
12/10/2025
It can be normal for dad and partners to feel the process of bonding with their new baby more challenging.
Attachment and bonding with your baby comes with lots of playing, communicating and interacting with your baby. This relationship can start even before baby is born so that after birth your baby will recognise your voice and be calmed by knowing it.
There is so many more ways that dad or a partner can bond with baby other than feeding.
🛁 Bath time
👶 Nappy changes
✋ Baby massage
🎤 Singing and talking to your baby
📖 Reading
🥰 Babywearing
🧸 Playing with toys
🤩 Skin to skin
🏡 Walk in the pram
Feeding isn't the only way to bond with your baby. It can be hard to know how to help when baby is feeding lots but all these seemingly little things are really important for your baby's brain development as well as helping you both bond.
Any of these things can then support your partner to have a shower or a short nap or grab something to eat.
Click on these links below for more dad information and support.
https://dadmatters.org.uk/portfolio.../attachment-bonding/
https://www.fathersnetwork.org.uk/