20/09/2024
Mindset Matters
Turning Happenings into Doings pt 1
One on the things that have really helped me on my journey into being a more resourceful and fulfilled human is the understanding that, and it blew my mind when i first realised this is, that most of our behaviours are unconscious, according to psychology upwards of 90% of what you do is on autopilot, sure you make decisions to do things, and its arguable that those decisions are habit and not really conscious themselves, but most of what happens after language, skills, attitudes toward things are all unconscious processes driven by our combined experience and learning of life! ...... which was a big eye opener to why i was making not so great choices in life over and over again and saying why is this happening to me 😭
The good news though i learnt is that i have 10% wriggle room to make changes toward being a better person, I was able to turn off the autopilot on the things that I was doing, turning,
Happenings into Doings!
Changing what had been largely unconscious, things happening to me into things I was doing, which made it a lot easier to make better choices.
The next step being turning Doings into Happenings, making resourceful doings a thing that just Happens!
To your best self!
Steve :)
