
16/08/2025
So a silly accident with me and a few stairs resulted in one dislocated and broken ankle in two places and no more attached ligaments on the other leg, yep, both legs!!!
I am not going to lie, it was a massive struggle mentally, my entire life changed in an instance and I was in a hospital bed peeing in a bed pan and unable to walk:( I am a Mum of 4, I don't do sitting down, stopping or accepting help very well.
It is now 8 weeks later and I have learnt so much it is hard to put it into words, so I will do dot points:
1. Appreciate the simple things - your mobility, people's smiles, flowers 🌷
2. Stay in the present - don't dwell on the past or think too far ahead into the future\
3. Gratitude for people - you see who is there for you and more - people you didn't expect, those solid rocks - beautiful friends and family - I will never forget ❤
4. Patience & Celebration - being patient and kind to myself and celebrating the smallest wins - 10% extra bend in the knee, laughing again when you didn't feel like it the day before, being kind to yourself and just managing what you can that day. 🙌
5. Prioritise your mental health & self care 💆♀️- I used all the tools in my toolbox - I meditated, prayed, wrote in my gratitude journal, created a routine, checked in on "how we feel" app to pinpoint my emotions, feelings.... just to name a few 🧰
6. Accept support - I wouldn't of altered my mindset without support of friends, family, allied health staff, Chaplain. People were offering and I just made the decision to ask for it and welcome it when they gave it. I will give it back 🙋♀️
7. Reassessing life - realising what is truly important, what your priorities are, an opportunity to restructure your life in the way you would like it - you have that option and it is exciting. 📋. I am emotionally richer in life as a result of the experience.
These are a few of the things that I have learnt and I hope some of this might make you reflect or think about your life.
I am feeling excited about the future, rehab will be ongoing as will be me checking in with myself and continuing to work towards my newly carved out life! 🫶