05/06/2018
Why don’t people find themselves s*xy?
In a world surrounded by s*x, why is it that so many of us disregard our own s*xiness? Even I have had moments, years even, where I just don’t feel s*xy, or attractive. Where do these conformed views of what is s*xy come from? Are we really that manipulated by media that only a certain percentage of the human race is s*xy?
The ‘s*xy’ window tends to be 16-21 year old woman, which, if you look at the most searched word on p**n sites its ‘teens’… There is more to s*xy then that!
Imagine if everyone suddenly saw their own individual s*xiness, you would see people striding down the street, holding their heads high, engaging with others with confidence and sass. Low self-esteem is learnt, we aren’t born with it, although are we born with high self-esteem or do we need to learn that too?
I found that I only accepted my own s*xiness when I started to take n**e photos of myself, some may call this vein but body exploration was a fantastic way to accept who I am, the good and the bad bits, they are all part of who I am. Sure, we all have the parts of us that we don’t like as much, so focus on the bits you DO love. The more I speak of this with others, the more I see people’s low self-esteem bubbling to the surface. A lot of people say they wont take photos of themselves because it’s just not something they would do, or they are cautious about where it would end up, but why? Especially if its not getting put anywhere, keep it for YOU, to look at and LEARN to ADORE what you see.
When I keep asking them; why? It comes down to the clear fact they don’t find their body attractive or s*xy, they are comparing themselves to the 1% of naked people on the Internet and not seeing their individual s*xiness. Sexy comes in ALL shapes, ALL sizes and ALL ages, and it certainly is more than the physical aspect, personality is s*xy too. Men and woman need to embrace their sensuality, it's liberating and my goodness it feels great.
Do you find your self s*xy?
