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Some children don’t just dislike criticism — they feel undone by it.
A small correction, a friend saying no, or a moment of exclusion can land as deep rejection.

This isn’t being dramatic or fragile.
It’s a nervous system reacting to the fear of disconnection.

Rejection sensitivity often shows up in childhood and, without support, can quietly follow someone into adulthood — shaping relationships, confidence, and behaviour in ways that are frequently misunderstood.

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Why does a simple request like brushing teeth or turning off a device lead to tears, anger or a complete shutdown?

For some autistic children and young people, everyday demands can trigger intense anxiety. Pathological Demand Avoidance - PDA - is not about bad behaviour or poor parenting. It is about feeling overwhelmed, unsafe and out of control. The more pressure a child feels, the stronger the need to avoid.

When adults understand that behaviour is anxiety driven, everything changes. Lowering pressure. Offering real choices. Staying calm. Building trust before trying to correct. These small shifts can reduce conflict at home and school and protect a child’s emotional wellbeing.

If you support a child or teenager with PDA, this is a conversation worth having.

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