Hearts in Harmony

07/01/2022

This Year, Let Go Of The People Who Aren’t Ready To Love You

It is the hardest thing you will ever have to do, and it will also be the most important: stop giving your love to those who aren’t ready to love you.
Stop having hard conversations with people who don’t want to change.
Stop showing up for people who are indifferent about your presence.
Stop prioritizing people who make you an option.
Stop loving people who aren’t ready to love you.
I know that your instinct is to do whatever you can to earn the good graces of everyone you can, but that is also the impulse that will rob you of your time, your energy and your sanity.
When you start showing up to your life wholly and completely, with joy and interest and commitment, not everyone is going to be ready to meet you there.
It doesn’t mean you need to change who you are. It means you need to stop loving people who aren’t ready to love you.
If you’re left out, subtly insulted, mindlessly forgotten about or easily disregarded by the people you spend the most time with, you’re doing yourself an incredible disservice by continuing to offer your energy and life to them.
The truth is that you are not for everyone, and everyone is not for you. That’s what makes it so special when you do find the few people with whom you have a genuine friendship, love or relationship: you’ll know how precious it is because you’ve experienced what it isn’t.
But the longer you spend trying to force someone to love you when they aren’t capable, the longer you’re robbing yourself of that very connection. It is waiting for you. There are billions of people on this planet, and so many of them are going to meet you at your level, vibe where you are, connect with where you’re going.
… But the longer you stay small, tucked into the familiarity of the people who use you as a cushion, a back burner option, a therapist and a ploy for their emotional labor, the longer you keep yourself out of the community you crave.
Maybe if you stop showing up, you’ll be less liked.
Maybe you’ll be forgotten about altogether.
Maybe if you stop trying, the relationship will cease.
Maybe if you stop texting, your phone will stay dark for days and weeks.
Maybe if you stop loving someone, the love between you will dissolve.
That doesn’t mean you ruined a relationship. It means that the only thing sustaining a relationship was the energy you and you alone were putting into it.
That’s not love. That’s attachment.
The most precious, important thing that you have in your life is your energy. It is not your time that is limited, it is your energy. What you give it to each day is what you will create more and more of in your life. What you give your time to is what will define your existence.
When you realize this, you’ll begin to understand why you’re so anxious when you spend your time with people who are wrong for you, and in jobs or places or cities that are wrong, too.
You’ll begin to realize that the foremost important thing you can do for your life and yourself and everyone you know is to protect your energy more fiercely than anything else.
Make your life a safe haven in which only people that can care and listen and connect are allowed.
You are not responsible for saving people.
You are not responsible for convincing them they want to be saved.
It is not your job to show up for people and give away your life to them, little by little, moment by moment, because you pity them, because you feel bad, because you “should,” because you’re obligated, because, at the root of it all, you’re afraid to not be liked back.
It is your job to realize that you are the master of your fate, and that you are accepting the love you think you’re worthy of.
Decide you’re deserving of real friendship, true commitment and complete love with people who are healthy and thriving.
Then wait in the darkness, just for a little bit…
… And watch how quickly everything begins to change.

By Brianna Wiest Updated September 26, 2021
This Year, Let Go Of The People Who Aren’t Ready To Love You | Thought Catalog

06/01/2022

Wild Women, embrace your power 🔥

If you want to be a bad ass s*xually empowered woman, embrace your inner hag.
Thats right.
The crone. The ancient old woman. The witch. The hag.
The crone archetype is an aspect of the feminine not exactly associated with s*xuality.
Women groom themselves to be girls. The younger the better.
Paint those lips red and blush those cheeks like you are wet and ripe for impregnation.
Make them believe you are in perpetual ovulation.
Make them hard. Make them desire you
Get that face lift. Suck in that belly. Bat those lashes.
Guess what.
The crone doesn't give a f**k.
And that is her power.
She embraces her spider lines and swinging, sagginesss.
After all, this is what life does to the body of a woman...eventually!
Does that make you uncomfortable? Would you rather not see?
Her secret threatens to corrupt you.
She can make you wild.
She can reveal to you your power.
Your volcanic senseless holy
Once she opens her mouth, the jig is up.
They tell you she is crazy.
Dangerous because she has broken out of that jail cell you call restrictions.
How would you have s*x if you didn't give a f**k about how pretty you look?
Or how flat your stomach is?
The crone is not an object of desire.
She is free to claim her own desire.
In a world that praises women for being objects of desire.
Where the more lust you can seduce the more value you possess, the crone is laughing with that cackle that only women of power have.
She does not possess the enchanting beauty of the maiden or the fertile reproductive juices of the mother.
She no longer bleeds. She no longer bares children.
Her s*x no longer waxes and wanes with the moon, gaining and draining energy with each passing tide.
She is full.
The portal to her blood has been sealed.
She is drinking in the nectar. She is bathing in its luminous darkness.
Her s*x is a diamond pressed and polished by years of experience and wisdom.
She has passed through all the phases of initiation as a woman.
That heavy web of social conditions all feminine creatures are baptized into.
She is unraveling herself from these webs.
She has liberated her s*x from all their stories.
She is making it to the other side.
Freeing herself.
Without the ability to be a mother or a s*x object, what is left of a woman and her s*x?
I’ll tell you what.
Pure power that doesn't give a f**k.
Crazy wisdom that knows how to make love to the moment.
S*x that ripples through every authentic cell of your body.
S*x that pulses with every tiny whisper of life knowing life.
If you want to find the seat of your s*xual power.
Your real deep sovereign s*xual nature.
Find the crone that lives in you.
Wild. Ugly. Innocent. Real.
The real initiation begins here.

Author: Maya Luna

Photo Art: Sarah Peirse

01/01/2022

"The storm is an artist; the rainbow is its masterpiece." ...

08/12/2021

Right now, the world has been in completely unprecedented times. We’re experiencing the most polarity and division most of us can recall in our lifetimes.

Although many have stayed in their homes, waiting for this to all end, we would like to create a different proposition.

What if it required collective participation to shift humanity out of this reality, and into a new one?
At the beginning of the global pandemic, Meditate for Love gathered 100,000 meditators from around the planet to bring love to a world that was struck by fear.
What we saw never could’ve been anticipated. We were reached out to by some of the biggest names in development, spirituality and consciousness around the globe who stood powerfully for our message.

Streaming for 15 hours, there was no doubt that we managed to create an integral shift in consciousness when the mainstream narrative created no respite for humanity.
Throughout the year, we held several MFL’s. One called “Sit for Vic”, where we directed our precious focus and collective love to those locked down in Victoria, Australia, only to find out hours later the bans were lifted. We realised that there’s nothing we can’t do when we stand in solitary, as one people, with the pure intention of love. 🙏🏽

So, what now?

Now is the time we reign in all of the power we’ve given to our external circumstances, and return to the truth of our innate and infinite nature.
✨

On the 12th of December, we are inviting you to participate in “Meditate for Miracles” - powerfully uniting humanity to end the fear and suffering the pandemic has created.
Together we can, and together it’s possible.

Join us for a 4 hour live stream, beginning with the global meditation, and moving into 4 sections of powerful panel and keynote discussions.
We will, with love, discuss openly some of the most relevant and necessary conversations of our time, to empower each participant to truly open their minds to the possibilities that lay underneath what has seemed like a global tragedy.
It’s time we begin writing a new story.

Are you in?

Head to meditateforlove.com to register for the details! ✨🙏🏽

08/12/2021

Small acts when multiplied by millions, can transform the world.
There is no questioning just how much the need is right now for the entirety of humanity.
Let us unify during a time where division is being driven. There is nothing that separates us at the core, so let us come together in meditation and collective conversations.
We will be streaming live and encourage you to share the registration link and also share the live stream in the day.
We welcome you to join us for what is going to be a potent 4 hour live stream of meditations and epic panel discussions from health, wealth, consciousness and culture.
Register at meditateforlove.com 🙏🏽✨

05/07/2021

ACCEPT NO SHADE

Not everyone will like you.
Not everyone will agree with the things you say, or do.
Not everyone will understand why you are who you are,
which trials and tribulations made you stronger, weaker, braver.
Not everyone will care enough to look beneath,
p*ek behind,
Or read between.

That’s ok.

Some people will.

Some people will find you so fascinating that they will delve right into your depths.

Some people will devour your words and commit them to memory,
should they ever need to revisit them again in times of pain.

Some people will crave your company like a flower craves the rain.

Some people will not only appreciate your light but they will reflect it right back.
They will charge you from the soul, like being plugged into the sun.

Those are your people.

Accept no shade from haters my friend, life brings enough of that.

Always seek out the light.

From ‘The Right Words’ by Donna Ashworth:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B095MZ3XFP/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_6QX0Y2EW59QD6JXJ635M
Available on most amazon sites

Art by Oriol Angril Jorda Oriol Angrill Jordà | art

16/06/2021

TO THE WOMAN WHO IS SLOWLY FADING AWAY...
To the woman who has lost her spark.
To the woman whose get up and go, has well and truly gone.
This is for you.

This is to remind you, that you don’t have to be everything to everyone, every day.
You didn’t sign up for that.

Remember when you used to laugh? Sing?
Throw caution to the wind?
Remember when you used to forgive yourself more quickly for not always being perfect.
You can get that back again.

You really can.
And that doesn’t have to mean letting people down or walking away.
It just means being kinder to you, feeling brave enough to say no sometimes.
Being brave enough to stop sometimes.
And rest.

It starts the moment you realise that you’re not quite who you used to be.
Some of that is good, some of that is not.
There are parts of you that need to be brought back.
And if anyone in your life is not okay with that… they are not your people. Your people will be glad to see that spark starting to light up again.

So, if you have been slowly fading away my female friend, this is the time to start saying yes to things that bring you joy and no to things that don’t.
It’s really pretty simple.

Ladies Pass it On ❤️

🖊 Author unknown

11/05/2021

It's not what we say out loud that really determines our lives. It's what we whisper to ourselves that has the most power.

Be mindful of your self-talk. It's a conversation with the universe.

06/05/2021

Love Out Loud ❤
The art of holding space 🙏