24/03/2025
**How I Went from Over-Giving & Self-Doubt to Trusting Myself Fully**
I wasnât always the woman you see todayâconfident, deeply rooted in self-trust, and unapologetic about my boundaries.
For years, I poured myself into others, constantly proving my worth through self-sacrifice.
I silenced my desires, thinking that love and success required me to give more, to be more.
I felt exhausted, unseen, and questioning why, no matter how much I did, it never felt like enough.
I remember coming home from work, exhausted, dishes piled in the sinkâI snapped. My boys, just being kids, bore the brunt of my frustration. Then, outside at the clothesline, sobbing over yet another task, it hit me: I wasnât coping, and I felt like I was failing at everything.
That night, lying awake, I realisedâthis wasnât just exhaustion. It was about years of putting everyone else first, about silencing my own needs. And when I was blamed for something at work, instead of standing up for myself, I swallowed itâagain. That was my breaking point.
Taking responsibility was a bitter pill to swallow. At first, I didn't want to accept it. But the truth was undeniableâI had contributed to my own exhaustion by not honouring myself, not speaking up for myself. I had spent years waiting for validation, for someone to say, *âYouâre good enough.â*
But that moment never came. The Universe was giving me an outâit was time to choose myself. And I did.
I stopped blamingâI let go of victim consciousness and took radical responsibility for my life.
Now, I look back at that time and wouldnât change a thing. It was my awakening.
Learning to trust myself came when I discovered I have always been guided.
I can let go of control (I never had it anyway) đ
Now, I trust life. I know everything is happening *for* me, guiding me into greater levels of personal empowerment, self-love, self-appreciation, and self-awareness.
⨠All of it is a journey, but rather than seeing it as hard and never-ending, I choose to see it as a grand adventureâand I love to celebrate every step.
Itâs not always easy, but with this awareness, I can relaxâI trust in God's plan for me.
⨠My desires are now clear to meâsomething I once struggled with. I used to not know what I wanted, or I kept my desires secret, feeling unworthy of them. (This is something many of my clients struggle with too.)
⨠My confidence now comes from knowing who I amâa divine, individuated expression of the One/God/Source, as is everyone else.
⨠There is no point in judging or comparingâbecause all divine aspects are playing out in this adventure called life. And Iâve learned that judgment and comparison only lead to unhappiness.
If any part of my story resonates with youâif you feel exhausted, unseen, or like youâve lost yourselfâI want you to know there is another way.
You donât have to keep pushing through. You get to choose yourself. And I can help you get there.
I help women do the exact same thing inside **The Soaring Free Method**.
This isnât just theory. Itâs the work Iâve lived, the transformation Iâve walked through, and the shift I now guide other women to experience.
If youâre done waiting to feel âreadyâ and youâre ready to start reclaiming your confidence, your boundaries, and your peaceâ**DM me FREE** and letâs explore your next steps together.
**You are worthy. You are capable. You are meant to soar.**
Letâs rise together. đď¸â¨