The Deborah Wolf

The Deborah Wolf ๐˜š๐˜–๐˜”๐˜ˆ๐˜›๐˜๐˜Š ๐˜Ž๐˜œ๐˜๐˜‹๐˜Œ
๐˜Œ๐˜™๐˜–๐˜›๐˜๐˜Š ๐˜Œ๐˜”๐˜‰๐˜–๐˜‹๐˜๐˜”๐˜Œ๐˜•๐˜›
๐˜š๐˜๐˜ˆ๐˜”๐˜ˆ๐˜•๐˜๐˜Š โ˜ฅ ๐˜ˆ๐˜•๐˜Š๐˜Œ๐˜š๐˜›๐˜™๐˜ˆ๐˜“ ๐˜ˆ๐˜™๐˜›๐˜š
๐˜™๐˜Œ๐˜‹ ๐˜›๐˜Œ๐˜•๐˜› ๐˜๐˜–๐˜“๐˜‹๐˜Œ๐˜™
๐˜Œ๐˜๐˜Œ๐˜•๐˜›๐˜š ๐˜ˆ๐˜“๐˜Š๐˜๐˜Œ๐˜”๐˜๐˜š๐˜›
๐˜Š๐˜œ๐˜™๐˜ˆ๐˜›๐˜–๐˜™ ๐˜–๐˜ ๐˜›๐˜๐˜Œ ๐˜š๐˜ˆ๐˜Š๐˜™๐˜Œ๐˜‹ โ˜ฅ ๐˜š๐˜Œ๐˜•๐˜š๐˜œ๐˜ˆ๐˜“

๐˜‰๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ๐˜บ-๐˜‰๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜š๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ค ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜บ
๐˜๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜บ + ๐˜Š๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜Š๐˜ฐ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ฉ
๐˜š๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜š๐˜ฆ๐˜น๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜บ ๐˜๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ
๐˜š๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ค + ๐˜ˆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ญ ๐˜๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ
๐˜ž๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ด ๐˜™๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜›๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ

For nine years now, I have been sitting with women in the Red Tent.It is a place shaped by listening and tending, by rem...
18/12/2025

For nine years now, I have been sitting with women in the Red Tent.

It is a place shaped by listening and tending, by remembering what becomes possible when women gather without urgency or performance, and are allowed to be exactly where they are.

Tonight, I will be holding the last Womenโ€™s Red Tent for the year in Ocean Shores. With what has unfolded in my hometown of Bondi, this circle feels especially timely. A place to come together, to feel, to grieve, and to let the body do what it knows how to do when it is not alone.

Women come to Red Tent when something in them knows it is time to stop carrying everything by themselves. When the inner life needs warmth, rhythm, and the simple medicine of being witnessed.

You can find the details here:
https://www.deborahwolf.com.au/

Or direct message me ๐ŸŒน

The soul does not rush.It circles closer the way a wild animal does, testing the air, listening for whether the ground i...
16/12/2025

The soul does not rush.
It circles closer the way a wild animal does, testing the air, listening for whether the ground is safe to receive it.
When it comes near, there is weight.
A gravity that presses old stories to the surface of the body.

You feel it and you know.
This is not the time for doing.
This is the time for lying still and letting the bones listen.

The eyes turn inward.
Downward.
Toward a dark that has always been there, waiting patiently.
This dark does not belong to childhood or mother or family story.
It belongs to the deeper river, the one that runs under womenโ€™s lives no matter what name they give it.

You descend because you have descended before.
The feet remember.
The way opens.

The waters rise.
Heavy waters.
They take you where effort loosens its grip, where strength gives way to something older.
There is a moment in these crossings when the body finally understands it does not need to hold itself together so tightly.
The hands open.
The jaw softens.
The breath slips back into places long forgotten.

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THE RED TENT โ€ข OCEAN SHORESThis Wednesday โ€ข Fortnightly GatheringThe Red Tent is back this Wednesday, and our womenโ€™s ci...
08/12/2025

THE RED TENT โ€ข OCEAN SHORES
This Wednesday โ€ข Fortnightly Gathering

The Red Tent is back this Wednesday, and our womenโ€™s circle continues every two weeks - a soft landing place in the middle of life.

This is a slow, nourishing space for women to rest, soften, share, and be held without pressure or performance.

A remembering of the old ways.
A place where your whole self is welcome.

In each Red Tent you can expect..
โ–ณ Tea, food, warmth and gentle connection
โ–ณ Sharing whatโ€™s alive in you
โ–ณ Somatic practices for grounding
โ–ณ Craft, story, ritual or simple presence
โ–ณ A circle where rest is sacred and nothing is forced

Some nights we laugh.
Some nights we cry.
Some nights one woman is held deeply by the whole circle.
Every night is real.

You donโ€™t need to be spiritual or โ€œknow what to say.โ€ Just come as you are.

โ–ณ Every second Week in Ocean Shores
โ–ณ Next Circle: This Wednesday 6-9pm
โ–ณ Message me for details or to join the group

I want to celebrate something inside myself today.When I am in a session with a client, something in me settles. I feel ...
02/12/2025

I want to celebrate something inside myself today.

When I am in a session with a client, something in me settles. I feel completely at home in that space.

Those of you who hold spaces will know this feeling of belonging to the work and to the moment itself. It feels like an honour every single time, a privilege and a mystery I get to enter again and again.

Every session feels like my favourite. Part of me wishes I could capture the way the energy shifts, the way a breath softens, the way someone meets a forgotten part of themselves. But the magic is in the fact that it cannot be bottled. It is sacred because it is alive in real time.

The relationship between me and a client is intimate in the most human way. We step into the unknown together with intention and sensitivity.

I feel blessed to walk beside someone as they discover the parts of themselves that already know how to heal and feel. The body remembers. It just needs support and a soft place to land.

This is very different from how I used to heal. I used to dive into my stories with force and doing. Now the work feels feminine, spacious and steady. It begins with safety. And once safety is there, everything opens in its own time.

This somatic and embodied way feels like truth to me. Whether the journey is intimacy, erรธtic connection, trauma or shame, something profound happens when we go slow enough to feel and listen.

I love this work. I feel grateful every day that I get to do it โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

The evolution of my work has been a journey from fire into softness.For 12 years I walked the shamanic path, shedding an...
31/08/2025

The evolution of my work has been a journey from fire into softness.

For 12 years I walked the shamanic path, shedding and unraveling, pushing myself to the edge in the name of healing.

But I discovered that true transformation isnโ€™t only found in intensity - it also lives in stillness, play, pleasure, and joy.

Now I weave my shamanic roots with the nourishment of the feminine, creating spaces where healing comes through safety, presence, and the radical act of including all of who we are.

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The medicine I offer is of being deeply seen, of slowing down enough to listen to the body, and remembering what it feel...
22/08/2025

The medicine I offer is of being deeply seen, of slowing down enough to listen to the body, and remembering what it feels like to come home to itself.

I hold space for you to reconnect with your original blueprint, your roots, your Eros, and your aliveness.

My work is trauma-sensitive, deeply embodied, and woven with ritual, creativity, and care.

This medicine is for those who are ready to release old wounds, reclaim their power, and step into steadiness, vitality, and truth.

Who long for softness and safety, as much as for those who are ready to ignite their fire.

Every session is unique, guided by what your body, heart, and spirit are asking for.

Sometimes it looks like grounding into the nervous system, sometimes meeting grief or anger, sometimes reawakening pleasure and erotic energy - always in service of bringing you closer to your wholeness.

If you feel the call to work together, I invite you to step into this medicine with me.

Book in locations are Tweed Heads & Ocean Shores

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Hi everyone, weโ€™ve created something we are really excited about called NAKED CONVERSATIONS - which is a Sex-positive Sh...
21/08/2025

Hi everyone, weโ€™ve created something we are really excited about called NAKED CONVERSATIONS - which is a
Sex-positive Sharing Support Circle - with all profits going to CASA (Center Against Sexual Assault) ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ

๐ŸŒนWhat to expect from these circles::

โ€ข Opportunities to explore the raw, real terrain of being human, covering shame, trauma, body image, relationship repair, and the longing to be seen and supported.
โ€ข Reflection and integration after scenes
โ€ข Support for Sub and Dom drops
โ€ข Safety, Consent and Boundary work
โ€ข Heartfelt connection with a kinky sex-positive community

๐ŸŒนWhen?
Last Thursday of each month
12โ€“1.15pm (AEST)
Online ยท By donation
(all profits to CASA)

The Zoom link will be emailed once you have reserved your spot ๐Ÿฉต

Come as you are.
Speak if you wish.
Listen deeply.
Be held.

Hosted by Mistress Grace
& Mistress Wolf ๐ŸŒน


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I often tell the story of The Boar Stone when Iโ€™m holding space for women.Something happens when itโ€™s spoken - an activa...
15/08/2025

I often tell the story of The Boar Stone when Iโ€™m holding space for women.

Something happens when itโ€™s spoken - an activation, a stirring - in the hearts it reaches.

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In the old Celtic lands, there was a sacred cave where women went to birth.

In the centre stood the Boar Stone. Barefoot, blood-warmed, they climbed onto it. Around them, women and midwives stood as witnesses to the initiation.

They lifted the pleats of their dresses, raised their hands to the roof of the cave, and birthed-not only the child, but themselves.

In that moment, the Maiden was laid to rest. She was honoured, integrated, and the Warrior Mother took her place. The Lioness who protects. The one who does not take s**t.

It was never just the birth of the child. It was the birth of the Mother.

A primal ache had been tugging at her womb since the moment she first bled, and as she stepped into the mouth of the cave, it wasnโ€™t fear that guided her-it was ecstasy. The taste of her full power.

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Imagine growing up knowing that one day, you would stand on that stone to birth your children. Imagine how that expectation would call you forward into your own warrior woman.

Every woman touches the wild when she births, but sometimes she isnโ€™t ready. Sometimes the rawness and reality of it shakes her to her core.

Birth is big. My god - it is so big.

Think of what it would do to youโ€ฆ to stand on that stone, feel your ancestors behind you, and push life into the world. Iโ€™m tingling just speaking it.

This story writes itself through me.

There is so much power waiting to be reclaimed through initiation.

When I tell it, I can feel her - the Wild Woman, the Warrior Mother - breathing down my neck, urging me to open my jaws and howl.

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The temples were never truly lost.. only buried.Long ago, the sacred erotic spaces of the Goddess were covered over.Ston...
31/07/2025

The temples were never truly lost.. only buried.

Long ago, the sacred erotic spaces of the Goddess were covered over.

Stone by stone, patriarchal temples were built on top of them, silenced by shame, and repackaged as taboo.

The body made shameful.
Desire made dangerous.
Power made punishable.

But you canโ€™t bury something that lives in our bones.

You canโ€™t erase what is elemental or woven into our blueprint.

The sacred, erotic, wild temple lives on in us.

And now, she has risen.

We see her in the revival of Ta**ra, not as a technique, but as a way of being.

We see Her in the way we speak love into our loversโ€™ skin..
in every breath of devotion, in every gesture of respect.

In honour. In deep listening. In the courageous art of communication.

We see her in kink being pulled out of the dungeon and placed back onto the altar.

Not to be sanitized, but to be honoured.

To us, kink is temple.
Itโ€™s not about shock or spectacle, itโ€™s about soul.

We wear archetypes like ritual garments, and play different roles like sacred costumes.

Each archetypeโ€”a doorway to the parts of us waiting to be seen:
the seductress, the beast, the healer, the brat, the queen, the holy w***e, the priestess.

Through play, we access truth.
Through consent, we create safety.
Through sensation, we come alive.

This is the erotic as holy.
This is healing through embodied mythology.

Each scene is a ceremony, a chance to meet the fragmented, the hidden, the hungry parts within.

This is shadow work dressed in leather.
Parts work laced with rope.
Somatic healing wrapped in permission, presence, and play.

Kink, when held with care and consent, is not separate from the sacred.. it is sacred.

It is how we reclaim what was buried.

How we make the body holy again.

How we reinhabit the temple we never truly left.

๐Ÿ”ฅ Join the next Red Temple event, The Naked Muse โ€ข September 13th โ€ข Brisbane

Spiritual gifts arenโ€™t really โ€œspiritualโ€ to me at all.. theyโ€™re natural responses that emerge when we deepen, clear, an...
28/07/2025

Spiritual gifts arenโ€™t really โ€œspiritualโ€ to me at all.. theyโ€™re natural responses that emerge when we deepen, clear, and become fully present with what is.

To call it Spiritual, it gives a sense to me anyway that itโ€™s not accessible because not everyone is โ€˜spiritually inclinedโ€™, it also makes it feel outside of ourselves and seperate.

Our world is layered with distractions; overstimulation, instant gratification, and endless entertainment.. all of which dull our senses.

This is the veil, or you could say, this is the exile from the Garden.

When we remove the numbing, and stay with whatโ€™s real, even the discomfort- something ancient begins to stir. Something in the blueprint of our elder-humanness that was always there.

A forgotten sense comes online. Itโ€™s not mystical, or something that makes you special or different.

Itโ€™s justโ€ฆ human. And it wakes up when you heal by meeting yourself honestly.

Sometimes, these capacities are triggered by trauma or some kind of rupture, a crack in the structure of your ordinary life.

Theyโ€™re evolutionary responses.

Like a motherโ€™s milk coming in at just the right moment, or a manโ€™s s***m count shifting with the moon.

You could call it magic, but itโ€™s deeply embodied and intelligent.

What we call โ€œspiritual giftsโ€ arenโ€™t mystical or special, theyโ€™re natural human capacities that awaken when we slow down, clear distractions, and meet ourselves honestly.

Our world constantly pulls us away from presence, and these gifts are evolutionary responses, like intuitive sensing, deep empathy, or insight that comes online when we reconnect with our inner world.

Theyโ€™re not supernatural. Theyโ€™re just part of being fully human.

These so-called โ€œgiftsโ€ are part of our design and activate when we do.

How do we learn safe attachment?Not by pushing people away.Not by pretending we donโ€™t care.Not by detaching from our nee...
24/07/2025

How do we learn safe attachment?
Not by pushing people away.
Not by pretending we donโ€™t care.
Not by detaching from our needs.

We learn safe attachment by rewiring our nervous system โ€” one gentle moment at a time.

โœจ We start with the body โ€” learning to notice when weโ€™re activated and how to come back to ground.

โœจ We build trust with ourselves โ€” showing up for our own emotions instead of abandoning or shaming them.

โœจ We connect with safe people โ€” not perfect ones, but those who can repair after rupture, respect boundaries, and meet us with consistency.

โœจ We expect our old patterns to show up โ€” and meet them with compassion, not judgment.

โœจ We create new experiences โ€” steady connection, healthy affection, love that doesnโ€™t require losing ourselves.

Safe attachment is not a destination.
Itโ€™s a practice.

A nervous system that learns, over time:
โ€œI am safe. I am loved. I donโ€™t have to do it all alone.โ€

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