11/06/2025
Don't judge someone before you even know what they are capable of. What you're doing is ๐๐ง๐ช๐๐ก and here is why...
This young girl was doing ok through the awkward intro, 14 years old, full of hopes and dreams.
..But then she starts to take notice of the non-verbal language. She is looking at them for support and is met instead with the '๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐
๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐', the '๐๐๐๐s' on people's faces expressing pure doubt that she has any capability at all!
๐๐๐ ๐พ๐ผ๐ ๐๐๐ this and then ๐๐๐ starts doubting herself.
๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐จ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ ๐จ๐๐ ๐ฉ๐ฌ๐ค ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐จ.
1. People in this world continue to judge unfairly. They base this on how they look, how they act, what they wear...then roll it all together and make a fast assumption of what their worth is. This is all done before the person standing there has had the chance to show them their abilities, their passion, their authentic nature. They have dismissed them before they get the chance. ๐
2. She strives through it anyway...and blows people out of the water, massive credit to this young girl! ๐ค๐ค
๐ ๐จ๐๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐จ ๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ฎ๐ฌ๐๐๐ง๐ ๐ ๐๐ค. ๐๐ฉ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ฃ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐ข๐...๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ ๐ ๐ฃ๐ค๐ฌ ๐๐ฉ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ฃ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช.
Why is this damaging? This type of behaviour has lasting effects on people. It effects how the individual sees themselves, it hurts...and for those that aren't made strong through resilience and love...๐ช๐ต ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐บ ๐ค๐ณ๐ช๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ด ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ช๐ต ๐ด๐ค๐ข๐ณ๐ด.
๐๐ถ๐ฑ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ธ๐ป๐ผ๐, that when we listen to someone speak, if what they are saying is conflicting with the body language they are projecting, a person will run with the body language every time.
Further to this, a staggering ๐ต๐ฏ% of our communication is done through body language, with a mere 7% focussed on the words we use.
Our body language is largely shown through our ๐ช๐ฃ๐๐ค๐ฃ๐จ๐๐๐ค๐ช๐จ state. It's an automatic, visible response to your thoughts. People ๐๐๐ this. They feel this.
Think kind ๐ญ = project kindness โบ๏ธ
Think negative ๐ญ = project dismissal๐
You don't have to 'say' the words to express what you silently feel. It's written ๐ผ๐๐ over you! Your face (eyes, forehead, lips/check position), body (arm position, shoulders, head tilt, diaphragm - holding breath inflate/deflate, leg position, etc). All of this is displayed simply by the thoughts you are having.
๐๐ผ๐ป'๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ'๐ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ผ๐ป ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ฝ๐๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฑ...๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ'๐ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ผ๐ป ๐๐ผ ๐๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ฝ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด. ๐ถ
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