30/08/2022
It's been a while since I've had the energy and mental space to write. Videos are hard at the moment due to the ever evolving challenges of parenthood. One day I'll be able to get some out again! In the meantime, my most recent blog post, featuring a personal story (and the reason for my absence): http://rocketot.com/no-shame-in-the-game/
Excerpt:
"Two months ago, my husband and I received support for our son's sleep. Multiple times throughout the journey I questioned whether or not needing support was a failure of our parenting. I questioned my abilities as both a mother and as a therapist, even though I'd previously referred multiple families to access the same support.
I was not in denial in the slightest about my son's sleep, but I did put off getting help because I was worried about how I would be perceived as a parent. I thought we could (and should) figure it out on our own. It wasn't until a friend and valued colleague asked me if I'd think less of her if she needed to access support that it really hit home. I wasn't a failure or lesser for needing help. And neither were my husband or son. We were just a family who needed external support. We needed a village".
One thing I’ve noticed as an occupational therapist in mainstream settings is a hesitancy in some parents to access support for their child. A common rhetoric is “oh let’s just wait and see” or “once they go to ________ (daycare/preschool/school) they’ll be fine” or the classic Austral...