Nickolas Amos

Nickolas Amos ✨ I help powerful women 40+ confidently communicate their desires in the bedroom free of guilt, shame and anxiety. ✨

I Help career women let go of shame, guilt & past trauma and take their confidence from the boardroom to the bedroom. You can book in the desired strategy call to learn how you can optimise your mindset between the Boardroom to the Bedroom Send me a Facebook message


I help career women who with shame, guilt & past trauma to let go
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26/10/2025

How emotional weight kills desire

Have you noticed the heavier you feel, the less you want anything�?

Your mind says, I want to feel s*xy.�Your body says, I am just trying to get through the day.�

That is emotional weight.�It clogs your energy and shuts down desire, even when you want it.�

A client told me, My body feels switched off.�It was not about s*x.

It was about everything she had been holding.�

Guilt. Pressure. Being the strong one for everyone.�

When your body is in survival mode, there is no room for pleasure.�

When you release that, and your body feels safe, desire comes back like it never left.�

DM me the word FIRE to book your 10X Weight Elimination Breakthrough.

Let’s uncover what freedom actually feels like, in your body, your confidence, and your intimacy.

Everyone thinks they know where it is…but 9 out of 10 women get it wrong 😉So tell me — where do you think your real plea...
21/10/2025

Everyone thinks they know where it is…
but 9 out of 10 women get it wrong 😉

So tell me — where do you think your real pleasure spot is?
Drop your guess below 👇
(Hint: it’s not where you think it is 😏)

16/10/2025

If talking about sacred or***ms makes you squirm… that’s your next breakthrough knocking. 💥

When I talk about s*x and communication as a man and how it’s actually connected to being spiritual, people look at me like…

what could you possibly know about that?

I’ve had my own battles with this stuff.

Growing up, no one talked about s*x; it was like it didn’t exist.

I was raised to believe that intimacy only mattered after marriage, and even then, it came with guilt and pressure.

For years, I didn’t know how to communicate what I wanted or even what I felt.

I carried that silence into relationships, thinking I had to perform instead of connect.

But the moment I started doing my own work studying the mind, the body, and the power of communication, everything shifted.

I realised there was never anything wrong with me… I’d just been disconnected from myself.

And reconnecting, that’s where everything changed.

Here’s what I’ve learned: your triggers are teachers.

The things that make you uncomfortable aren’t wrong; they’re showing you where freedom is waiting.

Because real connection, real intimacy… It’s not dirty.

It’s divine.

Some of my deepest spiritual moments didn’t happen in quiet meditation.

They happened in connection when everything inside me was lit up.

That’s when I knew I was connected.

If this stirs something in you, good.

Download my 10X Pleasure Reset Guide, or if you’re ready to go deeper, book a 1:1 Pleasure Breakthrough Session.

Follow me for more real talk on s*x, communication, and confidence, no bull, no fake moans.

DM “TRIGGER” and I’ll show you how to turn discomfort into awakening. 💋🔥

16/10/2025

“You Schedule Everything Except Orgasms”
You schedule your workouts.�Your meetings.�Even your dentist appointments…��But not your pleasure time.�
Look at your calendar.
It’s like having a great outfit, matching lingerie, a beautiful dress, but you never have the time to wear it, even though it looks so s*xy on you.�
But you just don’t have the time.
That’s what happens when you don’t make time for pleasure.��You keep running yourself out of time and energy…
But here you are, sitting with your body in the corner, and you hear your body saying,�
“Hey, remember me?”�
It’s not that you don’t want to feel.�You’ve just trained yourself to think pleasure is not important...
Or, “I’ll deal with that later.”��But later never comes.�
Now imagine you did make time for it.��And you slow down, breathe, and check in with your body.
Your body goes, ��“Oh… there you are.”��You start to feel again, maybe a little s*xier.
But when you don’t,��You stay in that “Go, go, go” mode…�
Which keeps you disconnected.�You forget what pleasure feels like.�
This isn’t about scheduling an or**sm.�It’s about scheduling you.�
Because you’re not scheduling your pleasure on your own calendar.
That’s the missing link to your pleasure.�
Download the 10X Pleasure Guide to start reconnecting with your body.�And if you’re curious to go deeper, book a 1:1 Breakthrough Session with me.�
And…�
Follow me for more real talk on s*x, communication, and confidence, no fluff, no fake moans.�DM “TIME” and I’ll help you make space for the one meeting you’ll actually look forward to.

14/10/2025

Are Your Socks Sabotaging Your Intimacy

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14/10/2025

“What role do you still play in the bedroom?”�
Let’s have a serious chat,

is it

The��“good girl”�
The “pleaser.”�
The Performer �
The Controller �
The Caretaker �
The Overthinker�

The one that you hold back because it feels safer��

Or is it ��

The “I’ll make sure he’s okay first” role.

You know by playing these roles you are disconnecting from yourself, your pleasure and allowing your fears, guilt and shame to take over your intimacy, your pleasure and freedom from exploring your desires in the bedroom.��

But every role you play reminds your body that it is not important to feel loved, connected and safe.

So here’s your question for tonight:�

👉 What role do you still feel like you’re playing in the bedroom?� And what might happen if you stopped playing and started feeling and connecting to those parts that you have disconnected with?��

Stop pretending that it ok in bed. And start making those sounds that drive you crazy in bed, now those are the sounds you want more of…

�📩 DM CONFIDENT and I'll send you over my 10x pleasure guide
Or book your 1:1 Breakthrough, and it’ll help you start connecting and feeling again to remove the mask you have been hiding behind.

13/10/2025

💬 TESTIMONIAL (Case Study)

“I thought I had to fake it. Now I finally feel it.”

She was a CEO. A true leader.
But when it came to the bedroom, she felt numb.

She told me,
“I’ve been pretending in bed. I make all the right sounds… but I don’t feel a thing.”

When we started working together, I gave her the freedom and permission to do something she’d never done before, to stop pretending and just be herself.

To breathe. To tune in to her own flow and to let go of any expectations.

By week two, she messaged me:
“For the first time in my life… I didn’t fake it. I actually felt it.”

That’s what happens when you stop trying to be s*xy and begin truly connecting to your body and your sensations.

That’s what we do in the 10X Pleasure Reset Breakthrough.

📩 DM CONFIDENT for the free guide,
Or book your 1:1 Breakthrough and let’s bring you back to your body.

07/10/2025

If a 60-year-old CEO can finally have her first or**sm, what's stopping you?
Let me tell you a story about a client of mine who's given me permission to share this.
She was the CEO of her own company. She was so busy, so bogged down, she never gave herself time to explore her own needs, wants, desires, and pleasures.
When she called me, she was stressed out and completely disconnected from her body. She didn’t know where to start or what to do.
Once I started working with her, I gave her a few things she could focus on, ways to take time away from her company to reconnect with her body and herself.
As we continued working, she had numerous aha moments.

However, what really stood out was that she began to feel again.
She started to feel her body. She started to feel like a woman. She started to feel that she was worthy of pleasure.

And when she finally experienced that pleasure, she couldn’t believe her eyes. She couldn’t believe that she could achieve this after all that time.

What had been stopping her was simple: she wasn’t connected to herself. She was so in her head that she didn’t give herself permission to explore what felt good and what didn’t.
When she started to recognise those sensations, those feelings, she was absolutely blown away by the experience of having a full-body or**sm.

It wasn’t just physical, it was spiritual.
She was amazed by what she could achieve.

And the question I’ll leave you with is this: what’s stopping you from achieving that in your own life?

Not just the physical kind, but the spiritual kind.
Get out of your head. Start embodying the sensations, the feelings, and the pleasures within your body.

Because if she can do it, so can you.

*xualEmpowerment

Fear of Vulnerability: When Strength Becomes Your ShieldYou’ve mastered the art of holding it all together.People look a...
07/10/2025

Fear of Vulnerability: When Strength Becomes Your Shield

You’ve mastered the art of holding it all together.

People look at you and see strength, the woman who never breaks, never needs help, never loses her composure.

But here’s what they don’t see…
The same strength that protects you is also what keeps you separate.

You want to feel connected, deeply, emotionally, s*xually, but the moment it starts to feel real, your body tightens.

Your chest closes, your breath goes shallow, and suddenly, the moment passes.

Because for years, vulnerability hasn’t felt safe; it’s felt dangerous.

Somewhere along the way, you learned that being open meant being hurt, judged, or let down.

So you built walls so high that even love can’t find its way through anymore.

But here’s what's actually happening: your vulnerability isn’t weakness. It’s trust in motion.

It’s your body’s way of saying, “I’m ready to stop surviving and start connecting.”

In my S*x & Communication Strategy, we rebuild that safety through conversation hypnosis, gentle rewiring, and communication tools that teach your body it’s safe to be seen again.

Because when you feel safe to open, you stop performing and start experiencing.

If you want to explore this more, DM me the word OPEN and I’ll send you my free 10X Pleasure Reset Guide.

Or, if you’re ready to take that first step back to yourself, book your 1:1 Pleasure Breakthrough Session and let’s help your body remember that vulnerability can feel safe again.

02/10/2025

The High Cost of Waiting: Reclaiming Your Pleasure and Confidence

01/10/2025

“Pineapple on pizza is controversial… but never as bad as not saying what turns you on in the bedroom?

💭 Post 1: “Why is it so hard for me to climax?”You’ve probably asked yourself this more than once:❌ “What’s wrong with m...
27/09/2025

💭 Post 1: “Why is it so hard for me to climax?”

You’ve probably asked yourself this more than once:

❌ “What’s wrong with me?”
❌ “Is this just my age?”
❌ “Why can’t I get there?”

Does that sound like you?

So many women over 40 tell me they’ve struggled with climax, sometimes for years. But here’s the truth: difficulty doesn’t mean impossibility. It usually means your body needs time, safety, and permission.

3 shifts that help:
1️⃣ Slow down — give yourself more time than you think you need.
2️⃣ Climax comes when you let go, not when you’re in your head and tense.
3️⃣ Practice self-connection — learn what feels good on your own first.

✅ Try this: Tonight, take 5 minutes with soft touch and slow breathing. No agenda, just explore sensation.

✨ Your body isn’t failing you. It’s waiting to be heard.

👉 Download Nickolas’s free guide, The 10X Pleasure Reset, and start creating more connection, more intimacy, and more passion.

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