26/05/2026
Healing isn’t always about silencing the voice. Sometimes it’s about moving forward while it’s still speaking.
I've been struggling with a few personal challenges lately that have caused me to really face a long-held belief…the one that says there's something wrong with me, but I don’t know what it is.
Now, as multiple challenges collide & I look at what lies beneath it all, I can see this belief and how it has played out again and again. It is only now, as I create some true space to be with these challenges, that I see it…& the cost it is having in my life.
So what to do now?
When a belief like this shows up… where to from here is my next question.
I have done enough personal work to know these beliefs are not true, nor do they serve me.
They lead to regret and cost me what I love and what I want.
So it is my job to really own it.
I created this belief.
I have energised this belief.
& I have made life choices from this belief that do not serve me.
I don’t want to do that anymore.
I also know a simple “I’ll just let it go” doesn’t work for these really hard-core beliefs that have proof and life experience backing them up.
I can take off layers that will help loosen its grip.
I can work on forgiving myself for letting this belief cost me, but ultimately, self-awareness is my greatest ally here.
What do I really want?
& can I move directly towards that
most likely with this belief still shouting at me?
Every time I get visible,
there’s a voice critiquing me and telling me all the reasons not to.
Every time I take a step into new territory,
there’s a voice warning me of danger.
Every time I put myself and my work out there,
there’s a voice telling me, why bother?
This is what it really means to move beyond our old beliefs.
We have to be
💛 brave
💛 wild
💛determined
💛 self-loving &
💛 hold our human selves with tenderness
as we trust our expansive, soulful selves to take the next step we know to be right & true.
There’s no escape - the way is through.
Notice the lie of our limiting beliefs, acknowledge what it’s cost us, & move forward.
What are you ready to move beyond…even if the voice is still there?
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