27/04/2026
THE AGEING ATHLETE —
These days i do things a little different.
Once upon a time, I would load the bar, take a few seconds to focus, and off I would go.
These days – the process is different.
I approach the bar, and take quite a few seconds (minutes) longer.
Not hesitation. More like... a conversation. Between me and something that used to just do what it was told.
Knees – ‘check’. Lower back – ‘check’. Shoulder – ‘check.’
Ok, let’s try the first rep! Up it comes, slowly. Carefully monitor all systems. Okay, back down - pause. Re-check all systems. No malfunction. Repeat. Pause. All good. Now let the next 5 or 6 rip like there’s no tomorrow. Victory! Now, more weight. And the process is repeated.
Halfway through the workout, it’s all systems a go. Just like it used to be.
I'm 69. I've been training since I was a teenager. Boxing, AFL, Bodybuilding, powerlifting, Oly lifting, strongman — I've done them all. I've coached elite athletes for over 40 years. I know what hard work is and I know what it costs. I've always been willing to pay it – sometimes dearly.
But the body has its own invoice now.
These joints need a longer warm-up. The hormones have quietly retired without telling me. Recovery that used to take a day now takes three. The skin tells its own stories, and the muscles - sometimes they have nightmares that wake me up.
The competitive mentality, the SPIRIT? Completely intact. Forty odd years of you don't back down doesn't just switch off.
So, what do you do with that?
You get honest. Brutally and specifically honest. There's a difference between can't and won't — and on any given day you'd better know which one you're actually dealing with.
Some days pushing through is just common sense. Other days more effort goes into keeping the ego under control.
I'm still in the gym. Still coaching athletes half my age, training with some of them, the one’s with ‘heart’. But, always, still competing with myself, improving, trying to deny the body it’s impending aging process.
I’ve always loved to explore the boundaries of human endeavour, and I’m not going to stop now.
If you're an ex-athlete in your 50s or 60s having this same argument with yourself — you don't need someone young telling you to "listen to your body."
You need someone who's having the same argument.
Turns out the most important conversation in the gym isn't between you and the bar. It's between who you were and who you're still refusing to stop being.
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