13/01/2026
One of the quiet challenges of being a sensitive or spiritual woman is learning how to hold your light amidst the energy of others ~ especially when that energy is heavy, unhappy, or charged with struggle.
Separating your energy doesn’t mean you don’t care.
💛 It means you choose to vibrate at a higher level
And in doing so, you serve yourself and those around you far more deeply.
In any moment,
we have a choice.
We can lower our vibration to meet the least happy person in the room…
or we can remain loving, grounded, and compassionate without dimming ourselves.
Lowering our energy
serves no one ~
except our old ego stories (and sometimes the comfort of others).
Stories like:
~ It isn’t safe to be joyful in the face of misery.
~ You’re too much.
~ Who do you think you are?
~ Stop doing that happy thing ~ it’s annoying.
Rarely are we celebrated for our light and joy.
Especially as children, when we quietly decide who it’s safe to be and begin forming the beliefs that limit us.
🌿 But we are no longer bound by those stories.
🔥 We are adult, sovereign, self-empowered women.
🔥 And we get to choose.
Limit ourselves to make others comfortable ~
or shine brightly and gift ourselves the freedom to be all of who we are.
It isn’t always easy.
Unhappiness, toxic anger, frustration, and blame can make it hard to hold your light.
~ So minimise contact where you need to.
~ Surround yourself with love.
~ Let heavy energies land in front of you, not on you.
And remember
💛 You are a leader now.
You don’t need to play the misery game anymore.