The Early Parenting Collective with Jayne Vidler

25/09/2025

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Last week a breastfeeding mother was asked to leave a Virgin Australia lounge for pumping. Experts says while there is a level of awareness that breastfeeding in public is protected, some people in the community still view it as "inappropriate".

12/08/2025

Ever feel like you're stuck in a fog of fatigue, indecision, and frustration? That’s been me these past three weeks, recovering from RSV. It’s been a journey of rest, reflection, and, honestly, a bit of frustration—especially when it comes to tackling social media.

But here’s the thing: healing takes time, and so does finding clarity. I’m finally starting to feel like myself again, and I’m excited to be back in the clinic next week, doing what I love most—helping families and little ones thrive.

To anyone else out there feeling overwhelmed or stuck, remember: it’s okay to pause, breathe, and take things one step at a time. You don’t have to have it all figured out today.

And as for social media? Meh. Sometimes it’s okay to admit it’s not your favourite thing. 😉

Here’s to progress, not perfection. 💪

05/08/2025

Join us for a face to face event! Discuss the reality of ethics and lactation for the most important people, the mothers and babies! https://lactationleap.com.au/ethical-lactation-care

04/08/2025

💛 Important Update – August Bookings 💛

I wanted to let you know that I’ve had to close my books for new clients for the month of August.

Unfortunately, I’ve been unwell with RSV and a chest infection over the past two weeks, which has meant rescheduling existing clients so they’re still supported while I recover.

My priority right now is getting well, catching up on the families already in my care, and making sure everyone receives the attention they deserve.

If you are a current client waiting to hear from me, I’ll be in touch soon to confirm your new appointment time.

If you’re a new family seeking support, dm me and I have some trusted colleagues and mentees who may be able to help you sooner.

Thank you so much for your patience, kindness, and understanding 💛
— Jayne

31/07/2025

💛 Community Call-Out for Donor Breastmilk 💛

We have a local family who would love to continue providing their baby with donor breastmilk and are reaching out for support from our wonderful community.

🤍 If you are a breastfeeding mum with an established supply and are willing to donate breastmilk, your gift could mean the world to this family.

Donor breastmilk can be an incredible support for babies when mothers are experiencing low supply, recovery from birth complications, medical conditions, or other challenges that make breastfeeding difficult.

🌱 If you are interested in donating, please ensure you:
✔️ Are in good health
✔️ Are not smoking, drinking alcohol, or using recreational drugs
✔️ Are not taking medications or supplements that are unsafe in lactation

If you are happy to help or would like to know more about how donor milk sharing works, please send me a DM and I can connect you with the family.

Let’s come together to support this little one and their parents with the gift of breastmilk. 💛

27/06/2025

💖 Mums need care too: Breastfeeding while sick with a cold or flu. 💖

Being a mum is tough, but being a sick mum while breastfeeding? That’s next-level strength. While you’re busy taking care of your little one, don’t forget to take care of yourself too.

Here are some tips to help you recover while continuing to nourish your baby:

1️⃣ Stay Hydrated: Drink plenty of water, herbal teas, or clear broths to keep your milk supply steady and your body hydrated.

2️⃣ Rest When You Can: Sleep is your best friend when you’re sick. Nap when your baby naps, and don’t hesitate to ask for help from family or friends.

3️⃣ Eat Nourishing Foods: Focus on nutrient-rich meals like soups, fruits, and vegetables to fuel your recovery.

4️⃣ Safe Medications: Many over-the-counter cold and flu medications are safe while breastfeeding, but always check with your healthcare provider or IBCLC first.

5️⃣ Practice Self-Care: A warm shower, a cozy blanket, or even a few minutes of deep breathing can make a world of difference.

✨ Remember: You can’t pour from an empty cup. Taking care of yourself is just as important as taking care of your baby.

📩 Need more tips or support? Reach out to us—we’re here to help you through your breastfeeding journey, even on the tough days.

25/06/2025

💊 Do you need to take medication and have been told to stop breastfeeding or expressing your breastmilk? 💊

Before making any decisions, it’s crucial to ensure you’ve been given accurate, evidence-based information.

Here’s what you need to know:

✅ Most medications are safe to take while breastfeeding. Only a small number require you to stop breastfeeding or adjust your feeding routine.
✅ In many cases, there are safer alternatives available that allow you to continue breastfeeding.
✅ Unfortunately, not all health professionals have access to the right resources or know where to find them. This means you may need to advocate for yourself and your baby.

The good news? There are strong, evidence-based resources available to help you and your healthcare provider make the best decision for your situation.

📌 Check out the images above for these amazing resources!

💡 Remember: You don’t have to navigate this alone. Share this post with your health professional so they can access the right information to support breastfeeding mothers and infants.

🤱 Like, save, and share this post to spread awareness and empower more families!

25/06/2025

Hi, I’m Jayne Vidler! 👋

With over 22 years of experience working with families, children, and babies, I’m here to support you on your journey. 💛

As a Registered Nurse (RN), International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC), and Orofacial Myology Therapist (OMT), I specialise in helping families navigate complex infant feeding challenges, oral function concerns, and more.

Whether you’re a parent seeking guidance or a practitioner looking for mentorship, I’m here to empower and educate you every step of the way. 🌿

✨ A little about me:
✔️ I hold a postgraduate certificate in Child, Youth, and Family Health.
✔️ I’m trained in Intuitive Intelligence and Spiritual Directorship.
✔️ I mentor IBCLCs to build sustainable, soulful private practices.

📍 Based in Australia, I also offer virtual support worldwide 🌏.

Let’s connect and work together to create balance, empowerment, and education for you and your family. 💕

24/06/2025

The honest truth? Social media has always been a bit of a challenge for me. 🙈

Between working behind the scenes with families, collaborating with other practitioners, mentoring IBCLCs to build soulful and sustainable private practices, and managing the day-to-day of life with three teenagers, a partner, parents, family, and friends—it’s a lot! 💛

Add in gym sessions, meditation, creative pursuits, and the endless hours of admin and bookkeeping to keep my business running, and, well, social media often takes a back seat.

But here’s the exciting part: there’s so much positive growth happening in my business right now, and I’m ready to share it with you! 🌿

Social media is such an important part of connecting with you all, so I’m trying my hand at new ways to show up more consistently.

✨ Watch this space as I reintroduce myself, my business, and all the exciting things happening behind the scenes. I can’t wait to share this journey with you!

19/06/2025

What terrible news for families and children!! I’ll never understand how the Government can cut such crucial funding for such crucial work!

We’re Heartbroken — These NDIS Changes Will Hurt the Children Who Need Us Most

This July, the NDIS is introducing changes that will dramatically reduce funding for therapy services — and as a paediatric physiotherapy provider, we are devastated.

Here’s what’s changing:
- The hourly rate for physiotherapy is being reduced (after being frozen for many years despite rising business costs)
- Travel will now only be funded at half the therapist’s time
- Removal of regional loadings

It may not sound like much — but to us, these changes feel like a quiet dismantling of the very care system we’ve spent years building.

We don’t just treat muscles or joints.
We help children take their first steps, sit upright for the first time, stand without support, play with their siblings, walk into a classroom.
We drive to homes, parks, early learning centres, schools — wherever that child feels safe and is necessary to achieve their goals. Because for many, therapy in a clinic simply isn’t possible.

These cuts will limit access. They’ll create more barriers. They’ll leave some children without the support they need — not because it isn’t available, but because it’s suddenly unaffordable for the system that was designed to include them.

We know these children. We’ve cried with families during breakthroughs. We’ve celebrated every inch of progress. We’ve advocated hard for them at every step of the way. And now we’re scared — for what will happen if we are no longer able to reach them and provide the service they need.

We cannot stay silent.

This isn’t just a funding adjustment.
This is a loss of potential. A loss of dignity. A loss of equity.

✍️ We are asking — please — help us fight against this inequitable pricing cut. I’ll link the petition in the comments.

📢 Share it. Speak up. Tag your MPs. Raise your voice with ours.

As paediatric physiotherapists, we’re not walking away — but we need a system that walks with us, not against us.

From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for standing with us and the children we support.

With fierce love and purpose,
💛 Katrina
& The Tree’s Physiotherapy Team

29/05/2025

🚨 Urgent Call for Donor Breastmilk – Ipswich Region 🚨

I’m reaching out on behalf of a family with a 7-day-old baby in immediate need of donor breastmilk.

If you have any in-date, frozen breastmilk to spare, or are able to express and donate, your support would mean the world to this little one and her family. 💛

📍 Located in the Ipswich area – I can help organise collection to make it as easy as possible.

Please DM me or comment below if you're able to help, or tag someone who might be. Let’s rally around this family with the power of community 💞

18/05/2025

This is the unseen work of running a private practice and specialising in complex infant feeding! For every hour of direct client time I’ve had this week, there’s an hour of admin to do!