21/04/2025
When I was a little girl I started experiencing the paranormal. Seeing spirit people that had died. It was a lot to deal with. I felt alone, misunderstood and I withdrew from people because they diddnt understand what I was going through.
As a child I never consciously sought out to be a medium. It was something that was just pre destined for me. And to be honest I didn't want it.
I fought with that for a very long time.
Yet the dreams would still come, the visitations from spirit would still happen.
One day I realised this was never going to leave me. And I just had to accept that this was a part of me.
Fast forward 30 years and I have had that many paranormal encounters and seen that many people in spirit that I have lost count. I could write a whole book on that alone.
Why am I writing all this? Whats my point? Honestly I dont know..
I think I had Rose coloured glasses on when I stepped into the spiritual community to offer readings.
Did I make mistakes? Yes I did. But I learned from them.
I also learned how competitive and bitchy the spiritual community can be. And that just left me feeling disheartened. Through my experiences I found it was just about selling yourself, looking the part and making money. To me that felt fake and empty.
After some time I learned all of that just wasnt for me.
I know Im not the only one who feels that way. There must be many people that do.
Im just me. Im not fake, I dont fit the mold to all that I mentioned. Ive learnt a lot. Ive grown. Im definitely not perfect. And just because Im a medium and can connect to the other side doesnt mean I know everything.
Im just having a human experience and have my own lessons to learn and grow from.
There is so much out there we dont know. So the bottom line is, dont hold any medium, psychic or spiritual guru on a pedistal. The genuine ones who are the real deal are just here like you are having a human experience.
Its just time to be Real to be Truthful in a world full of fake. Just be unapologetically honestly and truthfully you.
Love Always Tam
