20/02/2026
In this episode of Hot Flush Happy Hour, we kick things off with a real-life catch-up โ the wins, the wobbles, the health updates, the busy seasons, and the โwhy is my body doing this now?โ moments โ before diving into a topic that hits differently in midlife: boundaries.
Weโre talking about why your tolerance suddenly goes missing, why your energy feels more precious than ever, and why the old people-pleasing settings just arenโt working anymore. Funny that. ๐
Kat and Tori unpack the difference between time boundaries and energy boundaries, how hormonal and identity shifts play a role, and why that little flash of irritation might actually be your inner wisdom tapping you on the shoulder (not you becoming a grumpy human).
We also chat about guilt โ yes, that sneaky little tag-along โ and why feeling guilty when you start protecting your peace doesnโt mean youโre doing it wrongโฆ it usually means youโre doing something new.
Expect practical tips, honest stories, a few laughs, and some simple reflection prompts to help you spot where your energy is leaking and how to start plugging the holes โ gently, not dramatically.
Less burnout, more boundaries, better happy hour energy. ๐ธ๐ฅ