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Kemar Meaningful Directions Kemar Meaningful Directions is a Melbourne-based service focused on improving mental resilience

Hands up if you’ve ever said to yourself: “You’re such an idiot.” after you’ve messed up or made a mistake?🌿We all do it...
22/08/2025

Hands up if you’ve ever said to yourself: “You’re such an idiot.” after you’ve messed up or made a mistake?
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We all do it - but the way we talk to ourselves matters more than we realise.
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Check out our latest blog about why self-talk is so important, and how to start being kinder to yourself.
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🔗 To read: click on link in comment 👇🏼

Ever find yourself replaying past conversations, mentally drafting that angry email at 3am, or feeling responsible for t...
18/08/2025

Ever find yourself replaying past conversations, mentally drafting that angry email at 3am, or feeling responsible for things completely out of your control?
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Maybe you’ve been caught in the middle of someone else’s conflict or felt completely overwhelmed by life’s pressures.
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It’s exhausting, isn’t it? But here’s the thing: a lot of this stress comes from our own minds.
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These thoughts - whether they’re anxious, self-critical, or just plain overwhelming - pop up uninvited.
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And while we can’t stop them from appearing, we can learn to respond to them differently.
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It’s normal for your brain to generate these thoughts. It’s NOT normal to let them control your life.
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Imagine going through your day without feeling stuck, drained, or held back by your mind. Imagine sleeping peacefully, feeling calm, and moving forward with clarity and confidence.
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You don’t have to live at the mercy of your thoughts. With simple, powerful techniques, you can rewire your brain to handle troubling thoughts better. Curious?
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Learn how with the Meaningful Directions self-directed online program.
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Discover how to:
▪️Break free from anxious rumination.
▪️Find calm amidst life’s chaos.
▪️Better cope with difficult emotions
▪️Be more self-compassionate
▪️Build resilience and take control of your mental wellbeing.
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Sign up now and start living with greater ease and purpose.

🔗 To learn more click the link in bio or in comment section below.

Your journey toward a more peaceful mind starts here 💚

“But what do OTs actually do?”It’s a question I still get - even after 20 years in the field. Sometimes it even comes fr...
05/08/2025

“But what do OTs actually do?”

It’s a question I still get - even after 20 years in the field. Sometimes it even comes from close friends and family. And honestly? I don’t blame them. OT can be tricky to explain in a simple, clear way - even for us!

And no – I’m not an occ health and safety officer! 😄 That one comes up more than you’d think!

Occupational Therapy is one of those professions that’s deeply impactful, yet often misunderstood. The people we work with feel the difference it makes… but even they sometimes struggle to describe what OT is.

The thing is - ‘occupation’ isn’t just about paid work (which is what most people assume).
Occupation is everything we do that brings meaning, structure, and connection to our lives.
Yes, that might include work - but also includes activities we do in everyday life. Showering. Playing. Driving. Socialising. Parenting. Cooking. Caring. Creating. Resting.

Occupation is everything that makes up daily life.

When injury, illness, stress, trauma or major life transitions get in the way, OTs help people adapt and reconnect with what matters most.
OT is science-based, evidence-informed, and grounded in deep understanding of the human body, brain, relationships, environment and wellbeing.

The word ‘occupation’ might sound simple - but it’s not.
It holds layers of meaning that reflect just how complex (and human) we all are.

Here at Kemar Meaningful Directions, our work is rooted in this understanding. It’s what sets us apart.
We know that mental health and meaningful daily living are deeply intertwined - and that’s why Occupational Therapy is such a vital part of the picture.

OT can often be the missing link to good mental health. I’m passionate about helping people reconnect with what matters.

That’s the heart of Occupational Therapy - and it’s one of the philosophies that underpins what we do at Kemar - where OT and Psychology come together in a truly holistic way.

~ Pam 🌿

We’re so pleased to see Pam’s beautiful children’s book receiving such heartfelt reviews. Rooted in the same values we s...
01/08/2025

We’re so pleased to see Pam’s beautiful children’s book receiving such heartfelt reviews. Rooted in the same values we share through Kemar - kindness, connection, emotional resilience - this story is helping children (and their grown-ups) navigate life’s ups and downs.

Check out the book here 👉🏼 https://pammypumpkins.wixsite.com/creations/childrensbook

You can learn new ways to approach self-critical, unhelpful thoughts - but that doesn’t mean they magically disappear.🌿T...
28/07/2025

You can learn new ways to approach self-critical, unhelpful thoughts - but that doesn’t mean they magically disappear.
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Thoughts like “I’m useless” or “I’m a bad mum” might still show up from time to time - even after you’ve learned how to handle them better.
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And that’s totally normal.
It’s just how the mind works.
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Think of it like learning a new language. You can become fluent in Spanish, but that doesn’t mean you forget how to speak English. In the same way, you can get better at defusing from unhelpful thoughts, but that doesn’t mean those thoughts stop appearing.
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So, if you’ve done our program and are using some of the defusion techniques—but those old thoughts still pop up—it doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong.
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Remember: the goal isn’t to get rid of the thoughts or change them, but to notice them and untangle from them.
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Keep practising. You’re doing better than you think.
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And don’t forget - you can log into the Participant Zone on our website to access bonus tools, downloads, and resources to keep you going. Go to: https://www.kemar.org

Snappy? Exhausted? Overwhelmed?You’re not broken - you’re just carrying too much!🌿Most of us were never taught how to ma...
08/07/2025

Snappy? Exhausted? Overwhelmed?
You’re not broken - you’re just carrying too much!
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Most of us were never taught how to manage our thoughts, our minds, or our emotions.
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But it’s never too late to learn.
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You don’t need fixing.
You need support.
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That’s what we’re doing at Kemar - rebuilding from the inside out, without shame, without pressure. Helping you to reset, and reconnect with yourself.
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Not because you’re doing life wrong -
But because you deserve something gentler than just pushing through.
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Finding calm in the chaos isn’t easy - but you’re not alone. Follow us, and invite a friend who needs this too.

Are you setting goals a co**se could do better than you?No, seriously. There’s a thing called a “dead person’s goal” - a...
04/07/2025

Are you setting goals a co**se could do better than you?
No, seriously. There’s a thing called a “dead person’s goal” - and chances are, you’ve set one (or a few!) before.
Think: “I just want to stop procrastinating” or “I want to stop binge eating.”
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But what if there’s a better, more energising way to think about change?
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I just wrote a blog about this brilliant mindset shift - it’s a little fun, practical, and might just help you set goals that actually feel good to work toward.
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To read the blog - the link is in the comments 👇🏼

As the temperature drops, it’s easy to feel run down, isolated, or low in mood. 🌿But there are plenty of ways to maintai...
03/07/2025

As the temperature drops, it’s easy to feel run down, isolated, or low in mood.
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But there are plenty of ways to maintain your mental well-being through the colder months.
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Swipe through to see some useful tips and reminders to help you prepare and navigate these changes 👉🏼
MentalHealth. WinterWellness. SelfCare. StayConnected. LightTherapy. HealthyMind. WomenSupportingWomen. WomensMentalWellbeing.

Feeling a little off lately? You’re not alone.🌿As winter rolls on, it’s easy to pull back - especially if you’re sick, t...
03/07/2025

Feeling a little off lately? You’re not alone.
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As winter rolls on, it’s easy to pull back - especially if you’re sick, tired, or just low in energy. But sometimes what we really need is connection.
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As Dr. Vivek Murthy says:
“Loneliness is different than isolation and solitude. Loneliness is a subjective feeling where the connections we need are greater than the connections we have. In the gap, we experience loneliness. It’s distinct from the objective state of isolation, which is determined by the number of people around you.”
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It’s not just about how many people are around you - although connecting with other people matters deeply - connection doesn’t only come from being with others.
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Take a moment to reconnect with:
• Nature
• Pets
• A hobby that lights you up
• Study or work that gives purpose
• A song that speaks to your soul
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Connection helps us remember who we are - and what matters.
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If you’re needing more of that in your life, we here at Kemar are here to empower you. Let’s reconnect - with ourselves and with the things that keep us going!
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What will you connect with this week?

Self-care doesn’t always look the way people expect it to. 🌿▫️Sometimes it’s saying no to plans when you’re exhausted.▫️...
27/06/2025

Self-care doesn’t always look the way people expect it to.
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▫️Sometimes it’s saying no to plans when you’re exhausted.
▫️Sometimes it’s finally replying to that scary email you’ve been putting off.
▫️Sometimes it’s crying in your car, because letting it out is how you take care of yourself that day.
▫️And sometimes? It’s turning off your phone, ordering takeaway, and watching trashy TV without guilt.
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Self-care isn’t always polished or pretty. It’s not always candles and bubble baths (though those are lovely too)!
It’s whatever you need to tend to yourself - your body, your mind, your boundaries.

I recently had knee surgery.Don’t worry - I’m not sharing this for sympathy (I’m doing fine, thank you for wondering! 😆)...
25/06/2025

I recently had knee surgery.
Don’t worry - I’m not sharing this for sympathy (I’m doing fine, thank you for wondering! 😆).
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But it has really slowed me down. And if you know me, you’ll know I’m not exactly known for my relaxed pace. My mum says I practically sprinted out of the womb - and I’ve been moving at full speed ever since!
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So, not being able to rush around for the past eight weeks has been… different.
But to my surprise, I’ve actually found it refreshing. In fact, I feel calmer, clearer, and somehow have gotten more done than when I was running full speed. Who knew rest could be so effective?
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This experience reminded me of a blog post I wrote earlier this year ‘Slowing Down to Speed Up: Why Doing Less Can Actually Help You Achieve More’.
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It’s about the idea that doing less can actually help us achieve more - something I’ve come to appreciate more deeply during recovery.

👉 If you’ve ever struggled to slow down, or felt guilty for resting, you might find this an encouraging read! Link in comments👇🏼
~ Pam

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