about er****ons, lubrication & s*xual health
🌍 Evolutionary mysteries like why humans kiss and why or**sms exist
⚡ Fun facts (yes, we’ll talk about morning wood, blue balls, and refractory periods)

Our S*x on Friday posts will continue too - this week we're waking up with wood.

So join us this month as we nerd out and get curious about all things s*x.

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29/08/2025

It’s S*x on and tonight we're exploring the mysteries of the alphabet as we untangle the riddles of the letter 'G'.

Few topics in s*xology spark as much debate as the G-**ot. For decades, it’s been described as a highly sensitive area inside the va**na, said to trigger deep arousal or even squirting. But what does the research actually say?

🧠 The Original Claim

In 1950, Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg proposed the existence of a distinct “erogenous zone” on the anterior (front) va**nal wall.

🔬 The Evidence

Imaging and dissection studies have not identified a single, discrete anatomical structure called the “G-**ot.”

What researchers have found is a complex network:
-The cl****al bulbs and urethral sponge extend internally.
-The anterior va**nal wall is highly innervated and closely linked to the cl****is, urethra, and even Skene’s glands.
-In other words, pleasure here likely comes from the integration of multiple structures, not one “magic button.”

📊 Current Consensus
-Most s*xologists agree the “G-**ot” isn’t a separate anatomical organ.
-Instead, it’s part of the cl****al-urethral-va**nal (CUV) complex: an area where multiple tissues overlap, creating unique sensations for some people.
-Not everyone finds this zone pleasurable, and that’s normal.

The search for the G-**ot is less about finding a “mythical spot” and more about exploring how each body responds to stimulation.

Some people experience intense pleasure here, some don’t. Both experiences are valid.

Pressure, rhythm, connection and context matter as much as anatomy.

✨ In short: The G-**ot isn’t a single organ, but it is a real experience for many. Think of it as part of the broader pleasure network, proof that s*xual anatomy is more interconnected (and fascinating) than we were taught.

Up next Friday: Got wood?

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26/08/2025

💊🍆 How PDE5 Inhibitors Work: The Science Behind “The Little Blue Pill”

Medications like Vi**ra (sildenafil), Cialis (tadalafil), and Levitra (vardenafil) belong to a class called PDE5 inhibitors (PDE5i’s). They’re the most common treatment for erectile difficulties, but how do they actually work?

🧠 Step 1: Arousal starts in the brain

S*xual stimulation triggers nerve signals that release nitric oxide (NO) in the p***s.

Nitric oxide activates an enzyme that produces cGMP, which relaxes smooth muscle in pe**le blood vessels.

This relaxation lets blood rush in, filling the erectile tissue (corpora cavernosa).

⚡ Step 2: The problem PDE5 creates

Normally, an enzyme called PDE5 (phosphodiesterase type 5) breaks down cGMP, ending the er****on.

In men with erectile dysfunction, cGMP may not be strong or sustained enough to maintain firmness.

💊 Step 3: Enter PDE5 inhibitors

PDE5i’s block PDE5 from breaking down cGMP.

The result? More cGMP sticks around, blood vessels stay relaxed longer, and er****ons are easier to achieve and maintain.

📊 Important notes:

PDE5i’s don’t cause an er****on on their own, arousal is still required.

Onset and duration differ: Vi**ra works in ~30–60 minutes, Cialis can last up to 36 hours.

They’re safe for most men, but contraindicated with nitrates (heart medications) due to the risk of dangerous blood pressure drops.

✨ Clinical takeaway: PDE5 inhibitors enhance the body’s natural er****on process. They don’t replace desire, but they help the plumbing work once arousal signals are sent.

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22/08/2025

It’s S*x on and tonight we're heading down to no man's land as we explore the , the , the , aka the !

It goes by many names but the (if we have to be ) is far from boring real estate on our bodies ... despite the location.

📍 Where is it?
It’s the stretch of tissue between the ge****ls and the a**s. In people with p***ses, between the sc***um and a**s; in people with vulvas, between the va**nal opening and a**s.

💡 Why does it matter?
-It’s rich in nerve endings, making it highly sensitive to touch and pressure.
-It’s a key access point for stimulating the prostate (internally) or enhancing arousal externally.
-It plays a role in pelvic floor health, supporting bladder, bowel, and s*xual function.
-In childbirth, the perineum often stretches (or tears), highlighting its structural importance.

👉 How to explore it?
-Gentle pressure, massage, or vibration can increase arousal.
-It can be a safe introduction for those curious about a**l play but not ready for pe*******on.
-Pair stimulation with breathing and relaxation for added intensity.

⚖️ Clinical note: The perineum is more than a pleasure zone. Its muscles support continence, s*xual response, and pelvic stability ... so keeping it strong (through pelvic floor exercises) is as valuable as keeping it playful.

✨ Takeaway: The perineum is the bridge of possibility: part anatomy, part pleasure, part powerhouse. Ignore it at your own peril or explore it and let it take you to perhaps yet unexplored locales of pleasure.

Up next Friday: a, b, c, d, e, f, G spot

**sh

18/08/2025

🧠💋 Your Brain Is the Largest S*x Organ

When we talk about s*x organs, most people think ge****ls. But the true powerhouse of arousal, desire, and or**sm lives a little higher up: your brain.

Here’s why your grey matter deserves the spotlight:

🔗 Desire starts in the mind
Fantasies, attraction, and emotional connection all activate neural circuits before the body responds. Your imagination, memories, and even what you find erotic are driven by the neurons firing around in your noggin.

⚡ Arousal = brain–body communication
Your brain processes sensory input (touch, sight, smell, sound and taste) and then sends chemical and electrical signals through your nervous system. These signals tell blood vessels to open, muscles to contract, and hormones to release, in turn producing er****ons, lubrication, ni**le changes, and more.

🎢 Or**sm is a neurological event
During climax, multiple brain regions fire at once - kapow! - including those involved in pleasure, movement, emotion, and even pain modulation. The ge****ls provide input, but the brain orchestrates the entire fireworks display.

🧘 Mood matters
Stress, trauma, and distraction can shut down arousal pathways by activating the brain’s “fight or flight” systems. On the flip side, relaxation, mindfulness, and emotional intimacy calm those circuits and open the door to pleasure.

✨ Clinical takeaway: S*xual response is never just about the ge****ls. Your brain sets the stage, runs the show, and decides whether the curtain falls early or the performance goes on. Better s*x often starts not between your legs, but between your ears.

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15/08/2025

It’s S*x on and tonight we're moving over the Illuminati in favour of the Clitorati as we explore all things cl****al.

Forget secret handshakes, members of the are on a mission. For too long, the cl****is was the “Where’s Waldo” of human anatomy: ignored, hidden, or misrepresented. The Clitorati are here to fix that.

🧠 The Science of the Cl****is
-Bigger than you think: What you see externally (the g***s) is just the tip, literally. Internally, the cl****is has two crura (legs) and two vestibular bulbs that swell with arousal, surrounding the va**nal opening like a pleasure halo.
-Nerve fireworks: Around 10,000 nerve endings converge at the cl****al g***s, making it the most densely innervated pleasure organ in the human body. For comparison, that’s about twice the number found in the p***s.

📜 A (Frustrating) History
Ancient texts occasionally mentioned the cl****is but often with moral judgement or in medical contexts that dismissed its pleasure function. In 1559, anatomist Realdo Colombo “discovered” the cl****is (despite women already knowing it existed), calling it the love or sweetness of Venus. In 1998 (yes, 1998!) Australian urologist Helen O’Connell published the first detailed anatomical studies showing the full cl****al structure in modern medical literature. Even today, many anatomy diagrams in schools still leave it out.

⚖️ Pleasure Equality & the Or**sm Gap
Studies show that the majority of women and AFAB people do not reach or**sm from pe*******on alone, cl****al stimulation is the main route to climax.
Yet, many s*xual scripts ignore this reality, leading to what researchers call the “or**sm gap” between men and women in heteros*xual encounters.

Being Clitorate means:
-Speaking openly about s*xual anatomy without shame
-Challenging outdated s*x education that ignores the cl****is
-Recognising that pleasure is a valid, healthy, and necessary part of s*xual wellbeing.
-Advocating for anatomy-inclusive conversations in healthcare, education, and relationships.

Up next Friday: heading south to no man's land

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13/08/2025

🧠 S*x on the Brain: How Functional MRIs Unlock the Mysteries of S*xual Function

Ever wondered what’s happening in your brain during arousal, or**sm, or even just thinking about s*x? Scientists do too, and one of their most powerful tools for answering these questions is functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI).

Unlike regular MRI scans, which show static anatomy, fMRIs capture brain activity in real time by tracking changes in blood flow. When an area of the brain becomes active (say, the hypothalamus during arousal) it gets a rush of oxygen-rich blood, and the scanner maps this activity as a colourful “heat map.”

Why is this exciting for s*xology?

Mapping the pleasure network: fMRI studies reveal that arousal is not just about the ge****ls, it’s a whole-brain experience involving regions for emotion (amygdala), memory (hippocampus), reward (nucleus accumbens), and even pain modulation.

Understanding s*xual diversity: Research has shown differences in brain activation patterns related to s*xual orientation, gender identity, and erotic preferences.

Better treatments: By pinpointing which neural circuits are involved in desire, arousal, and or**sm, fMRI can help develop therapies for conditions like low desire, erectile dysfunction, or or**smic difficulties.

Mind-body connection: These scans reinforce that s*xual function is both psychological and physiological. Our brains really our are biggest s*x organ.

📊 Fun fact: Some fMRI studies have even recorded brain activity during or**sm, giving a detailed picture of the cascade of neural fireworks that occur. Spoiler alert - it’s like a symphony, not a single drumbeat.

As technology advances, fMRI research could help demystify s*xual responses, challenge myths, and support more personalised s*xual health care. Because when we understand the brain’s role in s*x, we can treat s*xual well-being with the same precision we treat any other aspect of health.

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08/08/2025

It’s S*x on and tonight we're getting curious about the cold as we peel back the décolletage on all things nippy!

It's the height of the cool season and you might have noticed something about your body and the body of others, and that's some harder than normal nips! Ni**le er****on in cold temperatures is a natural reflex, part of your body’s autonomic nervous system response, meaning it happens automatically, without you thinking about it.

Here’s what’s going on ⬇️

❄️ The Science Behind It:
The skin around the ni**le (the ar**la) contains tiny smooth muscle fibers called the musculi arrectores papillae. When exposed to cold, these muscles contract, just like the ones that cause goosebumps, causing the ni**le to protrude like a deer's eyes in the headlights. This reaction is controlled by the sympathetic nervous system (the same system activated during stress, fear, or excitement).

🔬 Why Do We Have This Reflex?
This is an evolutionary leftover. In mammals:
-Ni**le er****on may have helped infants latch better for feeding.
-It’s also part of the body’s attempt to reduce heat loss by tightening the skin surface (vasoconstriction).

Today, in humans, it's mostly a non-functional reflex, but still completely normal and noticeable.

❤️‍🔥 Not Just Cold:
Ni**le er****on can also be triggered by:
-S*xual arousal
-Physical stimulation (like friction from clothes)
-Strong emotional responses (fear, excitement, surprise)

It’s a universal, involuntary response...nothing to be embarrassed about.

Up next Friday: The Clitorati!

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06/08/2025

🧪⚖️ Testicles & Temperature: Why They Hang Low (or High)

Let’s talk about the sc***um’s built-in climate control system. Yes, the balls don’t just dangle for decoration.

To function properly, particularly for s***matogenesis (s***m production), the te**es need to be kept at a temperature roughly 1–2°C below core body temperature. Anything too warm or too cold can impair this delicate process.

Here’s how the body adjusts:

🧠 Cremaster Muscle
Contracts to pull the sack closer to the body in cold temperatures or moments of stress, threat, or arousal. (Evolution’s way of saying: “Protect the goods!”)

🌡️ Dartos Muscle
Relaxes the balls skin, allowing the testicles to descend and cool off in warmer temperatures. Think of it as your balls saying, “We need some air.”

So if your nuts seem to have a mind of their own, they kind of do.
It’s an automatic, temperature-sensitive reflex designed to keep s***m healthy and the reproductive system functioning optimally.

💬 Clinical takeaway: Scrotal position varies throughout the day and is entirely normal. Warm baths, tight clothing, or high fevers can temporarily disrupt testicular temperature and potentially s***m quality, but the body usually self-corrects.

Fun fact: They’re the only major organ stored outside the body for a reason. Evolution really said: “Keep it cool.”

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