23/12/2025
đ Tips for a gentler festive season (for your mind and your heart) đ
This time of year can bring a mix of joy, emotions and pressureâŚSo here are a few ways to move through the coming week without losing yourself in the process .
1) Lower the bar (just a little)
Perfection is exhausting. Connection matters more than matching napkins, perfect timing, or doing it all. Aim for âwarm and enjoyable,â not âmagazine-worthy.â if your house looks lived in⌠Great, because you live in it.
2) Give your nervous system a small signal of safety each day.
Take one slow breath in⌠and let the exhale be longer than the inhale. (the longer you exhale, the calmer you become)
Repeat at least 5 times. Itâs simple⌠and it works. Your body starts to relax when it knows it doesnât have to stay on alert.
3) Create breathing space in your calendar.
Donât book everything back-to-back. Leave little pockets to recover â a quiet moment in the car, a walk around the block, five minutes with a cup of tea before you step into the next thing.
4) Protect your energy with kind boundaries.
You donât need to give a big explanation. You can be loving and clear at the same time:
* âThank you, Iâm keeping things simple this year.â
* âThat doesnât work for me, I hope itâs a beautiful day.â
* âThanks for inviting me, Iâll have to pass this time.â
5) Care for your body
Eat something nourishing, drink some water, and donât run yourself on empty. Our body handles people and feelings much better when itâs supported. A quick protein snack can literally save the day!
6) Choose what truly matters.
Ask yourself: What do I want to feel this season?
Then pick one or two priorities that help you feel that way⌠and let the rest be optional.
7) You donât have to attend every argument youâre invited to.
You can pause. Breathe. Change the subject. Go to the bathroom. Sip water like itâs a professional sport.
With warm holiday wishes from my home to yours đ