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“I am not here to be right, I am here to serve you. Whatever serves you best, take it!” Ts🖊️

Tiziano Sguerso is a spiritual researcher, facilitator, writer, visionary, entrepreneur and former professional kickboxer. Through a systemic therapy approach, the science of relationships, family & spiritual constellations. Tiziano works with people to restructure their life experiences in order to live their fullest potential.
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Tiziano approaches every area of their life such as relationships,

finances, repetitive toxic patterns, physical symptoms or so called “sickness”, etc… Helping them to bring order, so harmony into their systems. Born on the day of the winter solstice, December 21st 1987 under the sign of Sagittarius; Tiziano’s path has led him through periods of great shadow even from an early age. Finding little if no connection with traditional school education, he has found his own education through powerful life experiences. Guided by an innate discipline, intuition and curiosity, he began his spiritual path in Australia, working with different guides and teachers, giving him the opportunity to discover the great light, well-being, harmony and abundance within himself. Driven by the endless search to discover the perfection and ease of this human experience, he has deeply studied human behavioural and relationship dynamics, where he now guides people, bringing to the surface the real nature and root of any circumstance present in the personal experience.

20/07/2025

🇦🇺 When they have unresolved situations with their parents, they unconsciously seek a partner to resolve this.
These are not long-lasting partners, but they might lead them to a long-lasting partner, someone who is not there to fill the past emptiness or missing.
They usually become reactive when they allow each other to experience unresolved issues with their parents. “Reactivity” is a sign of something that I know already, in childhood, a coping mechanism kicks in, for example, if he feels now acknowledged by his mother(his partner or representative), he might become prideful and start to ignore her in the unconscious attempt to drive her back to him. For her, when she feels not valued by him, she might bring in a third person to make in jealous if that was her successful attempt in childhood, or she might leave the relationship first such as “I am standing up for myself!”, which what she aims is actually “Stop me please, make me feel important and validated by you!”
These examples reflect an unfulfilled child's love. He copes by seeking validation from her, and she aims for the same validation from him. Open love, child love, love with no barriers. The one with fewer barriers is usually the one who will attempt the most “drastic” coping mechanism, such as “I am leaving” or “I have someone else.”
Their way out? Sadness, they must cry that emptiness to fill it again naturally, organically from within!”

Ts🌹

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15/07/2025

🇦🇺 The more responsibilities a man can hold, the more he expands his masculinity.
He dove into it by becoming responsible for providing for his family, looking after his wife's emotional needs and the kids' safety, protecting the environment in which they live, providing for his employees, and expanding his service to more families. Everything around the service made him responsible and brought him closer to his joy, his father.
Other men hold him accountable for his responsibilities. His status in his society/pack, how long he can have his status based on and spread his service, and how many responsibilities he can hold and fulfil are his status in the pack/society.

It is different for a woman how widely and solidly he can support such a spread of responsibilities without wobbling.
This is the phrase: “Behind every great man, there is a great woman!”
Very true!
Behind an arrowhead is a solid stick to make the arrowhead more effective.

When these roles are fused or mixed, he unconsciously releases some of his responsibilities, so he is less of a man; his mother covers him. He retains that femininity as it is, which he has known and is comfortable with.
If she is still searching, she is not stable yet; her father still influences her so that she can be less solid and stable for him, less of a woman. Her father agitated her; the closer she got to his experience, the more agitated she became.
This starts in the teenage years and is released over time in the 20s. Usually, in her 30s, she naturally moves to self-discovery through stillness, her way to her mother.

Ts🌹

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13/07/2025

🇦🇺 One of the greatest understandings I have gained over the years of working within the field is that there is never a “maybe” or “it could work,” not even a “we can work on it” or “we can make it work”; the answer is always “it works” or “it doesn't.”

In this dual experience, there are no three options.
When faced with a choice, one always leads to expansion, to the new.
The other is always a pullback from our system of belonging, a repetition.

The one moving forward is usually pursued blindfolded. A gut feeling moves you there, and if the right self-development is done in place, life naturally gravitates you there. It removes all participants and options that might lead you to another option.
The other option is mainly based on stillness. There is no actual movement or advancement to be done; it is a repetition of what it was, and generally, this is the “falling in love” experience, something that was.
It seems shiny on the surface, but you cannot see its depth or even make a conscious sense of it. You know, it has already happened and works until it doesn't.

Ts🌹

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03/07/2025

🇦🇺 Throughout my upbringing, my mother used to say a phrase to me, my cousins, and particularly to every opportunity she had to speak to a growing-up woman: “You need to be able to do everything; you need to be able to be independent!”.

Over the years, I have concluded this statement and learned from it: “If you can do everything, if you learn to do everything, you are alone.”

The more you remain in your qualities and individuality, the more exceptional you become. You can make space for others to fill what you miss to meet your needs.

If you leave a space for what you are not able to do or good at, what you don’t want to do, the more you leave an open space to have a partner do it for you or hire an employee, so that you can serve someone else. You can pay them back with your individuality or for their services, so serve another family!

Do only what you are good at and not learn what you don’t want or struggle with.
Outsource it and serve others.

The same is true of relationships between men and women. If a man remains in his masculinity and a woman remains in her femininity, they can outsource what they miss from each other and bond more deeply. If a man starts to “learn” duties more suitable to the feminine role and vice versa, they become better friends and have a brother-sister or companion relationship. The bond is weaker, which means that s*xuality is less, and breaking that bond is easier.

We relate based on needs; those who don't need anybody generally are alone.

Ts🌹

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26/06/2025

🇮🇹 “Il primo tradimento è quello verso l’amore della madre. Quel desiderio inconscio di salvarla dalle sue cadute, dalla depressione, dai suoi traumi, dalle sue incapacità, spesso emozionali, anche dal salvarla dal matrimonio fallimentare con nostro padre.
Spesso quello che una figlia dice alla madre in silenzio è “anch’io”, che stà per “soffro anch’io per te”, o “in onore” a te, anche questo “onore” stà per “Io non posso fare meglio di te!”, questi sono gli amori bambini e “traumatici” di cui tanto si parla spesso nella psicoterapia moderna o new age.

Fondamentalmente essa vive in silenzio, sott’acqua, il copione della madre; se per caso desidera romperlo, deve tradirla, come? Amandola di più. Chiedendogli un amore superiore del tipo: “Mamma mi ami lo stesso anche se ti tradisco? Anche se faccio diverso da te?”
Questo significa “pagare la colpa”, questo significa “prendere dalla propria mamma”, PRENDERE UN AMORE PIÚ GRANDE.”

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“La colpa è un duro fardello da portare, ci sentiamo piccoli davanti a chi più amiamo, poichè qualunque cosa sia accaduto, i genitori sono un amore viscerale di ogni essere umano. Ma girarsi verso l’amore più grande è ONORARE ciò che hanno fatto per noi, è ELEVARE ogni dolore, ogni sforzo, ogni sacrificio di chi è venuto prima di noi, in nome di tutti, è dire: “Ogni cosa che realizzerò con questa grandezza sarà a nome di tutti voi e in vostro ONORE”

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23/06/2025

🇦🇺 In his masculinity, he sets the direction and tone, and she looks after the container, which flourishes and grows within.
If she sets the couple's direction, he is in the shade, never exposed. He becomes grey, absent of colours, and she becomes hard, stone-like, fully mentally and safety-driven, a place where she doesn't shine.
In such a relationship, they are very far from their authentic and most prominent evolution. When the sparkle of the “falling in love” experience fades, he looks for distractions from her, and she also looks for distractions from him.

Often, these relationships might start as a “healing journey” for both. She can find peace from the previous heartbreak with a representative of her father, and for him, a safe nest where he can embrace the “guidance, nurturing and validation” of his mother in his father's absence.
He is still lost and empty of the vessel of his meaning, and she feels safe there because of it. However, she hasn't grown as an adult woman yet.

Ts🌹

•In July, we explore BETWEEN SIBLINGS in our ONLINE SYSTEMIC LIBRARY! What dynamics exist between siblings, both those who are alive and those who have passed? We examine the impact of abortion on a systemic level!

19/06/2025

🇦🇺 A relationship is in place until s*xuality is in place.
The absence of s*xuality defines a relationship as platonic, or a restorative place from a mother-son point of view or a father-daughter, in that case they become “best friends” and usually they take different paths in life, if they keep sticking together despite the absence of s*xuality, they slowly become “apathetic”, so absent of life without, as they are the one refusing it by not detaching.
Life usually comes to support them and sends a third person to revive life again in one of them. Detachment is the aim!

(Don’t confuse a rescue mission with the love of your life. The end of a relationship requires a mourning and evolving process, so jumping from one to another can have some serious consequences in the long run, if not taken consciously, which is very common as the comfort and safety nest found in the “new” creates attachment, which you might confuse with love.)

The presence of desire defines the evolution in place, more desire and s*xuality in place, more evolution; this is why the person who you had the “best s*xuality” is probably the one who hurt you the most, as they evolved you the most too. Pleasure is equal to the pain when love cannot make it.

Love evolves through the encounter between the two poles, individuals; the absence of desire establishes the absence of evolution or the end of it. As above, they can be in a form of entanglement, parents and children, or best friends.

To maintain a healthy desire alive, he must remain in his masculine role all the time or the majority of it, she must need him, she must need and desire his masculinity; and she must remains in her feminine role all the time or the majority of it, he must need and desire her femininity. If that is fading because of them spending too much time together, so mixing the roles energy and poles, they need to detach and spend time with their same s*x pole, men with men and women with women.
Usually, spending too much time together is also a sign of them “saving” or “comforting” each other, not yet in their full roles as man and woman, which means they take each other's families of origin roles.

Ts🌹

15/06/2025

🇦🇺 Any form of healing is systemic.
It can be seen through different lenses, with different densities; however, the life force comes from the system, the family of origin, and when it is interrupted, only within the system can it be restored.

With time and experience, any modality and therapy gravitates to the systemic approach. Even if not many people could feel it, and they resisted and opposed it at first, Bert Hellinger opened this scenario to the therapeutic approach, and with it, the falling of many therapeutic visions, mainly mentally driven, empowered by fear and separation. Still, the length of his observations, as many of them are deeply rooted in the vision of the soul, enlarged through the great spirit, where there is no separation, so even a victim and a perpetrator are bound in oneness there. Accordingly, if we want to “heal”, if we're going to change the world and so the information in the field, even the killer and its victim must return to one, the abandoned child and his mother, the traitor and the betrayed one, what is separated must come together again.

The systemic lens acknowledges the limitations of any approach that brings an exclusion, a right and wrong, a correct and incorrect, and what is right is only what moves forward, and by the master code that leads the field: reunion.

Until “he/she is a narcissist” 🫵🏼, you feel separated from them, you never really healed.

“To heal” means “to reunite”.

Ts🌹

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12/06/2025

🇦🇺 You need to come from a place of “scattered”, to a place of wholeness.
That is your underlying mission, what “evolution” encounters: reconnect the parts of yourself that are separated; restore all of the interrupted movements you have experienced as your experience required you to evolve through your family of origin, your system of belonging, your father and your mother.
Remember that those “interrupted movements” were meant to be as such. They shaped your character, formed your identity, and made your life purpose and destiny possible. You generally become aware of/them when you are ready to let them go, when you are entirely shaped and integrated for what you are meant to bring to the planet.
You don’t need to find your purpose; you need to reveal what keeps or distracts you from it.
Many women who work with me state, “I need to find my femininity, I need to become more feminine.” You don’t need to become more feminine; you are already feminine; your mother is within you. You need to remove that fear toward her, that interrupted movement, that distrust that made you move toward your father and left you there, in the masculine, for a long time, as a matter of protection.

The more you take your family of origin, the more you become you, unique and individual, and at that stage, it is your purpose chasing you, not the way around; it comes to the surface from within where it has always been. Instead, when you don't take what has been given by your family of origin, you become a product of the external, of your environment and that is a problem, that is when you lose yourself, that is when you start “to search for yourself”, but in the market, external. It is very crowded and difficult to find.
You see, when someone is not fully expressing themselves, how? By how “little” do they get remunerated by life, “remuneration of any kind,” as they do not express their uniqueness, what we/life need.

Ts🌹

10/06/2025

🇦🇺 Many people reflect “manhood” or “masculinity” in the capacity to provide financially. However, that is only part of their role on the surface, as their manhood and adulthood are reflected in their emotional capacity underneath. How vast can they hold space without reacting frenetically, like an unstable teenager or child? How wide and how long can he remain in the state “of service”? His adulthood and manhood are reflected in his service.

Service upon his mission around the planet, honouring the men in his ancestral lineage and family of origin through it; and his duties to his family, this is his “agreement” with his mother through his spouse. His father must feel safe with his spouse, that she can accompany him all over the world, maintaining his standards as high as his service, this is “devotion to the cause”, through him, the man. This last sentence defines “when she looks up to him” or “she follows him”.

His capacity to provide is essential as he partly reflects his capacity to allow the family to feel safe and supported. Biologically, she is naturally attracted to someone with a “status.” This is because someone with a “status” can help you advance in life within the ranks, basically “survival,” and if you have a status from a place of “comfort,”

It is essential to understand that even if it can provide, it wobbles and becomes unstable, equally traumatic for the family.
For example, a man who is “forced” or “invited” to constantly move for work from place to place, despite the high pay, has a fractured experience for his children, especially at a young age, and for his wife, as they can never feel settled, unless with enormous opportunity to do so.

A man becomes “more of a man” through responsibilities.
The more responsibilities he can handle, the more of a man he must become.
For ex., responsible for his relationship and emotional capacity, self-development, accountable for providing for his family, his employees, and so many more families, for his service around the world supporting even more families and individuals, perhaps areas, regions, and nations, maintaining his standards, beliefs and image and so on…

Ts🌹

06/06/2025

🇦🇺 “THIS IS WHY I LET YOU GO”.

The individual's call must always be prioritised over the couple's call.
The individual's destiny and service to the family of origin and the world must always be prioritised over the couple's/relationship.
When a man prioritises his love for his partner over his highest evolution and service, he has not yet left his mother and his family or origin with it; he has not reached his father yet; therefore, he is not an adult.
When a woman wishes for her partner to prioritise her over his service to the world and highest call, she is not a queen yet; she is a princess who longs for the expectations she has of her father. She is not an adult yet.

The individual's evolution and service to the world hold the highest ground. When an individual sacrifices it in the name of “the relationship,” we would say they are not adults yet. They dream of a child's love expectations, and the more they stay in that state, in misalignment with life, the more shallow they become. Their colours fade, becoming grey and “absent from life.”
You notice right away when they separate because they feel an expansion, and life flows again through them.
Often, they come to me and ask, “What should I do?”
My answer is always elementary: “How do you feel?”
“Better, free, expansive, etc.”
“Well, then, you don't come to me for an answer; you come to me for a confirmation, but the decision is yours, and that decision is an initiation into adulthood, as every YES encounters another NO, so that guilt towards that or those NOS is your path to adulthood.”

When you are in the wrong relationship/situation, life is showing you that. “Wrong”
means “what does not move you forward”, towards your highest evolution, in harmony with life.
Your health and finances decline, your vitality fades, and your adult self goes with it.
This is generally the experience you have when you are entangled.
It's safe and cosy, “you know this comfort/situation,” but it does not expand you.

Life has no “normal” friction or difficulty, even financial hardships. These are all signs that life sends you because it wants you to move. Something must change, and so must your vision about it.

Ts🌹

30/05/2025

🇦🇺 A promise has a certain weight on a soul level; the more the individual is detached from their soul, the less importance they perceive to such an act. Despite that, the action affects them and who receives such a promise.
You acknowledge the importance of promises in children; for example, when children see their mother struggle, they make unknown promises to themselves, such as “Mum, I am gonna look after you until you are ok, so when you are ok, you will look after me again.” In childhood, those words are so profound and impactful that the promises are never broken, so that promise becomes a parentification experience where they’ll be able to break that promise unless becoming aware of it, never taking from their mother in full!

In adulthood, it works the same way, as a man’s words towards a woman are as impactful as the ones of their mother, particularly because a man’s promise is his capability to fulfil the project of life. So when a promise is broken, a woman might fully lose trust as to a soul level he was unable to fulfil the project of life or no longer worthy of it.

A promise is a promise.
A man’s duty towards manhood is his capability to deal with responsibilities; the more responsibilities he can handle, the more he loads himself with masculinity. He provides for his family and gives work to his employees, so he feeds more families, serves more people, etc.
“I always do what I say that I do.” This phrase has walked with me for many years, making me accountable and feel more manly; biologically and energetically, an adult woman is attracted to what? His masculinity.

“How responsible is he?”

Ts🌹

•In June, we explore EXPRESSION, DIRECTION AND PURPOSE on our ONLINE SYSTEMIC LIBRARY. Are you ready to confidently embrace your unique space and expression in the world? This is your moment to own it!

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