14/01/2026
Breathe.....
It's easy, especially in this day and age, to go down rabbit holes, become hyper focused/fixated and have anxiety about all the little things that are contributing to your horse's health or lack of
One thing I would urge you to do, before going forward, is to breathe. Those big, deep down breaths. The ones that take time to do properly
Take a moment or several, take time out. Mindfully, physically and mentally relax
And then do it again. Breathe that is. If you are that person that has tied yourself up in knots, you will almost certainly need to
If it is not an emergency scenario that you and your horse are in, stand back from the situation and come at it again with fresh eyes and a fresh approach
A knee jerk reaction is just that, a reaction. It is not necessarily a solution to a perceived problem
Why am I saying this? My aim is not to downplay serious or ongoing issues, but to bring awareness as to how you have come to make those decisions regarding your horse's welfare. It has become common for horse owners to try to fix any and all issues we see, think we see or someone has pointed out to us. Only to end up overly stressed, upset or confused along the way
If the situation is none emergent, take your time and breathe
And breathe again. Relax your shoulders, your whole body and let go of that held tension. If you think you don't have any, think again. We all do
When you are ready, factor in a good dollop of commonsense and be real with what you can mentally, physically and financially absorb
If you keep on looking for issues, you can be sure you will find them. Whilst this is sometimes what is required, it can also be detrimental to our health and those of our horses. This also carries over into our daily lives...when does it not?
I'd go as far as to say make breathing exercises part of your daily routine. I love my diaphragm breathing. If I'm tense, the first couple of breaths are uncomfortable and then it feels soooo good. My body relaxes, my focus lifts and my mind feels clearer
Take time out with something that gives you a moment of joy or peace. Be it your favourite cup of tea, exercise, social time, being in nature, etc
You're not ignoring the issue. You will still be processing it in the background. But you can come back to it feeling more grounded, relaxed and with a solid plan, or the start of one
Making non-emergency decisions, when your mind and body are not in flight or fight mode, will always be the better way