16/01/2026
I heard 2016 is trending💜
Then: chasing quick fixes, figuring it the f*ck out, just making it through, growing a human, breaking cycles.
Now: tending roots, rhythms, and nervous systems 🌿
Ten years ago I wanted answers - but didn’t want to have to find them.
Then: burn it all down (anything that doesn’t fit - GO AWAY) and wild energy.
Now: slow fire, steady herbs, healing with pace🔥
I stopped forcing outcomes and started supporting systems.
Then: coffee (vodka and red bulls) + chaos + survival.
Now: pace, boundaries, circadian respect (and I can now enjoy red wine)✨
Ten years on and I know this:
Healing isn’t aesthetic — it’s cyclical, maternal, and even political.
Then: ignoring symptoms to stay “tough and independent.”
Now: reading them like messages 🌙
I don’t push through anymore. I nourish, regulate, and align — without apologising. Ten years ago I thought wellness was all discipline.
Turns out it’s understanding, consent, and leaving sh*tty situations.
Then: live fast, learn the hard way
Now: live in season, understand it, know it, teach it, accept it 🍂
P.S. You don’t need to have it figured out. You need to learn how to listen — only to your body, your gut, your rage, your tenderness. Don’t let anyone convince you that exhaustion is ambition or that being “low maintenance” is a virtue. Feed yourself properly. Rest without earning it. Your nervous system is not weak — it’s responding accurately. Leave sooner than you think you’re allowed to. You don’t need to harden to survive. You need regulation, support, and boundaries — not self-abandonment.
And one last thing — magic is real, but it works best when paired with understanding YOU, sleep, and saying no.
You’re not behind.
You’re right on time💜