08/10/2025
Divorce. Separation. Break-Ups & What They Say About You.
Just like money amplifies who you really are,
So do relationship breakdowns.
I don’t see the end of a relationship as something that’s “failed”
You’ve built lives together, had kids together, shared so many moments, shared life… that is a success in my eyes.
No shade on that, ever.
But how you carry yourself during the initial stages of your separation shows us who you really are.
The entitlement,
The public shaming,
The victim,
The revenge,
The pettiness,
The manipulation,
The abandonment,
The hate,
The abuse,
The control,
The dragging out and holding on,
Using kids as something to barter, win or exchange.
Sure, there is pain and heartbreak present, but there is always a CHOICE to be grace, love, understanding, kind, sovereign, compassionate and FAIR.
There can be so much unfairness in separation, and it’ so sad, no one wins here.
It’s a choice we make.
Don’t make kids choose a side.
Don’t use kids as a carrot to dangle.
Don’t relocate your kids “just because” without a fair and consensual understanding and plan in place.
Kids shouldn’t be caught in the middle of a separation.
Respect the parent of your child and do what is right and fair for everyone.
How you behave, you can’t take that back.
Model to your children how an empowered, loving person moves through the world.
What does your breakup say about you?
Love has nothing to prove.
It just is.
Even when the relationship “ends”, love doesn’t have to..
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