
08/07/2025
🌿 Vicarious Trauma: The Hidden Burden of Empathy 🌿
✨💻New blog now live! 💻✨
If you're a healer, therapist, social worker, psychologist, first responder, or someone who supports others through grief, trauma, or crisis, this message is for you.
Vicarious Trauma, or Secondary Traumatic Stress, is the emotional residue we absorb through witnessing or hearing the trauma of others.
⛓It’s the heaviness that lingers after a session.
⛓The vivid imagery you didn’t ask for.
⛓The dreams.
⛓The fatigue.
⛓The ache in your nervous system, even if the story wasn’t yours.
This past week, old memories surfaced in my field.
Not my own trauma, but the stories others had shared with me years ago…
Stories I thought I’d released, but that had quietly embedded in my subconscious:
🖤 Survivors of horrific abuse
🖤People attacked in public, or near death in violent accidents
🖤Clients who’d lived through the unthinkable, and trusted me with their truth
Even now, the imagery is still vivid. And it reminded me:
This is the invisible cost of care work.
It doesn't mean we're broken.
It means we're human.
💔 Perhaps you've felt this too.
💔 Perhaps your body still holds echoes of someone else's pain.
💔 Perhaps you didn’t realise the toll it was taking until now...
Vicarious trauma is real, and you deserve care, too.
You are not weak. You are not alone.
And there is no shame in needing support.
I've written a deep dive blog on how vicarious trauma shows up in the body, how it affected me personally, and how you can begin to release what was never yours to hold.
🧾Read it now: https://www.stardustgardencreative.com.au/musings-from-the-garden
With love, empathy, and the divine spark,
Amelia x