28/11/2025
the bar is so low people. everyone’s out here looking for emotional communication and physical touch like that’s the peak of compatibility… meanwhile the REAL green flags are sitting right in front of us.
no one wants to admit that half the population can’t even regulate their nervous system, hydrate properly, or make a decision without asking ChatGPT.
we’re asking people to communicate their feelings when they haven’t felt anything real since 2016.
we’re all looking for ‘love languages’ when we should be looking for people who drink living water and aren’t chemically compromised.
the way someone lives tells you more than any text thread ever will. their habits, their values, the way they treat their body, the way they think about the world, the way they move through life.
modern dating has people obsessing over the surface level stuff while completely missing whether someone is actually grounded, conscious, consistent, and alive in their choices.
so yeah… maybe we’re not “struggling to find the right person.” maybe we’ve just been looking for the wrong sh*t. raise the standards from emotional communication to actual embodiment.
your life will change.
