Chez Stanley, Mooroopna (2026)

Welcome my lovelies, I’m Chez 💜

Heart-led Mentoring & Emotional & Somatic Alchemy for those ready to uplevel 🙌
Mentor, Writer, Speaker, Meditation guide, Sound Therapist, Intuitive, Workplace Wellbeing specialist

19/05/2026

THIS SUNDAY 💜
Rituals For Radiance 10am - 12pm
Read below 👇

Can I be really honest about why I created this workshop?

Because I know so many women are quietly living inside emotional Groundhog Day.

Wake up, rush, work, survive, numb out. Repeat.

And somewhere amongst responsibility, burnout, motherhood, heartbreak, people pleasing, stress, or just adulthood in general, they’ve lost pieces of themselves.

And I know that feeling intimately.

Rituals for Radiance isn’t about becoming a different person.
It’s about returning to yourself again. Your beauty, softness, presence.
Your ALIVENESS.

And honestly, if your soul has been craving depth and meaning lately, I really don’t think this is something you want to miss.

I actually think what makes this workshop different is that it’s not another space where you come in for healing.

That energy is for another time should you choose.

This is a room for women who are craving intentionality again.
Women who want life to feel beautiful to wake up to.
Women who are tired of rushing through their days disconnected from themselves.

We’re going to speak about rituals, nervous system nourishment and capacity, beauty, presence, creating moments in your life that actually feel sacred instead of transactional and repetitive.

And the energy already around this feels so special.
Like the kind of morning where you walk out feeling softer, clearer, lighter, inspired going into your day or ending your day or even the moments in between.

I genuinely know the women in the room are going to leave changed in the smallest but most important ways.

And those are usually the moments that alter everything.

I know there are women watching this who keep waiting for life to magically feel better one day.

Like one day they’ll finally slow down. One day they’ll finally prioritise themselves. One day they’ll create beauty and space and intention in their lives again.

But life changes when we start participating in it differently.

That’s really what Rituals for Radiance is.

It’s two hours devoted entirely to you reconnecting with yourself again. Not the productive version or surviving version of you. You.

And for $55 honestly, this is one of the most accessible ways to work with me in person and experience this kind of space.

So if you’ve been feeling the pull, this is me telling you to trust it.

Because I have a feeling this workshop is going to be one of those mornings people talk about afterwards and wish they had come to.

Message me with any questions and / or to book in.

Love Chez 💜

14/05/2026

To the souls who folded me
into the architecture of their ordinary days,
who left me plates of food on my doorstep,
as though my surname had always belonged beside theirs,

you altered something sacred in me.

You taught me that blood is not the only language capable of devotion,
that love can arrive unannounced,
not romantically,
but soft handed and incandescent,
through the quiet humming of human kindness.

And isn’t it extraordinary, really,
how some people inherit your wounds
without ever inheriting your history,
yet still hold you with a kind of tenderness
so unwavering it feels almost holy.

I remember kitchens glowing amber at midnight,
laughter ricocheting off walls like hymns,
the gentle cadence of
“Are you home safe?”
“Have you eaten?”
“Come here, darling.”

Small sentences.
Mundane to some.
But to a heart acquainted with abandonment,
they sounded like sonnets.

So this is for the people
who made room for me before I believed
I was worthy of occupying space,
who stitched belonging into my bones
thread by golden thread,
until loneliness itself began to unthread.

And if love is measured
not by lineage but by who remains,
then perhaps family has never just been about blood at all,

but about the rare souls
who see your fractures clearly
and still choose, repeatedly,
to call you one of their own.

From my heart to yours, thank you 💜
Written by Chez Stanley

13/05/2026

Some people will misunderstand you the moment you stop making yourself smaller.

You will not have become cruel or arrogant, but the version of you they were most familiar with, stayed quiet to keep the peace.

You were praised more for your silence than your truth.
“Just be a good girl and stay quiet”
Wild right?

For a long time, I confused self abandonment with kindness.

I thought being “easygoing” meant swallowing discomfort.
I thought maturity meant over explaining, softening boundaries, diluting instinct and tolerating behaviour that chipped away at my nervous system and self respect.

But suppression has a huge cost darlings.

The body keeps score.
Resentment builds.
Silence becomes heavier than the discomfort of finally speaking.

I do not say things to humiliate people.
I do not use my voice to dominate, shame, or create division.

But I also no longer participate in pretending unhealthy dynamics are healthy simply because honesty makes people uncomfortable.

There is a difference between being unkind and being direct.
There is a difference between attacking somebody and holding them accountable.
And there is a difference between conflict and self respect.

I think a lot of people who spent years over accommodating others eventually reach a point where their voice returns, because it was buried for so long.

Mine did.

And I am learning that mature communication is the ability to deliver truth without cruelty.
To speak with steadiness not spite.
Not abandoning yourself just because somebody else may dislike what you have to say.

Suppression has consequences. Chronic stress, hypervigilance, resentment, emotional constriction, years of swallowing truth, eventually it asks for a toll.

I learnt that the hard way.

And whilst I cannot change the years I spent shrinking myself to protect the comfort of others, I now choose differently for the greater good.

12/05/2026

Hey you, yeah you 💜
You are not falling apart darling.
You are outgrowing a life that could no longer contain who you are emerging into.

Your evolution begins to demand everything your old identity once depended upon.

The friendships that only fit the version of you who stayed quiet or were hurting.
They don’t like you shining? Ok, so there’s the door. Watch them leave, because I’m not dimming to squash their insecurities.
The relationships you bled for whilst abandoning yourself in the process.
The coping mechanisms that once kept you alive but no longer allow you to truly live.

And for a while, you grieve.

Like the universe has suddenly abandoned you.
Like everything stable has dissolved.
Like you are standing in the ruins of a life you spent years trying to hold together.

But what if the collapse is not punishment?
What if it is a magnificent INITIATION.
Because every single profound evolving asks for a death beforehand.

The death of the people pleasing, shrinking, betraying your intuition just to remain loved or staying in rooms your soul had already left,

I look at my own life now and realise how many endings were actually merciful beginnings.

The marriage ending.
The betrayals.
The nervous breakdowns.
The chronic pain.
The rebuilding.
The terrifying moments of having absolutely no idea who I was anymore.
And most recently, people who just don’t want to see you win so they remove you from their life (weird).

And yet somehow, amongst all of it, I found my grit, and in turn, myself.
The real version, ready to be bold and bright.
The woman who speaks with proud reverence.
Loves hard but with discernment.
Chooses herself without apology.
Creates from truth instead of fear.
I feel this to my core right now.

So if everything feels messy. If parts of your world are dissolving.
Please do not mistake the in-between for failure.

Some lives do not gently transform.
Some lives combust into something far more beautiful. And isn’t that just magical?

Love Chez 💜

11/05/2026

I’m honoured to be part of the ANO Charity Gala this year and to contribute in a way that feels deeply aligned with the work I do.

I’ve donated a six-session mentoring experience designed to support clarity, growth and alignment, something that can be incredibly powerful at the right time in someone’s life.

This is perfect if you’re feeling stuck, navigating change, going through a transition, or simply wanting to reconnect with yourself and move forward with more clarity and confidence. These sessions are designed to create space, space to reflect, process and realign.

To be able to offer this while supporting VincentCare Victoria’s Marian Community Specialist Family Violence Services makes it even more meaningful.

Bidding is now open via the link in bio.
I truly look forward to supporting the person this reaches.

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Mooroopna, VIC

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+61434017133

Website

http://www.chezstanley.com.au/

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