14/12/2025
I have only ever had henna (mehmdi) done in India and Nepal but yesterday I recieved this beautiful artwork from a woman who migrated from Pakistan. Henna is for celebration and blessing, during festivals or special occasions such as weddings. Christmas is our festive time in Australia but yesterday we were also celebrating a woman becoming a mother.
So often when I get to spend some one on one time with a woman (especially someone from a different culture to mine) I love it when they share their experiences of being a woman in their culture, family, religion, and country.
I was getting my brows laminated in bali (such a bali thing to do) and I spent the hour listening to what it was like to be a 21 year old woman in Indonesia. Marriage, pregnancy, birth, family and religious expectations. She also asked me if I had seen a waterbirth, because a local celebrity had just birthed in water and was receiving a lot of media attention labelling it "dangerous".
When I was in Dehli learning to cook beautiful Northern Indian cuisine I spent 4 hours in a tiny kitchen listening to not only cooking instructions but how it was being a mother of 1 child, living and sleeping in the same room as your in laws and saving up money to pay for the private hospital she wanted for the 2nd birth. Not to mention running the most popular cooking class in the capital of India.
Yesterday I listened to a labour and birth story of a young woman when she lived in Pakistan. In labour she arrived at the hospital in a rickshaw shortly before she birthed.
I value all these stories so much and continue to stand in awe of the work women do for themselves, for their families, faith, and communities.