10/02/2026
If your child doesn’t settle easily at night, it is not because you haven’t found the right routine, the perfect strategy or the ideal sleeping temperature.
Some children need more time to move into sleep.
More support.
More safety.
Sleep isn’t created by perfection.
It’s supported by predictability, pace, and connection.
Children’s brains don’t need elaborate rituals or Pinterest-worthy evenings.
They need the same actions, in the same order, night after night.
Bath.
Pyjamas.
Teeth.
Books.
A familiar, calm adult presence.
When evenings are slower, quieter, and predictable, the nervous system can begin to downshift.
And if bedtime is still hard, you haven’t failed.
Some nervous systems need more time to feel safe enough to rest.
That isn’t your fault, and it is not your child’s.