
22/09/2025
I hear this a lot, often from mums in those blurry early days, where the feeds are long, the nights are short, and your body and brain feel like they’re in two different places.
Here’s the truth:
Breastfeeding tends to get easier little by little, feed by feed, often sometime in the first few weeks.
At first, it can feel like a full-time job and to be fair, it is.
There’s the latch, the position, the cluster feeds, the cracked ni***es, the hormones, the self-doubt, and all the questions in your head at 2am.
But slowly, something shifts.
Baby starts to feed more efficiently.
You start to read their cues more clearly.
Your supply regulates.
Your confidence builds.
And one day, sometimes without even realising it — you’ve found your rhythm.
It doesn’t happen overnight, and it doesn’t look the same for everyone.
But it does get easier.
And if it doesn’t feel like it’s getting easier? That’s your sign to reach out.
I’m an IBCLC and midwife, I’m here to support you, not just with encouragement, but with real solutions that help you feel steadier, sooner.