22/05/2026
Sometimes raising your standards feels uncomfortable before it feels empowering.
Whether it’s business, relationships, friendships, or the way we value our own time and energy… there often comes a moment where life asks:
“Do you really believe you deserve better?”
A little while ago, I raised my prices for my children’s entertainment business, Pixie Moon Parties… and almost immediately, the universe tested me. 😅
An old client came back — someone who had previously haggled for discounts, caused stress, and been difficult to work with.
This time, she asked for another discount.
Instead of panicking or lowering my prices, I stayed grounded. I explained that my prices had increased, and while I could offer a small returning-client discount, that was the only flexibility available.
I sent through a detailed party plan… and never heard back.
But here’s the interesting part:
Within days, two new bookings came in.
Both paid the newer pricing.
Both were lovely to work with.
One even supplied gems for the kids’ face painting and left me a Google review within minutes of me asking. ✨
Over the past few weeks I’ve created K-pop inspired sparkle looks, Crystal Crown face gem parties, Paw Patrol adventures, and tomorrow I’m stepping into an enchanted Snow White celebration. 👑🍎✨🧚♀️🍄
And honestly? I feel really proud that I didn’t waver.
Sometimes every “no” really does create space for a better “yes.”
Raising your standards isn’t only about charging more. It’s about trusting the value of what you bring, holding healthy boundaries, and making space for people who genuinely appreciate what you offer.
(Also… I’m very grateful to no longer attract the kind of party where the parent disappears into a walk-in wardrobe and never re-emerges. Maybe she was looking for Narnia 😂)
