Eloise Tomkins - Money Coach & Psychologist

Eloise Tomkins - Money Coach & Psychologist 🚀 Break free from the cycle of money anxiety and reprogram your nervous system's response to wealth
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14/02/2026

They don’t let other people’s discomfort regulate their income.

When a client hesitates after she names her price she feels the silence.. and doesn’t fill it with a discount.

When family asks how business is going, she notices the urge to minimise… and shares her wins.

She sees immediately when her income is being capped by someone else’s discomfort.

And she acts anyway.

Not because she doesn’t care what people think, but because she can survive being misunderstood.

That’s the difference.

You might think you could never do that.

I get it.

Money can shift the energy of a room and your nervous system doesn’t like that tension. It wants you to be liked because it thinks that’ll keep you safe.

So it slams the brakes.

The Money Brake.

The split second moment where your nervous system looks for the fastest way to keep you likable… instead of wealthy.

And until you learn to catch that moment in real time - your income will keep getting regulated back to what feels safe, not what you’re capable of.

That’s why I created The Money Brake.

Inside, we slow down that exact split second moment:
– The trigger
– The body response
– The belief that activates when money puts you in the spotlight

So you can hold eye contact, share the win out loud, and let the room adjust to your success.

If you’re ready to find your five-second pattern, comment BRAKE and I’ll send you the details.

It’s $37.

Because the woman who can tolerate being seen with money?? She’s the one who keeps it.

04/02/2026

Let’s be real.

All that basic money advice got you here…
but it’s not going to get you where you actually want to go.

You’ve already worked harder than most people you know.

You’ve stayed up late thinking about your future, your freedom, the life you want to build.

And it’s not some faraway fantasy anymore.
It’s close enough to feel real and in reach.

BUT

Right now, you might be in that space where you want more... more money, more ease, more impact…
and the moment you go to reach for it, your body says no.

Not loudly, but just enough to make you hesitate.

And this is where your edge lives.. because it’s not about the money anymore. You’ve already proven you can make it.

What you’re actually navigating now is what happens when money asks you to be seen by your family, friends, strangers online.

Because after insight…
after strategy…
after “doing the work”…
The next level isn’t about effort.

It’s about whether your nervous system can stay present in that 5 second moment where wanting more meets being visible.

That’s what comes next.

Drop a YES if this resonates with you
& remember to follow

xx
Eloise

31/01/2026

Money isn’t a magic wand… But this is. 👇

If it were as simple as just make more money, then you’d already be feeling safe and secure.

Thing is, money isn’t just money.

Money means that we have to push ourselves outside of our comfort zone and nervous system doesn’t really like that

more money means more visibility.
More visibility means more exposure.
With exposure… There’s the dreaded judgement,

and I’m not just talking about strangers on the Internet. I’m talking about your loved ones, family and friends.

All of a sudden your goals don’t seem so much like fun in games, they feel like a threat to your nervous system..

…and so you find yourself being brought back down to the level that feels oddly familiar…

Even though you logically know better

If you want to learn how to train your nervous system for more, then you are going to want to hit follow on my account -

15/11/2025

Money won’t magically appear just cos we want it.

Crazy, know.

And I know you already know this.

So many brilliant women are sitting on ambitious income goals waiting to feel ready.

Waiting for the perfect moment, for some invisible permission slip to arrive that says:
✔ You’ve done enough
✔ You’re good enough
✔ It’s safe now

But… Your nervous system won’t magically update just because your goals got bigger.

If you don’t feel safe to have more, you’ll subconsciously find ways to delay, downplay, or disappear from the work that creates it (I know because this was me 🙋‍♀️)

It’s not for a lack of wanting or motivation — but our nervous system is still wired to seek just enough

If you’re done settling for enough and are ready to give yourself FULL permission for more thats exactly what we do inside The Wealth Upgrade.

Cos you don’t need to wait until youre ready.
But — you neee to understand what’s been holding you back so you can and learn how to work with your nervous system, not against it.

Doors are open now.

Link in bio to join the workshop.

Eloise xx

25/09/2025

Here’s how ⬇️

She stopped discounting her services “just this once” because a client’s dog needed surgery.

She stopped replying to every 11pm email with free advice no one ever paid her for.

She stopped letting her ex “forget” child support while she was swiping her credit card for groceries (again).

And the wildest part is…

The second she stopped trying to be liked - and started saying NO - her income tripled

Now instead of scrolling real estate late at night, sighing over homes she might afford one day… she’s booking viewings and putting down deposits on her dream home.

👉 She’s not working harder than you.
👉 She’s not better with money than you.
👉 She’s not more qualified than you.

She simply let her nervous system learn this:
✔️ It’s safe to say no without guilt.
✔️ It’s safe to hold boundaries and still be loved.
✔️ It’s safe to make more money than feels comfortable.

Agreeableness doesn’t build empires. Boundaries do.

And when her nervous system finally felt safe to say no, she unlocked the clarity to build a business that pays her worth, clients who respect her time, and a life driven by desire - not fear.

That’s why she’s sipping champagne in the kitchen of her new home while you’re still scrolling through dream homes at midnight, wondering if you’ll ever get there

So the real question is…
Are you going to keep being agreeable? 
Or are you ready to be rich AF, regulated AF, and actually move into that dream house instead of just sticking it on your vision board?

If you’re done being agreeable and finally ready to be rich AF…

Join Regulated + Rich AF, my free 90-minute masterclass - where you’ll uncover the hidden nervous system patterns keeping your income capped and rewire your body to actually hold the wealth you’ve been chasing.

Link in bio

Or head here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/unlock-next-level-wealth

Can’t wait to see you in the room!

xx
Elly

At first, it felt terrifying.My brain kept worrying about what would happen if I wasn’t constantly stressing, strategisi...
14/09/2025

At first, it felt terrifying.

My brain kept worrying about what would happen if I wasn’t constantly stressing, strategising, or manifesting my next income goal

But here’s what I realised:
The point of making money isn’t just to make more.

It’s to build a business that gives you freedom. A business that creates impact. A business that feels good to run.

So instead of obsessing over my next income goal, I started focusing on nervous system safety.

✨ I let myself have quiet mornings without guilt, Starbucks in hand.
✨ I welcomed clients who respected my boundaries because I finally felt safe saying no & knowing money would still come
✨ I noticed opportunities flowing in, not because I was hustling harder, but because I was grounded enough to receive them.

And the wildest part? When I stopped running on fear and actually felt safe with money… the money grew anyway.

That’s the shift I want you to feel too.

That’s exactly why I created The Wealthy Woman Activation… a 20-minute reset to clear the fear that’s been holding you back, so you can step into your next level of income and impact.

Because you don’t just want more money.
👉 You want money that feels safe.
👉 You want a business that feels better than you ever thought possible.

Access The Wealthy Woman Activation instantly for $37 via the link in my bio!

xx,
Elly

23/07/2025

You don’t raise your prices and then become the woman who can hold it.

You raise your prices because you’ve already outgrown the version of you who played it safe.

Join me as I chat with Brook McCarthy on this weeks ep of the Rich Woman Rising podcast where we dive deeper into women in business and money.

Listen here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/podcasts/rich-woman-rising-2/episodes/2149058547

Elly

Got this after a FREE masterclass I ran earlier this week.This woman isn’t a client.She didn’t pay a cent.She just showe...
10/07/2025

Got this after a FREE masterclass I ran earlier this week.

This woman isn’t a client.

She didn’t pay a cent.

She just showed up, got smacked with some truth… and it stuck

That message…

It’s not just feedback. That’s evidence.

Because here’s what most women get wrong about breakthroughs:

They think clarity should feel good.

They think healing should feel soft.

They think if it’s uncomfortable, it must be wrong.

Nope.

If your nervous system I sn’t squirming a little, you’re not touching the real issue.

The women who leave saying “that was interesting”
..stay exactly where they were.

The women who leave muttering, “Sh*t, that hit too close”
..wake up the next day making different decisions. Bigger moves. Less sabotage.

Because here’s the truth:

🧠 Your money blocks weren’t formed in safe, sparkly spaces.

❌ They were built in moments of emotional chaos and nervous system shutdown.

And you’re not going to heal them with cutesy affirmations and polite coaching calls.

You’ll heal them the moment someone hands you a mirror and says:

This? Right here? This belief is costing you thousands”

So ask yourself:

Are you chasing the breakthrough that feels good?

Or the one that works?

Because this is EXACTLY what we’re doing in Fire & Fortune.

Comment REAL if you’re ready for the truth that makes your stomach drop…

And I’ll dm you the details to register.

because that’s where your money’s hiding.

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