06/10/2024
๐๐๐๐, ๐๐ฎ๐๐๐๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ญ๐ฌ ๐๐ข๐๐๐๐ง ๐๐จ๐ฐ๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐๐: ๐๐๐ญ'๐ฌ ๐๐ฑ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐๐จ๐ ๐๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ
Take a moment for an ๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐๐ญ๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค into the life of someone with ADHD. ๐๐๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ก๐ข๐๐ฏ๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ the flashy lifestyle, and entrepreneurial spirit, there's a ๐๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ ๐ ๐ฅ๐ that often goes unnoticed...
A serious look into the life of ADHD mind. Mind body and feelings of emotional disconnect and ๐ซ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐๐จ๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ inside that ADHD person faces all day every day, yet there is a simple solution.
While people with ADHD are ๐๐๐๐ฑ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ฉ๐ซ๐๐ง๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ, they often face serious struggles in their personal, intimate relationships. ๐
One of the key issues is a ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐๐จ๐ง๐ง๐๐๐ญ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ข๐ซ ๐ซ๐๐๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐๐ฉ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ, which prevents them from feeling the genuine love that their partners offer.
They are often externally focused, constantly seeking validation from the outside world, while inside, they feel an overwhelming sense of emptiness.
This relentless pursuit of validation doesnโt stop at relationships. In business, it manifests as a ๐๐ก๐๐ฌ๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐๐๐๐ฌ๐ฌ, with many ADHD individuals becoming entrepreneurs.
However, despite outward achievements, they feel drained, as their energies are often wasted, leaving them exhausted and unable to truly relax.
The same pattern appears in their personal livesโthey are ๐๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐ก๐๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐, the reward hormone, because they donโt have a clear concept of inner connection.
This drives them to seek validation not from their partners, but from the outside world.
Hereโs how this emptiness often manifests:
๐ค ๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ฉ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ฌ: Their energy is frequently depleted, leaving them exhausted, yet they feel they must use up all their energy before they can relax and surrender to sleep.
โก ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ฌ๐: ADHD individuals are constantly seeking validation and chasing the reward hormone dopamine.
Their minds lack the concept of deep connection, so they remain stuck in a cycle of external pursuits, always looking for more, but never feeling truly satisfied.
๐ In their relationships, this creates a cycle where they feel hardened, disconnected, and even lost, unable to sit still and be present.
They stir things up to keep life interesting, but in doing so, their need for control over their partner intensifies.
This disconnect can lead to constant relationship changes, as ADHD individuals frequently switch partners, much like they would switch business ventures.
Some actors who display these patterns of ADHD in the public eye are a prime exampleโthey move from deep commitment to breakups, often within a matter of weeks or months.
The world sees this as an exciting lifestyle, but in reality, itโs a ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐ช๐ฎ๐ข๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐๐๐ซ๐, where nothing truly fills the emptiness within.
This constant search for external validation extends beyond relationshipsโit seeps into every part of life, including business ventures. ๐ข
In fact, ADHD individuals frequently change partners, much like they change business opportunities. Celebrities with ADHD often live this pattern in the public eye, moving from one relationship to another, as if they were launching a new movie or business deal.
๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ฌ ๐ ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ง๐ฌ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐งโa cycle of acquisition and discard, leading to a ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐๐ข๐๐ข๐๐ฅ ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐๐๐-๐ฅ๐๐ฏ๐๐ฅ ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ.
In trying to fill this void, many turn to ๐ฎ๐ง๐ก๐๐๐ฅ๐ญ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ก๐๐๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ:
๐ท ๐๐ซ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฌ & ๐๐ฅ๐๐จ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ
๐๐๐จ๐จ๐ซ ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ก๐๐๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ
๐ฌ ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐
๐ฑ๐๐จ๐ซ๐ง๐จ๐ ๐ซ๐๐ฉ๐ก๐ฒ
๐ณ๏ธ ๐๐จ๐ฑ๐ข๐ ๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ง๐๐ฌ & ๐ข๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฎ๐๐ง๐๐๐ฌ
These distractions temporarily numb the pain, but they only deepen the disconnect from the ๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐. Instead of finding peace, they end up in a constant loop of chasing quick dopamine fixes and destructive behaviors.
This patternโwhether itโs with relationships, business, or unhealthy coping mechanismsโleads to exhaustion and a deep sense of emptiness. ๐
The cycle of acquisition and discard wears them down. They push forward, constantly chasing success, but what theyโre really looking for is a connection to their ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ.
If this resonates with you, I can help you break this cycle and ๐ซ๐๐๐จ๐ง๐ง๐๐๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฌ๐lf. โจ
You donโt need more validation from outside sources. What youโre truly seeking is the ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐๐ that come from within.
Does this sound like you?
Letโs work together to align your ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐, ๐๐จ๐๐ฒ, ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ and stop the relentless pursuit of external fulfillment. Instead, letโs focus on nurturing the deep inner connection youโre missing.
๐ Call me to book your session today, and stop chasingโyou deserve to feel whole, nurtured, and loved. ๐