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OFTM will share information, scientific research, inspirational quotes, hacks and tips that will help improve our state of mind and improve our brain and gut health so we can enjoy a brighter day.

The biggest mountain we often have to climb is in our own minds.Perseverance, grit, determination, constant effort, dail...
08/10/2021

The biggest mountain we often have to climb is in our own minds.

Perseverance, grit, determination, constant effort, daily steps are undoubtedly keys to success.

But understanding how your mind impacts on your success will make it easier to tackle your next challenge.

Our mind will talk us out of 'climbing the mountain' - it looks impossible, too daunting and overwhelming.

When we feel fear, it releases the hormones cortisol and adrenaline. This sparks the nervous system to identify the threat. The flight fright response kicks in to protect the body to move away from the perceived threat. The mind goes into overdrive with an avalanche of thoughts, concerns and worries.

Suddenly, you feel like climbing the mountain is a ridiculous idea - and you either give up, put it off or think maybe I'll do it later.

Equilibrium is restored, the mind feels calm, the threat is gone - the stress hormones dissipates.

Knowing that starting any new challenge is going to kickstart this nervous system response - gives you the ability to recognize it and push through it - as the saying goes 'feel the fear but do it anyway'.

Once we do the thing that we are fearful of - the mind realizes that it is not a 'threatening event' and realizes that it is OK to do it again.

Link a sense of achievement to undertaking the first step, this will activate your reward system.

When you look at the mountain, identify the first small step and feel how wonderful it will be once you have achieved it. The brain loves that sense of accomplishment and the feeling of success. The brain will now motivate you to go after that goal.

Keep after your goals - don't let your mind talk you out of it.
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Look for the good in your day.Our brain, whilst the most amazing supercomputer, it has a few glitches.It constantly scan...
01/10/2021

Look for the good in your day.

Our brain, whilst the most amazing supercomputer, it has a few glitches.

It constantly scans for threats and dangers.

Our million old species only survived because our ancestors noticed the threats and dangers in their lives. If our ancestors only looked for the wonderful, they would not have survived the harsh conditions.

This hardwiring still exists.

Our subconscious brain is constantly scanning for threats. It will only scan for the positives if you consciously direct it to.

An example - if you receive 5 compliments in your performance appraisal and one negative, which one do you focus on, dwell on, think about. The brain focuses on the negative and glosses over the positives.

The wonderful moments in life are not necessary for survival - so the brain doesn't prioritize them.

However, you can consciously direct the brain to look for the good. Keep a mental note as you go through the day all the small things that made you smile. 😊
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Life has a funny way of returning to you what you give out.I think of it this way * if you want love, be loving.💗* if yo...
30/09/2021

Life has a funny way of returning to you what you give out.

I think of it this way
* if you want love, be loving.💗
* if you want kindness, be kind. 💐
* if you want compassion, be compassionate. 🤗
* if you want to be happy, keep your thoughts as positive as you can. 😊
* if you want to be healthy, make healthy choices. 🥑

Be mindful of what you are giving.✨

(Thank you Juan Pablo Rodriguez for your gorgeous photo 📷 )
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Stay close to people who lift your spirits, support you, and who you can be yourself.These are your people, your tribe.
28/09/2021

Stay close to people who lift your spirits, support you, and who you can be yourself.

These are your people, your tribe.

🌺 A beautiful soul always shines brightest 🌞Hope you have a great day.🦋Follow  for more 💙                               ...
27/09/2021

🌺 A beautiful soul always shines brightest 🌞
Hope you have a great day.🦋
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This 75 year long Harvard study found your close relationships significantly contribute to having a fulfilling, longer a...
26/09/2021

This 75 year long Harvard study found your close relationships significantly contribute to having a fulfilling, longer and healthier life.

Harvard's Grant and Glueck study tracked the emotional and physical wellbeing of two distinctly different populations for 75 years (456 poor men growing up in Boston from 1939 to 2014 compared to 268 male graduates from Harvard's classes of 1939- 1944. One of the original recruits was eventual President John F Kennedy.

The researchers found the biggest predictor of happiness and fulfilment is the quality of your close relationships.

"The clearest message that we get from this 75 year study is this: Good relationships keep us happier and healthier. Period." - Robert Waldinger, director of the study from 1972 and a psychiatrist at Massachusetts General Hospital.

He said "taking care of your body is important, but tending to your relationships is a form of self-care too. That, I think, is the revelation".

"Close relationships, more than money or fame, are what keep people happy throughout their lives."

Further surprise was that the study revealed that the participants level of satisfaction with their relationships at age 50 was a better predictor of physical health than their cholesterol levels were. Those most satisfied in their relationships at age 50 were the healthiest at age 80.

Having someone to rely upon helps you relax, helps your brain stay healthier and reduces emotional and physical distress.

Thank your loved ones today - they make life special - and keep you happier and healthier.

Source": The Harvard Gazette "Good genes are nice, but joy is better'
See also Ted Talk by Robert Waldinger: What makes a good life? Lessons from the longest study on happiness. Thank you for all your inspiring speakers.
Photo credit: Thank you Yannick Menard for this photo - absolutely love it

I really appreciated it when you ……{fill in the blank}.Say it to your loved ones.Watch their reaction - they may even as...
25/09/2021

I really appreciated it when you ……{fill in the blank}.

Say it to your loved ones.

Watch their reaction - they may even ask you to repeat it. You will certainly have their undivided attention.

Everyone loves to be thanked.

Everyone loves to feel acknowledged.

Love to hear the reactions. 😊

🙏

‘Gratefulness is the key to happiness. We hold the key to happiness in our own hands’. Brother Steindl-Rast - founder of...
20/09/2021

‘Gratefulness is the key to happiness. We hold the key to happiness in our own hands’.
Brother Steindl-Rast - founder of Gratefulness.org.

Celebrating ‘World Gratitude Day’

When we express gratitude for what we have, we shift our focus to what is good in our life. Rather than worrying about what you don’t have.

By looking for things to be grateful for, your brain will filter to you more positives that are occurring, that you may otherwise skim over.

Our conscious mind can only process very small amounts of information per second (estimated about 40 bits). Whereas your subconscious mind is processing upwards of 11 millions bits of information per second. As a result, your subconscious filters to your conscious mind what you have deemed as important.

You must consciously want to find things to be grateful for - for these to come into your awareness.

The best example of how it works is buying a new car. Once you decided to buy a new car, suddenly you see the same make and model everywhere. You deemed it important and your subconscious started filtering them to you to notice.

The same works for gratitude - deem it important and you will notice a lot more positives in your day 😊

I hope you have a wonderful day. 🌼

I am grateful to go overnight trekking with my four children today. 🏃🏽‍♀️🤸‍♂️🏕

I am most grateful for my supportive husband who always backs my crazy ideas and helps with everything in our crazy busy life - but I wish you were coming with us today 🥰💕

Safe and alive - is your brain’s objective.It achieves this by moving you towards rewards and away from threats/ dangers...
20/09/2021

Safe and alive - is your brain’s objective.

It achieves this by moving you towards rewards and away from threats/ dangers.

Drastic huge change is often perceived as a threat by your brain. It creates stress, it is different to your usual daily routine.

Once the brain perceives the huge change as a threat, it will move you away from this threat. The brain will filter to your conscious mind all the reasons why you should not do this new activity. Your brain wants you back in your comfort zone - which it perceives as a safe place.

The next day when you think ‘I’ll go for a jog’ - your brain will give you reasons why this is a bad idea.

At best, willpower will keep you going for awhile, but the brains ‘threat perception’ will win out and you will usually revert to your usual way.

Rather by using tiny micro goals, you activate the dopamine reward system each time the tiny goal is achieved. Your brain loves this - so it will move you towards repeating the tiny micro goal so more dopamine is released.

Your brain creates a strong connection that this new activity is desirable and should be repeated.

So instead of saying I’m going for 3 km run - keep it small and try a 10 minute walk.

The more you repeat the small action, the stronger the neural connections are built.

Your brain loves to turn behaviours into habits.

Habits are stronger than will power.

You want your new desired behaviour to be a habit to stick.

Tiny changes are more likely to become permanent changes.

Tiny steps do add up 😊

Small daily steps is the best way to achieve your goals.Often with huge goals, we keep it up for about 2-3 weeks. But th...
19/09/2021

Small daily steps is the best way to achieve your goals.

Often with huge goals, we keep it up for about 2-3 weeks. But then life gets busy, willpower wanes and we revert to our previous ways.

But when we set tiny micro goals - we use our dopamine reward system - our brain lights up every time we achieve the tiny micro goal. The brain is reward seeking - it feels great to have wins on the table. It fills our bucket with hope, optimism and success.

This dopamine reward system drives our motivation to continue to repeat the new behaviour.

Success leads to more success. We are more likely to stick with the new behaviour if we feel we are having small wins on our way to achieving our overall big goal.

Dream big - that’s important - but set tiny micro daily goals to achieve the big vision.

Make one small change, rather than trying to change everything in one go.

Tiny steps add up. You will be surprised where you end up by the end of the year if you take tiny daily steps. 😊

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