08/09/2025
BEING SMART AS YOU AGE WILL HELP YOU DO WHAT YOU LOVE LONGER 💪
Those early years were pure and simple – nothing complicated.
Train hard with a do-or-die intensity, and be committed and consistent. The world and everything in it came second to training, training goals, the competitions and eating.
Selfish? That's one common interpretation, but another is that "selfishness" is actually a byproduct of doing what has to be done to succeed at what you've committed to! 🔥
Bodybuilding, powerlifting, strongman – I loved it all. The training, the competition, the camaraderie, the coaching. If only I could have done it forever...
But then... there was THAT moment! The moment I realized that I just couldn't train like I was 25 forever. That moment the same weights just seemed to weigh heavier, to rise slower, to produce unusual, uncomfortable niggles the next day, and the day after that. That moment when eating the same macros seemed to be too much because the abs started to look "average." And that right there was a disaster. Oh no!! Not the abs ... 😤
But the mind, the ego and the soul would scream: "No.. NO!! I'm not going to let that happen!!" So like any stubborn old idiot ... I just went harder. Bad mistake!
There's lots of things we all don't want to happen in life. Some we have control over, others we don't. That tap on the shoulder that says "you're getting older you idiot, slow down" needs to be listened to. If you choose to fight it ..... then enjoy your breakdown.
Eventually, I accepted that if I understood it, worked with it, and around it, I could overcome it. And the intensity, those do-or-die efforts could still be sustained.
When I was younger my goals were different. I trained for strength, competition and a little bit of "ego." Just a little bit.... - okay okay, maybe more than a little bit. But real-life kicks in once the ego gets a butt kicking. 💥
Simple scientific fact: as you age, your internal chemistry changes. Your hormones go on a holiday, muscles repair slower, and that energy... just doesn't come as fast and hard.
That doesn't mean you can't keep training hard, with intensity and a bit of insanity. It doesn't mean you can't compete. It just means it won't be at the same level as you once did, the accolades and recognition will not be as great, and the performances will not be recognized to be as impressive as they were - because the weight you are now moving is not what it once was.
BUT... hey... You should be training for different reasons! Your goals have changed. Priorities have changed. Work and family and ideas towards a good retirement start becoming "real." Oh yeah... And bills. Lots of them. 💸
Naaaaahhhh! It wasn't that for me... or maybe it was a bit of both. All that, but also the body saying "slow down you idiot! You can't keep doing this!"
Anyway, there's no use wanting to be a "GOAT" when the natural deterioration that comes with age means you will actually perform as a goat - if you ignore the signs! 🐐
At some stage in the unwanted aging process a decision has to be made that you can still train like a berserker warrior but you also have to train for health and even better, longevity with good health.
FACT: As you age, and the injuries, the fatigue, the niggles and exhaustion creep in, things slow down – training, intensity, strength, all start going backward. It's inevitable. Time for a new approach. But you're not starting from scratch. It's more of a realignment of effort and intensity – one that fits in with a realistic evaluation of what you can and can't do, and what you want and "should" do.
Next thing you know, slowly, fatigue starts to disappear, niggles start to subside, and... the most wondrous thing is that strength, weights, energy - all start to increase again. 📈
There is no difference between a 25-year-old pushing to the point of herniation to raise that deadlift bar loaded to 300kg plus, and a 65-year-old near heart failure pulling on 220kg's. The effort, intensity, commitment is the same.
That's when you realize - you can still live the life of a GOAT that has yet to be skinned and put on a Greek BBQ! 🔥💪
Four decades of scars on shins from scraping deadlift bars, callouses, back pain, bad knees, torn bicep, shoulders mangled, but I still outtrain all the younger brigade. And yeahhhh .. I still try to lift weights that demoralize some of them. But it's for their own good!. 😏
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