13/06/2025
I’m writing this with a full heart and not much sleep, but more purpose than ever.
At 5:25am on Monday morning, my wife and I welcomed our beautiful daughter into the world.
Bowie Kate Smith
She arrived like the rockstar she is, strong, calm, radiant and completely a vision..
She is everything we hoped for, and more.
Now, I want to take you back for a second.
March last year, I facilitated a retreat in Bali. It was there that I took part in a one-hour somatic breathwork session. I had no idea what I was walking into. I thought I’d just breathe a bit deeper, maybe feel a little lighter, maybe shed some layers of my past-self.
But it took me somewhere else entirely.
Through sweat, tears, and some deep primal release, I landed in something bigger than myself. A vision. A purpose.
I saw the kind of father I wanted to be.
I saw the kind of coach I’m here to become.
And right there, lying in the stillness after it all, I saw her.
My daughter.
A little girl, peaceful and smiling. A sweet, angelic presence.
That moment moved me more than I can explain and if I’m being honest, it also scared me.
Because it showed me what’s possible.
And when we see that clearly, it’s easy to turn away.
We shrink. We doubt. We stay in the comfort of old patterns. We tell ourselves we’re not ready yet.
But over the last year, I kept coming back to that vision. I kept choosing it.
Not perfectly, but with more intention each time.
And now, Bowie is here.
And everything makes sense.
So why am I sharing this with you?
Because I know you’ve felt this too . The fear, the doubt, the “am I really ready for this?” feeling.
But you are ready.
Not for perfection, but for growth.
Let Bowie’s light remind you that you're on the right path. That it’s OK to take time. That what you want is already taking shape, even when you can’t fully see it yet.
Trust the process.
Lean into the vision.
You never know what’s waiting for you on the other side of discomfort.
Thank you for being part of this journey.
I’m more grounded, more clear, and more committed than ever as a coach, a father, husband and a human.
Here’s to what’s next.
Much love,
Marty