03/09/2024
Do you know your emotional triggers?
☆The "now situation"
When you lose your temper, your cool. it's not because you are short tempered like some people wanted you to believe. It's because your "cup"is too full. You are tired, you are probably sleep deprived, you have too many things to do on that day and you didn't look after yourself like you should. You didn't get to do your exercises or a massage. You simply had enough. There are too many things and not enough time on the day to complete them.
When you observe now why you lost your temper, why you screamed at your child you can see that those were the triggers for your behaviour and you are a step closer tomorrow to understand more about you and how you can work on yourself now so that wont happen so often.
☆The Context:
It's what is going to fill your cup.
If you are not sleeping enough, if you miss someone, if you are feeling lonely, not appreciated, busy. Constantly running around and always doing the house by yourself.
Those are things the you need to be aware so you can organize your life better, you can restructure your day so you can do more what makes you happy, take some time for you and start delegating tasks so everyone around you are aware of how much they can and should help.
☆Emotional Wounds:
Childhood wounds can come back once triggered. Those are like old little scabs that haven't fully healed. It has a lot to say about your self steem too.
Ex: if you have never been heard by others and feel like no one would really pay much attention to you. The situation of not being heard of not being noticed by others is an emotional trigger for you. Can you see it?
Its very important that we are aware of these emotional triggers, memories, and traumas so you understand more about you, your feelings, and emotions.
Knowledge is power.
If you can identify them, we can change them and give them a new meaning.
Can you identify any emotional triggers now?
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