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Nickolas Amos, Sydney (2025)

27/09/2025

💭 Post 1: “Why is it so hard for me to climax?”

You’ve probably asked yourself this more than once:

❌ “What’s wrong with me?”
❌ “Is this just my age?”
❌ “Why can’t I get there?”

Does that sound like you?

So many women over 40 tell me they’ve struggled with climax, sometimes for years. But here’s the truth: difficulty doesn’t mean impossibility. It usually means your body needs time, safety, and permission.

3 shifts that help:
1️⃣ Slow down — give yourself more time than you think you need.
2️⃣ Climax comes when you let go, not when you’re in your head and tense.
3️⃣ Practice self-connection — learn what feels good on your own first.

✅ Try this: Tonight, take 5 minutes with soft touch and slow breathing. No agenda, just explore sensation.

✨ Your body isn’t failing you. It’s waiting to be heard.

👉 Download Nickolas’s free guide, The 10X Pleasure Reset, and start creating more connection, more intimacy, and more passion.

24/09/2025

I don't feel attractive enough.”

I hear this all the time:

I’m not attractive enough?'

I’m feeling self-conscious?'

Is my partner still attracted to me?

It’s not about your looks.

It's about your self-talk and how you feel about yourself

That negativity creates intimacy blocks that prevent you

from experiencing pleasure in the bedroom

Your partner loves you as you are.

And once you can say what you need in the bedroom,

without the fear, the pressure or the anxiety

You create the confidence, and you experience pleasure the way you want it.

That’s why I put together The S*x and Communication guide

So you can enjoy, deep connection without the feeling of not being attractive enough.

If you want a copy, DM me the word Guide, " and I'll send it over to you

22/09/2025

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💭 “I’m so in my head during s*x.”

You want to enjoy the moment, but instead your mind races:

❌ “Do I look okay right now?”
❌ “Am I taking too long?”
❌ “What if he’s getting bored?”

Does this sound like you?

Being in your head pulls you out of your body, and intimacy starts to feel like pressure instead of pleasure. The good news is, you can shift that.

Here are 3 ways to get out of your head and into your body:

1️⃣ Anchor in sensation: Notice the warmth of touch, the softness of breath, the rhythm of your heartbeat.
2️⃣ Slow it down: You don’t need to rush. Pause. Breathe. Let each moment land.
3️⃣ Redirect your focus: Instead of worrying about how you look, ask yourself how you feel.

✅ Try this tonight
Before intimacy, take 60 seconds with your eyes closed. Put one hand on your chest, one on your belly. Breathe in slowly and say to yourself: “I’m here in my body.” This simple reset can change everything.

✨ Pleasure doesn’t happen in your head. It lives in your body.

👉 Download Nickolas’s free guide, The 10X Pleasure Reset, and start creating more connection, more intimacy, and more passion.

19/09/2025

💭 Why should I trust a man to guide me with intimacy?

It’s a fair question. Many women wonder the same thing when they see a male coach in this space.

Here’s what matters.
You’ve spent years listening to men explain what they want.
But most men don’t have the skill or patience to guide you in what you need.

💡 My role isn’t to tell you how to please him.
My role is to help you discover how to honor yourself, speak clearly, and create connection that feels nourishing for both of you.

Why a man?
Because I can show you the inner workings of how men think about desire, touch, and communication… and then translate that into tools that give you more ease and confidence.

Think of it like learning a language.
I help you understand his world so you can express yours fully.

✨ 3 truths I always work from:

You already have what you need — my job is to draw it out.

The male perspective can give you insight, but never overrides your voice.

Authority comes from trust. I earn it by listening first, guiding second.

📝 Try-it-now: Write down one thing you wish men understood about intimacy. Say it out loud. Notice how much lighter it feels when it’s voiced.

✨ Takeaway: Trust isn’t given. It’s built. My commitment is to help you feel heard, respected, and empowered.

👉 Start with Nickolas’s free guide, The 10X Pleasure Reset, to experience it for yourself.

17/09/2025

💭 “I want to feel desired — wrinkles, curves, all of it.”

Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought, “If I looked younger, thinner, or firmer, then I’d feel s*xy again?”

Do you think this sounds familiar to you?

Many women over 40 tell me they feel invisible, as if their desirability has faded with time.

But: desire doesn’t have an expiration date. It grows when you stop waiting to be “perfect” and start owning the woman you are right now.

Here are 3 ways to feel desired exactly as you are:

1️⃣ Shift the lens: Instead of picking apart your body, focus on how it feels to be touched, held, seen. Desire is about sensation, not perfection.

2️⃣ Claim your presence: Walk into the room with your head high, your shoulders back, and your smile as your invitation. Confidence is magnetic.

3️⃣ Speak it out loud: Say to your partner, “I want to feel desired.” Giving voice to your want is the first step toward receiving it.

✅ Try this tonight

Stand in front of the mirror, look into your own eyes, and whisper: “I am desirable exactly as I am.” Repeat it three times. Let your body hear it, not just your mind.

✨ Wrinkles, curves, softness — all of it is worthy of desire. And so are you.

👉 Download Nickolas’s free guide, The 10X Pleasure Reset, and start creating more connection, more intimacy, and more passion.

13/09/2025

What’s the hardest thing for you to say in the bedroom?

Is it…
“I don’t know what I like”?
“Can you slow down?”
“I want more, but I’m scared to ask for it”?

Or maybe… It’s just anything at all.

Because let’s face it — when you're craving more touch, more connection, more pleasure…

And you don’t say a word?

That silence turns into resentment.

The pressure builds to perform, to feel something, to somehow reach this "ultimate pleasure"...

And suddenly, intimacy feels more like a chore than a joy.
Ever find it hard to express what you really want?
You’re not alone.

Most women I work with are powerful, successful, emotionally aware and yet they still struggle to speak their desires out loud in the bedroom.

But here’s the thing:
When you can express what you want, you open the conversation to receiving it and craving more of it.

That’s when everything shifts.
That’s where real intimacy begins.

If this sounds familiar…

And you want to communicate your desires in a way that sets your s*x and intimacy on fire?

I created something just for you, my 10X Pleasure Reset Communication Guide.

It’s not fluffy.
It’s not awkward.

It’s a simple way to start saying the things that matter — without fear, shame, or guilt.

Because your pleasure?

It’s worth talking about.
Just DM me and I’ll send it to you straight away

13/09/2025

When it's time to talk about what we want in the bedroom…

Ever notice how we can easily chat about the little things, like where to eat or what movie to watch?

But when it comes to talking about what we need in the bedroom, we suddenly hit a wall.

It’s like there’s this block, maybe embarrassment or shyness, that keeps us stuck.

Then we wonder why intimacy feels more like a chore than pleasure and expect our partner to magically know what we want.

Let’s start talking about it. Let’s break that ice around intimacy and s*x.

Because the first real step to deeper connection and pleasure is just being able to say what’s on your mind.

And if that feels tricky, you can start with my 10X Pleasure PDF: How to Reboot Your Confidence, Communication & Pleasure.

It’s a simple guide to help you open up those conversations and create the intimacy you’ve been craving.

13/03/2025

🔥 The Biggest Mistake Women Make When Trying to Reclaim Their Confidence – Are You Doing This Too? 🤔🔥

Most women who feel disconnected from their sensuality, self-worth, or confidence think they need to:
❌ Dig into every past experience to find the "root cause."
❌ Overanalyze their emotions from every possible angle.
❌ Sit in the pain, waiting for a moment of sudden clarity.

But here’s the harsh truth:

👉 Confidence doesn’t come from understanding why you lost it.
👉 Pleasure doesn’t return just because you remember when it faded.
👉 Change doesn’t happen because you “figure yourself out.”

Change happens because your brain suddenly sees something new. And when that happens, everything shifts.

And it doesn’t take years of therapy.
It doesn’t even take months.
It can happen in minutes—if you’re open to the process.

Self-Intimacy Rewiring: When Healing is About Activation, Not Overanalyzing.
Imagine standing in a dark room, trying to find the light switch.

You could:
🕵️ Spend hours analyzing the room’s layout.
🕵️ Map out every possible place the switch could be.
🕵️ Discuss with an expert where it logically should be.

Or…
💡 You could reach out and turn it on.

My process is the latter.

Instead of overanalyzing the problem, we go directly to the shift.

✅ We start with one simple question: 👉 "What’s the problem?"
✅ We wait for what happens—and follow it.
✅ We work with what’s happening in the moment, not a fixed theory.

Because your body, mind, and subconscious already know what they need.
They just need the space to unlock it.

🧠 ASR Method (Advanced Shift Rewiring)
THIS IS WHERE ASR COMES IN:
ASR doesn’t just help you see the pattern. It breaks it.

⚡ It rewires emotional responses that hold you back.
⚡ It helps you stop shrinking in moments that should be empowering.
⚡ It creates a shift that lets you take up the space you’ve always deserved.

What Does Change Look Like in Practice?
Forget about dramatic breakdowns or overwhelming emotional outbursts.
Most women leave a session saying things like:

🤷‍♀️ "I don’t really know what happened… but I feel different."
😯 "I’m trying to feel stuck, but it’s like the feeling isn’t there anymore?"
🤔 "It feels a little empty, but in a strangely good way."

💡 Change isn’t dramatic—it’s subtle.
💡 It doesn’t feel like “work”—it feels like something suddenly unlocking.
💡 And that’s exactly how it should be.

Ready to Stop Waiting for Change and Start Experiencing It?
📩 DM me “READY” and let’s start now.
🔥 Because the version of you that’s waiting on the other side? She’s not meant to wait anymore. 💥

13/03/2025

🔥 The Biggest Mistake Women Make When Trying to Reclaim Their Confidence – Are You Doing This Too? 🤔🔥

Most women who feel disconnected from their sensuality, self-worth, or confidence think they need to:
❌ Dig into every past experience to find the "root cause."
❌ Overanalyze their emotions from every possible angle.
❌ Sit in the pain, waiting for a moment of sudden clarity.

But here’s the harsh truth:

👉 Confidence doesn’t come from understanding why you lost it.
👉 Pleasure doesn’t return just because you remember when it faded.
👉 Change doesn’t happen because you “figure yourself out.”

Change happens because your brain suddenly sees something new. And when that happens, everything shifts.

And it doesn’t take years of therapy.
It doesn’t even take months.
It can happen in minutes—if you’re open to the process.

Self-Intimacy Rewiring: When Healing is About Activation, Not Overanalyzing.
Imagine standing in a dark room, trying to find the light switch.

You could:
🕵️ Spend hours analysing the room’s layout.
🕵️ Map out every possible place the switch could be.
🕵️ Discuss with an expert where it logically should be.
Or…
💡 You could reach out and turn it on.
My process is the latter.

Instead of overanalyzing the problem, we go directly to the shift.

✅ We start with one simple question: 👉 "What’s the problem?"
✅ We wait for what happens—and follow it.
✅ We work with what’s happening in the moment, not a fixed theory.

Because your body, mind, and subconscious already know what they need.
They just need the space to unlock it.

🧠 ASR Method (Advanced Shift Rewiring)
THIS IS WHERE ASR COMES IN:
ASR doesn’t just help you see the pattern. It breaks it.

13/03/2025

👉 Change doesn’t happen because you “figure yourself out.”

Change happens because your brain suddenly sees something new. And when that happens, everything shifts.

And it doesn’t take years of therapy.
It doesn’t even take months.
It can happen in minutes—if you’re open to the process.

Self-Intimacy Rewiring: When Healing is About Activation, Not Overanalyzing.
Imagine standing in a dark room, trying to find the light switch.

You could:
🕵️ Spend hours analyzing the room’s layout.
🕵️ Map out every possible place the switch could be.
🕵️ Discuss with an expert where it logically should be.

Or…
💡 You could reach out and turn it on.

My process is the latter.

Instead of overanalyzing the problem, we go directly to the shift.

✅ We start with one simple question: 👉 "What’s the problem?"
✅ We wait for what happens—and follow it.
✅ We work with what’s happening in the moment, not a fixed theory.

Because your body, mind, and subconscious already know what they need.
They just need the space to unlock it.

🧠 ASR Method (Advanced Shift Rewiring)
THIS IS WHERE ASR COMES IN:
ASR doesn’t just help you see the pattern. It breaks it.

⚡ It rewires emotional responses that hold you back.
⚡ It helps you stop shrinking in moments that should be empowering.
⚡ It creates a shift that lets you take up the space you’ve always deserved.

What Does Change Look Like in Practice?
Forget about dramatic breakdowns or overwhelming emotional outbursts.
Most women leave a session saying things like:

🤷‍♀️ "I don’t really know what happened… but I feel different."
😯 "I’m trying to feel stuck, but it’s like the feeling isn’t there anymore?"
🤔 "It feels a little empty, but in a strangely good way."

💡 Change isn’t dramatic—it’s subtle.
💡 It doesn’t feel like “work”—it feels like something suddenly unlocking.
💡 And that’s exactly how it should be.

Ready to Stop Waiting for Change and Start Experiencing It?
📩 DM me “READY” and let’s start now.
🔥 Because the version of you that’s waiting on the other side? She’s not meant to wait anymore. 💥

13/03/2025

🔥 Your Mind is Running on Outdated Software—It’s Time for an Upgrade
Ever feel like your brain has a mind of its own?

One minute, you’re handling life like a boss. The next? You’re spiralling over something that happened years ago, overthinking everything, or feeling completely disconnected from yourself.
Here’s why: Your mind is an incredibly advanced system, but… it’s running on old, glitchy programming that no longer serves you.

🧠 The Struggles You Face:
Memory overload – You forget what matters, but somehow remember every embarrassing moment since childhood.
Outdated scripts on repeat – Guilt, shame, and limiting beliefs keep running in the background.
Unreliable emotional settings – Confidence vanishes when you need it, self-doubt kicks in out of nowhere, and pleasure? Often stuck in sleep mode.

Most approaches try to fix this manually:
💬 Mindset work? Like editing the code line by line.
💬 Therapy? Searching for the source of the glitch.
💬 Hypnosis? A system reboot—sometimes smooth, sometimes messy.

My Approach? We Bypass the Guesswork.
Instead of forcing change or digging through the past, we go straight to the hidden patterns controlling your experience—and we let your mind do the work naturally.
🚀 No forcing breakthroughs.
🚀 No surface-level “just think positive” advice.
🚀 No waiting months to feel different.
Just real, lasting transformation—without the struggle.

🧠 ASR Method (Advanced Shift Rewiring)
THIS IS WHERE ASR COMES IN:
ASR doesn’t just help you see the pattern. It breaks it.
⚡ It rewires emotional responses that hold you back.
⚡ It helps you stop shrinking in moments that should be empowering.
⚡ It creates a shift that lets you take up the space you’ve always deserved.

Ready to reclaim your confidence, pleasure, and c

12/03/2025

🔥 Why You’ve Disconnected from Your Self-Intimacy—And How to Fix It 🔥
You weren’t born disconnected. You weren’t born ashamed of pleasure, afraid of your own body, or stuck in a cycle of guilt every time you craved more.

That was taught to you. Conditioned into you. Drilled into your subconscious until you believed that feeling fully ALIVE was somehow wrong.

But let’s be real for a second…
How long are you going to keep playing small?
How long are you going to keep pretending that "this is just how life is now"?

💥 You feel numb because you’ve been taught to silence your own desires.
💥 You feel lost because you’ve spent YEARS prioritizing everything and everyone else.
💥 You feel like something is missing because, deep down, you KNOW you were meant for more.

And the wildest part? It’s not your fault.
But it IS your responsibility to take your power back.

🚨 Here’s How You Start Rewiring the Way You See Yourself (and Your Pleasure):
🔥 Step 1: Give Yourself Permission to WANT.
You don’t have to earn intimacy, connection, or confidence. It’s not something you need to prove you’re worthy of. You want it? You deserve it. Period.

🔥 Step 2: Stop Apologizing for Your Desires.
Women have been conditioned to believe that their pleasure is secondary. That self-intimacy is selfish. That confidence makes them "too much." F* that.**

Own your hunger for more.

🔥 Step 3: Rewrite the Damn Script.
If the voice in your head is still whispering, "You’re too old for this," "It’s too late," or "What will people think?"—that’s not YOUR voice. That’s conditioning. And it’s time to burn it down.

💥 You are NOT too old.
💥 It is NOT too late.
💥 You do NOT have to settle for feeling meh when you were made for more.

Ready to Reconnect with Your Body, Reclaim Your Confidence, and Reignite Your Pleasure?
Without guilt, shame, or hesitation?
You already know what to do. 👇 Drop a 🔥 in the comments or DM me.

It’s time. You’re ready. Let’s go. 🚀

Nickolas Amos

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