15/02/2024
Is it my job to tell swifties that Taylor’s music isn’t that good?
The short answer is ABSOLUTELY NOT. But let’s unpack this a bit more, because there has been a lot of commentary recently around whether or not Taylor Swift is overrated. It seems that people on both sides of this discussion feel their opinion of her music is the right one and makes them somehow superior to those who feel differently. The thing is though, our connection to music is entirely subjective and my definition of what is ‘good’ will not match yours.
*Please note, this post isn’t actually about Taylor Swift, it’s about any kind of music or art we feel a strong connection to.
There are so many factors that influence our relationship with a piece of music!
🎤 We can relate closely with the artist’s life or causes they back
🎤 We can relate to the lyrics, appreciate the poetry or even resonate strongly with one line from a song
🎤 We can connect to the melody, the harmonies, the rhythm or even a particular instrument
🎤 The music can evoke memories and feelings of an event or a season in our lives
🎤 Or cause us to recall how someone we care about loved this particular song/album/artist
These are just a few of the reasons you might connect to a piece of music. We could also talk about how the music we are exposed to in our early life has an enormous impact on our definition of what sounds good, or about the connection to culture and sense of community that can accompany the music, or about themes of elitism that have wound their way into our western view of art and the people who practise and appreciate it.
Here’s the thing though, above all, our taste in music is subjective and entirely individual.
Your connection to music is unique and powerful and valid. You do not have to justify it to anyone else. You don’t even have to justify it to yourself. Judging another person’s taste in art of any kind doesn’t make you superior, it makes you judgmental.
Encouraging others to feel shame around music isn’t just a negative experience for all involved, it actively makes our lives worse by depriving us of an avenue for emotional release and self expression. More on this another day. For now, let’s try to hold space for all the magnificent art we have access to from all over the world.