03/01/2026
I don’t know about you, but 2025 absolutely kicked my butt.
Coming into 2026, I’m reflecting on how exhausted I became without fully realising it. Pressure came both from me, my expectations and internal judgement, and from the world around me, systems, stress, and things completely out of my control. A big part of my work has been noticing where I put too much mental and cognitive energy into things I cannot influence, and focusing instead on what I can control.
I’m noticing where I spend my energy and focusing on what’s within my limits. Small changes help, like pacing tasks, reducing social load, keeping meals simple, and resting when I need to. It helps me stay functional while life keeps happening.
I’m okay as I am. I’ve got no interest in changing who I am as a person, but I know I do need to actively manage my limitations with my strengths. For example, I know I need to regularly adjust my expectations, recognise when I’m approaching my limits, and make sure I build and maintain sustainable systems that support me.
No New Year’s resolutions for me. For me personally, they have always just added pressure and guilt I don’t need. 2026 is about staying real with myself and my limits. No unrealistic expectations, just respect for myself and the people around me.
I’m choosing pacing, space, and self-permission. Living and working in a way that supports me.
So here’s to a 2026 where we can all learn more about what supports us, what’s right for us, and continue building skills, systems, and structures that let us be ourselves.