21/03/2024
It's 7:00 pm, you're famished, and you have eaten nothing all day. A couple of coffees and a croissant for breakfast at 10 am, but you haven't stopped since. You got cut off and nearly had an accident on the drive home. When you walk in, your kids barely raise an eyelid, and you are officially hangry! You've been so busy throughout the day the signs of hunger weren't recognisable, and now it's dinner time. The following 30 minutes is a blur as your body finally receives the nourishment it needs, but once you start, you can't stop after the 3rd helping of your partner's cooking, and the TV goes to an ad break; you take a breath and reset. The guilt sinks in. Oh man, what a day. You've been under pressure all day, barely felt like you've breathed, had cortisol surge through your body on the drive home and spent the last part of the day in a state of supercharged emotions as your body used its stores to operate. You've remedied that with precisely what you've needed all day, 'nutrition', but you've unfortunately overeaten and now feel bloated.
Discussing that feeling with your partner, old mate Zuckerburg listens in, and your newsfeed is bombarded with fad diet alternatives and the latest update from 'Eddie expert'. They play on that guilt and shame, and at that moment, the words 'you need to try harder' land the final blow, enter Mr Pinot Noir, ahhhh there is that relief!
I've taken an artistic license here, but the behavioural patterns we remedy in nutrition coaching are similar. We talk about proactive nourishment and eating for energy when needed. Still, I wanted to introduce this concept of intuitive eating to you—the recognition of the body's cues for hunger and satiety and dialling into those and trusting them.
There are 3 main principles to this, and I could write chapters on it, but here they are...
1. Reject diet culture
2. Honour the hunger
3. Recognise the fullness cues
Perhaps some questions to think about the next time you're eating:
Why are you eating?
What is your body communicating it needs?
What is your stomach telling you? Your brain and emotions? Your energy?
When was the last time you honestly tasted every mouthful?