LoveCoaching

12/07/2025

As a 34 years experienced Relationship Counsellor who has worked with 1000s of couples, it is abundantly clear that the vast majority of relationship problems are caused by men's ignorance of themselves and how relationships work.

It's about 80/20 men/women

Most relationship counsellors and educators will attest to this.

Another way to know, is to note the statistics on WHO reads the personal development and relationship books... predominately females. Therefore more knowledgeable of self and others. Not perfect, just better.

And when you come across a woman who is an abuser, its usually because she is young and been brainwashed by woke ideology... and/or she has been damaged and traumatised by.... men.

So, it’s time for men to take responsibility for their part in the downfall of relationships.
And that means unravelling and undoing millennia of conditioning from the Patriarchal era…
to learn to move through the shame and imposed ignorance …to become the truly magnificent beings they are... potentially.

Until they do, things are not looking rosy on the relationship front.

Call now to connect with business.

30/06/2025

How’s this for an outrageous idea!
Meet someone, don’t have s*x with them.
Get to know them, still don’t have s*x with them.
Realise you are not compatible?
Break up happily and easily because you haven't chemically and emotionally bonded thru s*x.
OR... keep getting to know them because they seem to have real merit.
Then maybe have s*x with them.
Keep getting to know them.
Find out their values and interests and wants and needs, and emotional intelligence.
Then commit.
Commit as if your life depends on it, because it does.
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And if you would like some support in HOW to do this... you might like some LoveCoaching.... Face-to-face sessions in Bellingen NSW Australia… Also /Zoom/ Phone sessions.
BOOKINGS https://www.lovecoaching.com/contact.html


Bellingen Offices

03/06/2025

LEGAL NOTICE
Anyone who maliciously posts government lies and propaganda about myself and my business will be put on a list to have you sued personally for defamation.

You are on notice.
This is not an idle threat.
IT WILL HAPPEN.

02/06/2025

31/05/2025

Couples will often breakup because one partner says they feel stultified and need to expand and grow.

This can seem mystifying and unfair. But the Soul’s prime directive is to to GROW…. no matter what.

So if you don’t want to break up, the solution is to communicate so well, that you grow together.
And that means choosing from the beginning someone who wants to do that with you.

31/05/2025

How to get People to like you… Be a Generous Listener.

Ultimately all communication is about building connection and relationship. Even when it is just a sharing of facts and information, the relational brain/being is tracking for safety and connection by being understood…..

Ultimately all communication is about building connection and relationship. Even when it is just a sharing of facts and information, the relational brain/being is tracking for safety and connection...

06/02/2025

Win-Win Relating
No matter how fantastic your relationship is, its likely to move into the ‘Power Struggle’ stage some time after 2 months to 2 years together. In this very normal stage, where one or both parties attempt to re-establish their individuality separate from the relationship. You begin to look for what is different, or wrong or bad with your partner. And this is where arguments and disconnection can start.

At this stage, people either run for the hills, stay stuck on and off for the duration of the relationship, or learn to create wonderful win-wins and stay happily together.

This is where having a few relationship and communication skills can be very handy. MORE HERE...

Win-Win Relating No matter how fantastic your relationship is, its likely to move into the ‘Power Struggle’ stage some time after 2 months to 2 years together. In this very normal stage, where...

04/02/2025

Do you want to be Right ... or Alone??
Win-Win Relating
No matter how fantastic your relationship is, its likely to move into the ‘Power Struggle’ stage some time after 2 months to 2 years together. In this very normal stage, where one or both parties attempt to re-establish their individuality separate from the relationship. You begin to look for what is different, or wrong or bad with your partner. And this is where arguments and disconnection can start.
At this stage, people either run for the hills, stay stuck on and off for the duration of the relationship, or learn to create wonderful win-wins and stay happily together.
This is where having a few relationship and communication skills can be very handy.
READ MORE BELOW

Win-Win Relating No matter how fantastic your relationship is, its likely to move into the ‘Power Struggle’ stage some time after 2 months to 2 years together. In this very normal stage, where...

04/02/2025

Do you want to be Right ... or Alone??

Win-Win Relating
No matter how fantastic your relationship is, its likely to move into the ‘Power Struggle’ stage some time after 2 months to 2 years together. In this very normal stage, where one or both parties attempt to re-establish their individuality separate from the relationship. You begin to look for what is different, or wrong or bad with your partner. And this is where arguments and disconnection can start.

At this stage, people either run for the hills, stay stuck on and off for the duration of the relationship, or learn to create wonderful win-wins and stay happily together.

This is where having a few relationship and communication skills can be very handy.
READ MORE

Win-Win Relating No matter how fantastic your relationship is, its likely to move into the ‘Power Struggle’ stage some time after 2 months to 2 years together. In this very normal stage, where...

23/01/2025

When someone cheats, its absolutely possible for the relationship to heal - often even better than before.
As long as BOTH parties are willing to put in the work to both - REPAIR and CONSISTENTLY BUILD the relationship from then on.
As a 34 years experienced Relationship Coach, I'm here to teach you HOW.
Face to face and online sessions available.
MORE INFO and BOOKINGS :

Bellingen Offices