
01/10/2024
We avoid these conversations out of fear of rejection. As human beings we are hardwired to belong, so of course a fear of being outcast or pushed away after a much needed conversation will stop us from having it. Yet we still have the feelings in side of us, we know we need to sit down and talk. But when we avoid, we suppress and when we suppress our body keeps the score. Physically, mentally, emotionally.
Some conversations just cannot be had and you must decide that, that relationship is over. I have chosen that pathway for my own peace of mind but have not stayed in a relationships with those people.
If they are in your world, your future, your life and there is something that needs to be talked about. Avoiding the conversation is not the answer. Unless you choose that.