10/04/2026
Today I was reminded of the power of touch in a relationship.
I felt overwhelmed…with the accumulating lists of things to do and all the hats I was trying to wear in one day.
Gus saw it in me…he offered to talk things through to help lighten the load, but the most special thing he did was that he paused to recognise what I needed in that moment.
He came over, wrapped me in the biggest hug …and I melted.
The worries of my busy mind instantly reduced to the sensations in my body as I felt his presence, the slowness of his breathe and the beat of his heart against mine…
I watched in awe of this whole experience as my whole body softened.
It was such an embodied reminder of how powerful loving presence paired with intentional touch can be. And just how quickly our nervous systems can return to safety with the help of someone else.
In a world that demands so much from us, it reminded me how moments like this can be our anchor.
Also a bit teary writing this as I acknowledge the depth of work we’ve done over the years in creating safety for one another. Love you and appreciate you
Jess🌸