17/12/2025
๐ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฑ ๐ฎ ๐ฝ๐ผ๐๐ ๐๐ผ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ฐ๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ต๐๐บ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ผ๐๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฟ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น๐๐ต.
It lead me into thinking about: ๐ธ๐ฉ๐บ ๐ฅ๐ฐ ๐ธ๐ฆ ๐ซ๐ถ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด ๐ฆ๐น๐ฑ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ด๐ด ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ช๐ณ ๐ด๐ฆ๐ญ๐ง-๐ธ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ต๐ฉ? ๐ค
๐ก Understanding why people "flaunt" wealth requires understanding their background and teachings. Those humble about wealth typically learned that money provides comfort but isn't their value, or grew up with wealth and understood it doesn't define them.
๐ Those who display wealth often learned that:
a) Their worth is benchmarked by what they have
b) Credibility comes from assets
c) Social standing requires visible wealth
This isn't innate - it's taught behaviour. People who tie their value to wealth are often deeply insecure, knowing everything could vanish with one bad decision. ๐ฐ๐จ
When we ask them to be humble, we're unintentionally saying "you're not important to me" - which drives them to talk about it more to feel valued and seen ๐
We all act in ways that make others uncomfortable. We don't connect with everyone. Some people just aren't our "tribe" - they don't share our humor, interests, or beliefs. Your tribe is made up of people that align with you. These people make you feel self-assured and 'safe' to be exactly you are, and/or who you want to grow into. ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฅ
So why does someone else's expression of their own self worth (when materially aligned) bother us? ๐ซค
โข Why do we feel uncomfortable?
โข Why do we assume they think they're better than us?
โข Why must they be humble for us to feel comfortable?
โข Why is our belief structure "the right one"?
Perhaps the real issue is:
a) Our lack of understanding how others feel valued
b) We feel unimportant because we lack the wealth they value
c) Our own insecurities about worth
d) Or something else?
๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ฎ๐ค๐ฃ๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐จ ๐๐๐ ๐ฃ๐ค๐ฌ๐ก๐๐๐๐๐ข๐๐ฃ๐ฉ, ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ง๐๐๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ, ๐ง๐๐จ๐ฅ๐๐๐ฉ, ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ข๐ค๐จ๐ฉ ๐ค๐ ๐๐ก๐ก - ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐ ๐จ๐๐๐ฃ ๐๐จ ๐ฌ๐ค๐ง๐ฉ๐๐ฎ ๐
We learn our values from family, environment, schools, media. We didn't all grow up on the same side of town. Some people are taught their inner values are what matters most. Others are taught assets equal worth and nobody cares about you without money, a big house, and flash cars.
๐ฝ๐ค๐ฉ๐ ๐๐ง๐ค๐ช๐ฅ๐จ ๐๐ช๐จ๐ฉ ๐ฌ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐ ๐จ๐๐๐ฃ ๐ง
๐ฌ If you feel compelled to "pull someone up" on expressing their self-worth, redirect your focus to their actions, not how they rate themselves.
Ask yourself instead:
โข Do they display cruel behavior?
โข Do they break societal rules?
โข Do they lie, betray, or manipulate?
๐ญ If no, then perhaps the problem is more about our own insecurities rather than their "bragging" about their wealth.
- Lana