12/01/2026
They say you parent the way you were parented…
But what if the map you were given wasn’t safe?
What if it was blank—or worse, filled with pain?
Becoming a mother when you didn’t feel mothered changes everything. 💔
I became a mum with my heart wide open, but my wounds still whispered, “Don’t mess this up.”
So I learned.
I studied child development and attachment years before I ever held my own baby.
Because I didn’t want to guess how to be a good mum
I wanted to break the cycle. 🕊️
If this hits home for you, know that you are not alone. I see you. I hear you.
if you entered motherhood not without the road map but with a longing
To do it differently.
To offer what you never received.
To soften the edges and heal what shaped you.
I see you
Breaking the cycle is silent.
It’s quiet.
It’s confronting.
It’s choosing to grow with your child.
It’s holding your baby with a love that was not inbuilt and had to be learned, not remembered.
This is why I do what I do—for my child, and for you and yours.
So you have a place to be held while you learn to hold.
A space where we meet grief with gentleness,
and grow into the mums our children—and our younger selves—needed all along.
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