05/01/2026
Most of us don’t quit because we “lack discipline.”
We quit because the plan we’re trying to follow only works on fantasy weeks. The kind where nothing goes wrong.
Real weeks have curve-balls. Late meetings. Sick kids. Hormones. Bad sleep. Something always pushes in.
When the plan can’t bend, it snaps. So we scrap it, wait for Monday, and climb back onto another strict version of the same thing.
Here’s a better way to think about it.
Your plan needs a default setting- the version you do when life isn’t cooperating. Not the perfect day plan. The “still counts” plan.
Maybe that means:
- short training sessions instead of skipping completely
- simple meals instead of trying to cook like a recipe blog
- keeping calories sensible instead of crash-dieting after a slip
No punishment. No restart ritual. Just carry on.
Progress comes from plans that survive ordinary weeks, not perfect ones. And once the plan stops exploding every time life gets busy, “Monday” loses its power.