24/03/2026
To my dear friends on the path,
I hope this finds you and your loved ones healthy and well.
Yesterday I turned 40! I had a magical day - the kind you wish you could bottle and return to. Sunrise yoga, an ocean swim with my girls, yummy lunch, Flip Out fun and a massage. I feel so fortunate!
Amidst celebration, birthdays have a way of gently interrupting the rush of life, inviting us to pause and reflect.
I’ve been sitting with a quote by Carl Jung:
“Life really does begin at 40. Up until then you are just doing research.”
When I first read it, I resisted it. I thought - surely I want to always be researching, always learning, always evolving.
And I still do.
But now, I understand it differently.
It’s not that the learning stops. It’s that something shifts. I’m no longer just researching who I might be. I’m becoming who I am.
The transition-
From proving → to understanding
From fitting in → to standing in my own shape
From chasing → to choosing
I feel less pulled by who I thought I should be, and more grounded in who I actually am.
And that feels like freedom.
This week, in our classes, we’re exploring self-inquiry … the practice of gently peeling back the layers. Letting go of the noise, the roles, the expectations… and reconnecting with something deeper. Something true.
Not who you’ve been told to be.
Not who you’ve tried to become.
But who you already are.